Hi all! Whats a good ice breaker for a shy guy?

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Hi all. Thanks for your help in advance. First some background. I’m 27, live in colorado and I’m working to finish my engineering degree. I’m pretty redneck or cowboy as some might put it. Don’t confuse me with whitetrash! I am very tidy and dress well almost to the point of being borderline metro, except I like to work with my hands and grew up in the sticks with rural values. I’m a total gearhead, I’d die without gas/diesel. I own my own house and have done well for myself. Got a couple of trucks that are paid off along with some toys. I’m not bad looking, maybe a 6? 5’ 10" 175lbs and could stand to tone up and lose 10lbs. I married my highschool sweetheart (first girl I was ever really with). Got divorced 2 years ago and I am just now actually putting effort into dating.

I was led hear, like many of you, by pherolure. Got some for christmas from a friend who must think I need help.:slight_smile: I started out doing some research to prove my skeptizim right and that led me here. After all the reading I’m still somewhat skeptic cause to be frank, and no offense ment, some of you sound like witchdoctors. :wink: I plan on only using attraction products for the initial icebreaking phase. It seems using stuff long term would be kind of be false advertizing.
So far I haven’t seen any great results from pherlure other than every time I wear it, my female roomate is very irritable and starts arguments about stupid stuff. She probably has a thing for me I think. Nice girl but she is such a fat lazy slob that I can’t stand it. Pherlure also gives me a headache after a while for some reason.
I need some ideas on what to buy at this point. I’m very shy and pessimistic at times, but I feel that if I could break the ice that I could handle myself ok. With people I know well I have often been called the life of the party and I’m pretty funny at times. (My brother has told me that if I had a drink or two and did some standup I could make some $$ at it.)

So my question is if you had $100 to spend what would you recommend for me to try out? Is there a trial pack of stuff I could get? I think some instant shine or openess would be good but what else. I have a feeling that the strong Androtics would not work good for me. I’m dealing with a college campus/town environment so alot of the girls I meet are younger than 21 it seems. I’m more interested in a girl who is just about done with college and is more mature. Is there something that would be geared towards attracting a “good girl”? I’m not interested in the one night stand thing or a girl that does that. Also what type of products would give ME a little confidence boost? Sorry for the long windedness and thanks for the help!

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First off, greetings and welcome to the forum!

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Hi Sledder and Welcome!

If you’re looking for something to help you with your shyness, I’d recommend Instant OPenness. This is a social product that is a total ice breaker..it gets people talking. if you’re looking to meet a high quality female, then I’d recommend A314 (for yourself). This product gives off a alpha/superior man vibe which should attract high quality women to you. Also, to get deep conversations goig, I’d recommend Instant Honesty (based on these forums..I ordered this but have yet to tey it out myself).

Good luck!

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A good start would be the Come Talk to Me product. It is in the experimental test mixes, but it is actually a good starter for what you want to do and is $39.95. That would be a good ice breaker then if you get to the next stage Ammunition would be a good choice and is also $39.95. Ammunition has some attraction pheromones in it while the CTTM mix is purely to get the encounter started and people talking to you. Instant Shine is also a good one but a full bottle is $39.95 and puts you over the $100 limit. Shine reduces peoples personal space and sort of puts a polish on you, Jasmin called it Man Polish. They do sell a To Go size of the Ammunition and the Instant Shine which is 1/6 the size of a full bottle so you could save some money there and bring your total under the $100. Regardless of what you get I would start off with only one or two products and use them until you get a feel for how they work and react with you, everyone is different and different in how each product will be perceived on them.

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Hey Sledder. Great first post. I feel like I can really get to know you here.

Pheromones aren’t a magic bullet, you’re not going to have women push people in mud to hump your leg or anything, but they DO definitely provide a noticable boost.

This is excellent. This tells me you’ll do amazingly with what we have here. Some pheromones have similar functions to alcohol - They drop a few inhibitions here and there, and can really open people up to being expressive and delightful. Instant Shine and Instant Openness are definitely candidates for this type of effect.

Instead of slurring your speech and fogging your memories, though, phero blends like Instant Shine really amp up your charisma, getting you to say the exact right thing at the exact right time. It shuts off the internal sensor so you can just flow.

Sled, you’re basically asking for A314 here. :smiley:

A314 is all ABOUT attracting the good girl, the healthy girl, the ones who are sound mentally. It fends off the crazy courtney love, one night stand types. They’re just not as attrated to the respectable, confident, A314 man.

You’ll probably find yourself all around more confident, even down to the way you carry your spine and the way you walk. The way you speak. You kind of “assume the role” sometimes while wearing pheromones, and A314 will have you speaking and acting like the debonair, respectable man you are.

Gosh, I squirm with delight thinking about a debonair cowboy. I sense that you’ll have charm in droves

Good luck, cowboy. Your gift cert is in your email box.

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Thanks for all the information. You all are a very friendly bunch.
Great post there Jasmin, that some funny stuff! Debonair? Um ya!:roll_eyes: So when does the come hump my leg mix come out?:smiley:

I like the sounds of that! I’m definitely the guy that by the time I’ve had enough to drink, such that I can ask a girl to dance, I ya em too dance to drunk. A “social lubricant” that doesn’t affect function would be great.

I’m not so sure about the A314 yet. I don’t think I want to be wearing anything that could scare people off when I haven’t had a date in a couple months! I’m definitely looking for the good girl long term, but I was just thinking maybe I should pratice my skills on a more easily accessible level? Would 314 create problems when looking for someone slightly younger?

I’m getting over my scepticism some but its hard to believe sometimes when you are more scientific minded. I’ll just have to prove things to myself!
So I think I’ll get: Some regular size Ammuniton because it seems like a nobrainer all around attractant that shouldn’t have any negative effects. Also some Instant shine and then a travel size of CTTM, A314 and Instant openess. Does this sound like a good starter package for what I’m trying to accomplish?
Thanks