Heyy from Long Island!

Hey guys! My name is Alex, I have just turned 20 years young, and am living in a small city on the north shore of Long Island, NY. Oh, and I am also a guy. :smiley:

I stumbled upon this community through happenstance. A good friend of mine was discussing pheromones with me many months ago, but I didn’t think much on it. It wasn’t until recently that I actually researched a bit into mones, and this site came to the limelight!! I have since lurked for a few days, reading info about the different products, the science of pheromones, peoples insights, etc etc.

Needless to say, I was quite fascinated with the plethora of info and experiences with them, I was also (am still a bit) skeptical of the fantastic results that people here report, but given the sheer number of people with positive (and very inspiring) experiences, I decided to take the plunge! And here I am. :slight_smile:

I am what you may describe as introverted, but the past 3 years or so I have really gained alot of confidence and have become much more outgoing. I credit the bulk of this transformation to my newly gained insights on healthy lifestyle and diet, along with healthy doses of social interaction, even when I loathe it! Its the medicine that tastes bitter, but only at first. :wink: I think I am quite confident and eloquent, but it is the meeting of new people, that I have trouble…the shy tendencies have a way of showing up.. there is the voice inside my head that keeps me from reaching my true potential in many given situations..but I am working on it! And it seems the pheromones could help me with that extra push. :o

I feel that the Instant Shine would work wonders for me, as well as a few of the different putative mones…there is just so much to learn and experience within this arena, that I am very excited to see what could come of it all! It is a little bit overwhelming, but I am quite sure I will learn much, much more as time goes by, there are quite a few people here that are storehouses of information! My favorite aspect of this community, though… is the fact that everyone seems so friendly and welcoming, this is a big part of why I am here now, and I am sure I will be here for quite a while! :smiley:

Anyways, I think that a problem I have is that sometimes I seem nervous around other people, and that probably has an effect on others perception of me/interaction with me, etc.. What would you folks recommend for softening the barriers a little bit?

I think IO might help others open up to you. Instant shine would help you feel more upbeat and confident, which could help you open up to others. Also, IH makes you and others feel close and connected, so it might help too. Also, I recommend IG to help you feel more manly and confident, and AMMO to help you sexually attract females. OTehr Q’s?

The key to gettin over shyness though is to go out and talk to others. Put yourself out there and try not to worry much about what others think. Good luck!

Hey, hey, Hey! Welcome to the forum, Alex!

Your ahead of the curve, it seems, with your diligence in reading other’s posts!

IShine will be the one product I always recommend!!! I love the stuff! Great self effects, smile in a bottle!

For shyness I think a more alpha vibe is good for you and others to feel the same toward you. Instant Gentleman for a strapping young man like you would be my recommendation. Mix IG + IS =George Clooney! Well, it will get you more a cool guy, fun to be with vibe.

Welcome aboard and hope to see your own thoughts plastered around here!

I would stay away from putatives for now since you’re new.

However, since you’ve taken the step for self development and working on yoru confidence. I would say go for A314. Just by the way you’ve explained yourself here in the intro section, I believe you have the patience, maturity, and drive to reap the best benefits that pheromones like A314 could offer. Approach anxiety is hard, I get it to this day but it wasn’t as bad as it was a long long time ago. A314 helps with your inner game and it brings out the best you have to offer and the confidence to get it done.

You’ll probably research here and find P130 helps alleviate that problem but no one can purchase it at this time. As for being shy and conversations, pick up CTTM, if you find that conversations need to be more lighthearted then go for IO and if you feel that they can have more depth then purchase IH, however most people get CTTM and really really like it.

Awesome stuff! I do think that IShine would be right up my alley. And yea, I agree with the shyness thing as well, its really the only way to truly get over it in my opinion, so I try to push myself into those situations whenever possible.. :smiley:

Hey there, thanks for the warm welcome! Instant Shine is lookin’ like a real winner for my situation.. probably will be the first one I buy. Very excited!

Ahh, very good… A314 has intrigued me greatly since I learned of it, but I think I need a bit more experience under my belt for that one.. it looks like an invaluable part of many peoples arsenals.

Instant Openness does seem like it suits me perfectly as well! My interactions could use a dose of lightheartedness… I am a true realist, and its hard to become enthusiastic/charismatic in many situations. :o Come Talk to Me seems quite interesting, I might need to get this one as well! xD

Thanks for the awesome replies, guys! I feel at home already, and I hope to be able to contribute much to the community! :smiley:

Oh, but one question.. does anyone find that you build a tolerance to pheromones that you wear, if you wear them frequently? I plan on keeping my usage down as much as possible, mainly as a helping hand, and of course for experimentation purposes… :wink:

Just like how your body gets used to anything you consume, exposed, or do. But it doesn’t mean its effects aren’t still pronounced.

I was a newbie and A314 was my first real purchase (sans to-go) and it really helped further my understanding on these things and helped with congruency. If its monetary issues do stay away from it, but if you’re in here for long haul, no need to wait it out.

I think that IG and A314 are different enough to warrant different situations.

Take this in context, A314 is like Anthony Hopkins in the film “Meet Joe Black” and IG being Brad Pitt.

If you already know that mones work and you want to be the man, A314 is deifnitely it. If you have a soft complexion, A314 = amazing. It would make you appear like Obama or John Edwards, a former VP candidate. However, IG is better for those with “darker” or more serious complexion. It would lighten you up.

Welcome to Pherotalk Seeker!

From your avatar I would have never guessed you are a guy. :stuck_out_tongue:

I am glad you have come here and feel that we can help you with the progress that has started.

There is much positive and progressive energy here to keep anyone interested. Plus load of information about any and everything that will stimulate your mind.

Enjoy your products and keep us updated on your progress and what is going on with you.

Your gc was issued. :slight_smile:

Thanks alot for the all the info and tips guys! I have a good feeling about this place! :wink: I also have many things to think about in terms of what I will be using to initiate myself into this intriguing world of mones.. :smiley:

Yes, ahaha… It is a pretty blonde standing next to my dream car, a Nissan Skyline GTR :wink:

Thank you for the GC, that’s just awesome! :smiley:

I will keep you guys posted on my phero experimentation, after I decide on what to order.

:cool: