The more I read, the more I wonder what would happen. For instance: What would happen If you mixed Instant Jerk with female magic, and Instant Openess. With this mix would my wife want sex more often. This is one of my goals.
That would give you some mixed signals, which won’t be very good or effective. And don’t wear instant jerk around your wife, bad idea. She will probably doubt you or something
Instant jerk has some copulins (Female scent) in it. IF she does not know you have it on and what to expect she might think that you have been with another woman. Not sure what that would do for your marriage … I’ll leave that one up to you.
PS - this area is really for Introduction posts only ie “Hello, my name is … etc. etc.” This migh be best in the mens section. Maybe you or Tisha could move it over.
Thank you.
Exactly right… Instant Jerk and Marriage… Not good bedfellows.
What phero or mix would work for my desired goal, to have my wife interested or better yet wild for sex?
I’d say a safe place to start might be Turn Up The Heat.
Maybe Im not doing it right. 1 drop A314 split behind each ear, 2 sprays of Turn Up The Heat to the chest, and 2 sprays of instant openess. This combination did make my neighbor’s dog growl at me (Normally we get along great without pheros). unfortunatelly NO animal from my wife.
My next purchase I was thinking Female magic or ammo, any thoughts twords my goal.
Well, if you and your neighbor’s dog normally get along great, then the pheromones probably are working.
At this point, I say slow down and work with one item at a time. The reason for this is because you’re not attempting to attract other women, you’re specifically trying to target your wife.
Everyone has a unique reaction to pheromones, so you need to spend time finding out what works best for your wife. On the other hand, everyone has a unique pheromone signature to begin with, so that means you need to find what pheromones work best for you.
The only way to ever really discover that, is if you isolate each item, and test it on its own for roughly a week.
So, take the A314, try that for a week. (I assume it won’t really be what you’re looking for..I could be wrong though.)
Then take the Turn Up The Heat, and try that alone for a week (I might suggest that you stick to night time for that one, it’s not really an item appropriate for day use.)
Then the Ammo, then the Instant Shine, then the Instant Female Magic, etc etc etc…
Since your target is your wife, I think it’s safe to say you two already have a close relationship. Unless you two are drifting apart emotionally, I don’t know how dramatic some of the social pheromones will seem, since you two already share a lot of interaction.
Personally, I would approach it by trying IMF first (it might be too depressing for you). Then I might try some Instant Shine. Or maybe Instant Honesty, depending what direction you are trying to steer it.
I suppose it really depends what your intentions are. You posted originally that you wanted her to want sex more often. Well, that’s only really gonna happen if she’s comfortable with you. What might stop her from wanting to be intimate with you.
Were you two passionate before, and lately the fire has been dying? Then I would say you two might need to switch it up and doing something exciting and fun together. In which case, I might suggest lots of Shine and maybe some Instant Openness.
Or perhaps something happened, maybe a fight, and you are trying to reconnect with her on an emotional level. Then I might try some Instant Honesty, maybe some IMF and take her out somewhere to do something that she would really enjoy. Careful though, with that Instant Honesty, you might find that she has more things that she wants to talk about, which is great if you two can handle it in a mature manner as it will help clear up a any remaining issues. The IMF would mostly be there to soothe her and relax her.
Or maybe she’s just been stuck in a rut because her work has been very stressful. In that case, I would suggest doing a balance of both nights. Do something that’s fun and exciting, but also something that she would find a little more fun and exciting. I’d wear some Instant Shine, a little Instant Openness, and a tiny bit of IMF. Then again, if the personality was right, Turn Up The Heat might be the right thing to kick her out of her rut.
BUT. That is what I would do, based on my own body chemistry. Maybe your wife doesn’t react to IS. Maybe the Instant Honesty will help develop a much deeper bond than Instant Openness in all cases. I don’t know how your wife will react, nor do I know her general temperament. That is for you to discover.
Wow Phya
That is great advice. Thank you.
You are right about the work thing; stuck in a rut. She was working in excess of 14 hour days, and then bring work home. after all of that for several months she was RIFd(reduction in force) I know I am being selfish, but I want my wife back.
She does respond well with IO using 2 sprays to the hair. The TUTH I have used 2 sprays to the chest. My wife is 52, and I am 47 so 2 might not be enough. I will try separating things out and try and find a magic number. Thanks again Phya
Dr. David, you’re very welcome. ![]()
Wow. 14 hour days!!! Definitely work related. I don’t know if I would be able to spend much time with my girlfriend, if I had to work that much…
I haven’t had much experience with TUTH, so I can’t comment much. But it’s nice to see that your wife reacted well to the Instant Openness. Keep trying for that ‘magic number’ and let us know how it goes!