Looking to break the ice, and break a long drought

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Hello,

I am a 28 year old male who lives in Milwaukee, WI. I weigh between 240 and 250 pounds, depending on what I am eating and how much I am working out at any given time. I am blond (really blond) haired and blue eyed and I stand at about six feet. I am an INFP personality type. My interests are extremely varied. I like to fish, camp, read, go clubbing(I love to dance), study the better aspects of beer, go to museums, workout, eat at fancy restaurants, cook out in the middle of the woods, watch the Packers, Brewers, and Badgers, Astronomy, Geology, Microbiology, study different religions, hang with friends, crack jokes and act generally crazy, and various other things.
I have a B.S. degree in Medical Technolgy and Geology from UW-Madison and UW-Milwaukee respectively. I work for a large laboratory as a Clinical Microbiologist.

I am interested in Pheromones for a few different reasons. First I want to attract more women that I am interested in, for both sex and a longer term relationship, maybe even marriage, but lets not get a head of ourselves. I would love to beable to pick women up at dance clubs. I am hoping that I can find something to help break the ice. I guess you could say I am shy, when I comes to initiating a coversation with a beautiful woman that I don’t know. I hate to admit it but I have low confidence when it comes to picking up women, and I have an irrational fear of rejection. Which I have never really understood, because I have confidence in every other facet of my life including my work, making new friends, fighting(don’t like to fight, but I am good at it), debating any topic from politics to religion to football. I have many friends, and many very good friends, but I am sick of ending up in the friend category with women I am attracted to.

I am also interested in getting a little boost in perception at work. I work with almost all women some very beautiful and intelligent. I am interested in how pheromones will improve my relationship with these ladies, but I don’t think I would want to arouse them, well at least not at work.

Finally the other reason I am interested in pheromones involves the scientist in me and if the theory of persuasion of human emotions and desires through an unseen chemical is legit. I am quite skeptical of this theory, but hopefully I can prove myself wrong with your help.

Seth.

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Hey Sluggo,

Welcome to pherotalk. A lot of people have that fear of rejection; it is a defense mechanism that we put in place for very good reason. There are some products here that may help you at, though.

Off the bat, if you are getting dumped into friends zone with women completely, Ammo will be good for you. It has -none which will give you a slight sexual signature. If you are giving off such a signature, women will not just see you as a friend, but as a potential mate. This is what you want. Instant Shine is another de facto suggestion. It will give you a youthful, confident vibe that is also attractive in its own right.

I am not sure how your conversational skills are (it sounds like you are getting dumped into the friends zone, but I am not sure if your shyness also hampers your conversations) but if you feel they are lacking as well, look into IO, IH or CTTM2. CTTM2 is a combination of the ingredients in IO and IH. IO increases communication and chattiness while IH increases the intimacy of conversation.

I’m not sure what to recommend to you for work other than shine. The other workplace pheromone–A314–has some requirements which I don’t believe you meet at the moment.

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Hey Sluggo Welcome to pherotalk buddy.

what a great range of interest and hobbies :slight_smile:

ok you want to attract more women AND you are shy AND have low confidence. this place is a good start.

i would recommand ammo for attraction, its great for beginners like yourself, and its still a popular product here.
to break the ice i suggest Instant Openness, it IS a an ice breaker, people tend to be more chatty and friendly around you, it also gives some self effects too which is also what you need.

for low confidence i would suggets Instant Shine, it tends to make people more upbeat and confident. for work there is nothing better than A314, the effects are subtle at first but they do work, you also need to be congruent with this one very much. another alternative is Instant Gentleman, it also will help you in the confidence department.

good luck and have fun :slight_smile:

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Good to see a fellow INFP~!

You can try Ammo with Instant Honesty for dating, it will help warm girls to the idea of going out with you when you ask them out and is also good while on a date.

Instant Shine will make you feel happy and look like a fun person in social situations.

You can use A314 at work, with some socials to add some friendliness to the dominance.

Good luck!

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Hello Welcome to Pherotalk

I suggest you start with AMMO for a sexy attractive interesting vibe. This can be mildly arousing as well.

IH or IO to increase socialization.

I dont suggest A314 just yet, your shy and need to be more outgoing with this mix to get the best from it. Ishine can be great in a work environment.

If you have questions just ask.

Your GC is on its way :smiley:

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Thanks everyone, I think I will order some Instant Shine and Ammo to start out with. I might try A314 a little later, and use it at work. I might be shy when in comes to picking up unkown women at clubs or bars, but I am definitely not shy at work. I actually work with many individuals who are ten times more introverted than I am, being that most of them are scientific type individuals like me. I would actually be more worried that I might intimidate them, making it harder for converstion.

I cannot seem to get the linkback that someone sent me to work, I think there is something wrong with the link itself.

Thank You,
Sluggo.