Hi folks. 31/M. I’ve been reading a lot about the various products the past day or so. I ended up buying some A314 in the end, but I’m wondering if it was the best decision. I liked all the features and description of A314 but am worried the effect may be too much or wrong for me. I guess I will find out! W/o anything being used, in normal situations, I tend to come off as both shy and unapproachable. I’ve been told that I can appear to come off as “above” people which is not what I intend. But, I do understand what they mean. I am definitely pretty shy around women I am attracted to and I guess I’m looking for something that will help abate that. I am not at all shy once I get to know someone and actually open up quite a lot. It’s just that first impression I need to fix.
Would appreciate any ideas and help. Thanks a lot!
Great to have you as a member of Pherotalk Good that you can gotten A314 It was the right decision to get it Well don’t think too much on the effects may be too much or wrong for you. Try it first & you will see it for yourself how it do for you
For your situation of being shy & unapproachable, try Instant Openness & Instant Shine as these two will be the answer to your situations there. Instant Openness is used to make conservation more smoother & much more approachable while Instant Shine is used to boost confidence & uplift the user mood as well as the people around him
Sounds good. Can either of the other two products you talked about be mixed with A314? Would that be wise? Also, are the Instant products OK for a business environment?
Yes definitely my friend Yes it would be wise to wear A314 along with the two Instant products for a better result & don’t worry both Instant products are 100% ok for a business environment in fact both Instant products are suitable for any place be it at home, outside or work place
Btw just to let you know that Lady Tisha AKA Tisha23 will be the one issuing you your $15GC when she visit your intro
You sould be looking at Ammo, Instant Shine, Instant Openness and Instant Honesty. These pheros wil have positive self-effects for you as well as effecting those around you.
I’m thinking perhaps the social pheros would help you at first. Instant Openness and Instant Honesty are high on my list as the first makes you more approachable and the second enhances the depth of communication.
Instant products are indeed OK for work, if you know how to mix 'em: for that, you have all the wonderful threads written by the members. Check out the stickies in the tips and tricks section, there’s plenty of excellent advice there!
Actually I have to disagree with the above. A314 can be pretty tough for a shy person.
On one hand it will up your confidence and people will take notice.
But on the other hand you usually need to approach or at least give ques and you need to be congruant to the mix to pull it off fully. This means that A314 will give you the leader of the pack alpha aura and your going to need to lead to get the full benefit of the product.
Now this is not to say it will not work at all for you but your gonna need to use a little effort still.
I suggest with your GC you look into IO and IH. These you can use with A314 to slightly soften the mix and make it more attractive.
**Sounds like a good plan, Get Instant Openness and with your 15 GC Look into getting Instant Shine as well these two are great for shy guys and will allow others and yourself to open up more and be approachable. pay the extra few dollars to get both in Togo sizes soo you’ll be set to test the waters and get out of your shell abit