Hi all,
I’m 45, divorced and have been a Realm user since the mid 90’s while I was married. Although I love the scent, as does just about every woman that has smeled me, it doesn’t seem to get me close enough to a close. I also tend to bathe in it becasue I notice it dissipates very quickly on me so the women who like it are normally giving me a hug when they smell it.
I’ve also tried Androstenone Pheromone Concentrate from JPD Inc with no real results that I can remember. It was about 10 years ago or so.
My other big problem is I’m morbidly obese, which I am working on these days again. Down 50 lbs so far. So with that big problem women tend to look at me and quickly look away. Those that do talk to me and like me are married. I also tend to be rather shy, but when I do talk, I am sarcastic in my jokes, which many women do seem to like.
Anyway, I’m now 10 years without love or sex in my like and I’m to a point where I want that again. So now I’m doing pheromone research again to find which products actually work and will help me, and which ones don’t. Sites like this where people actually use the products and give their reviews are far and few between, it looks like so I decided to join up and look at what others have found.
Hi there toyman,
Thats a pretty cool nick.(^^)Thats cool that your already experienced with mones.The realm and androstenone probably dont have enough social components for women to feel a connection to you so that might be why you have difficulty closing.The androstenone pheromone concentrate in particular would be easy to od on since its only androstenone(><)
Hmm,i wouldn’t worry too much about being obese.As long as your making an effort to lose weight and change yourself its all good.50 lbs is already pretty amazing,must have taken a lot of work and effort to lose that.(^^)Hmm,for your situation and for attracting the ladies.I would probably get some ammo as it will give you that sexy and cool vibe,probably something like realm.You might be able to go for double strength since your older.Then some instant shine to make them feel happy and good around you would be a good idea.Since your shy,you may also be interested in some instant openness as it will make you and the people around you more chatty so its a good icebreaker and makes it easier to keep a conversation going(^^)To get a close instant honesty may work better though as it will make conversation deeper and make the girl feel like she has a connection with you(^^)Some TUTH for just before sex to eliminate last minute resistance might also be good.All the best and hope to catch ya around the forums.You should read up on the 2 stickies below if you have the time as they have a lot of good information on how to test the pheromones(^^)
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Hey Toyman!
Androstenone can be bad if it’s not used a certain way… it’s easy to OD on which causes the opposite effec of what’s desired.
So we know that you’re interested in mones for the chick factor… nothing wrong with that but it sounds like you need a confidence booster too..
Ammo is great for that. It’s an all around product that works well in pretty much any situation and amps up your signature.
A314 is pure alpha male…very to-the-point but it can be intimidating unless buffered with some social pheromones such as IShine.
IG is a great pheromone… it’s got a james bond-ish vibe.
Where are you planing to use the mones? Clubs? Coffee Shops?
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Hi Toyman,
Welcome to PTalk.com!
You hit the nail on this forum being fair about reviews. Mones are not magic, it does have it’s negative and positive effects, it is through testing that we know how to buffer and use them effectively
I’m sure that you will enjoy your stay here!
Cheers!
Thank you very much. To answer your question on where I would use the mones, It would be more social settings like clubs and grocery shopping and the such. I’m a full-time caregiver so I don’t go to work at a job everyday anymore. 2-3 nights a week I go out to verious bars or clubs and sing karaoke.
Now here’s the funny part. I’m well known for singing Frank Sinatra and I’ve had a million women tell me I’m wonderful, but I can’t get them to stay and talk after that. Some of that might be my shyness, though. That’s pretty much where I sit with that.
Another part of my problem is a lot of times where I go there are alot of younger women, while they look nice, I do ot want to raise another wife. The older women that do show up, from time to time, often tend to be more stand-offish than I am. Hell we’ve all been hurt once or twice, just some of us take longer to get over it I guess.
Hi again,
Thats cool that you want to wear them in social settings.Must be pretty hard to be a full time caregiver but its good if its for someone you care about.Thats cool that you have a good voice,would be interesting to hear.Particularly if its frank Sinatra since i quite like his songs.Hmm,some instant openness may help with the shyness and getting them to talk.Maybe some instant honesty would be able to help you out with the older women.Will make them feel like they have a connection with you and that your reliable and wont hurt them.All the best and hope you get what you want out of the mones(^_^)
Hey toyman, I’m overweight also and let me let you in on a secret. I really don’t think the right women care much about appearance. I get hits left and right and I’m about 350lbs Confidence will always be far more attractive than a pair of six pack abs.
Welcome to pherotalk Toyman!
There you have it, you received encouragement, first hand experience, info and great product recommendations.
I think working towards a better and healthier you is great and I encourage you to keep it up but if you don’t start working on your confidence now you won’t have it like smellyman said even if you got a 6 pack.
I don’t suggest A314 until you work on your confidence as it will not work the way it should with someone who is shy and not out of their shell. The other recommended products are a great start up though.
Let us know what you decided on and how it worked for you.
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