HI All,
Found this wonderful website many months ago and have been reading religiously and now decided to take the plunge into the pheros.
Just some introduction on myself:
27
male
Malaysian, Asian, Brown skinned
Height: tall
Weight: Slim
Blood type: A
Fitness Level: I workout with weights 4 times a week
Occupation:I work in the finance industry where there are 2 things important: Sales and Presentations
Sexual Drive: Pretty high/normal. i get my hard ons early mornings.
Body Odour: No one has ever said i smelt bad but i do smell.LOL
Looks: Good
Charisma: Good
Social Personality
I have a good circle of friends and no enemies. I am the chatty sort of person in a group setting and not shy to share my point of view. my jokes are pretty much well responded.I get along well with pple of both gender and across any age,race or nationality. With new colleagues e.g, a friend brings me to a group of new pple i have never seen, i open easily and chat well. Only issue, i do not have many close frens. It is as if there is a certain lack of trust for pple to go deeper in telling me what they feel or think.
My goal:
- I become more withdrawn when i go pubs or clubs. I don’t seem to be myself more as compared in a more quieter relaxed setting.
- I tend to have something to hold me back when i want to approach girls. its like that lil bit of spark lacking.
- I hope to make myself look less daunting to be approached and to approach.
Working Life:
I work in a women’s dominated industry which is quite common in the finance industry.I consider myself to be the top 5% performing in my organisation af about 5000 staff (the finance industry is huge). However, it is an industry where office politics and judgement by who u know rather than what u did and how much u contributed has resulted in me being left out in promotions. I get good appraisal reports from my finance directors and chairmans resulting in good bonuses but little promotions.In conclusion, Im missing that small spark to go up that ladder. I have attributed the following reasons:
- No offence to ladies in this forum or reading this, but in a female working environment, women tend to swayed in their emotions rather than being objective.
- Women have a strong grip of their own cliques and networks.
- My presentations and outputs at work are top class. I been described as a leader and excellent in getting results for my assignments.
- Due to 1 and 2, work outputs take a back seat.
My goal:
- I am so close to getting a promotion but failed due to factors above.
- I love my job very much as in the work itself so this is the reason to what keeps me holding on. Selling finance packages is my cup of tea. but i hope to go up the ladder to have more challenges.
My questions:
- For asians, do I have to ensure there more rones than nones? which products are suitable for the above?
- How often should I have an ‘off’ day to prevent OD, once a week?
- My working/social circle contains both caucasians and asians. Its an international finance industry.
My strategy:
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Social Life : Ammo + IS
Clubs: The above + TUTH -
Working Life : Ammo + IS ( to get everyone to notice me first)
(I will observe and add on A314 if required)
Would the above be okay?
Thanks