Hi my name is Andy 43 going on 23!
and I’m from the UK.
Just received my first order and been trying them out A314 and Instant shine.They definately seem to work especially the Instant shine.
Just wondering about Instant Female Magic and how well that works?
Been trying a product called Attractant it seems to do something but not sure whether or not its all in the mind.
Have any of you guys tried this product. BTW its meant to really attract the ladies which is what I’m interested in as well as getting on with others around me.
I suppose I am one of those intimidating types to women as I’m quite well built with a well defined muscular bod and reasonably good looking so ladies tend to shy away from me which makes things hard work as some of you guys will already realise.
So first of all looking to break down barriers.
Any suggestions guys 
Hi Andron
Welcome to the forums, it’s great to see someone else from the UK around - there are a few of us here!
I think Instant Shine is a great choice for breaking down barriers, You might also want to look at Instant Openness and Instant Honesty, Openness generates more conversation, Honesty generates deeper, more quality orientated, conversation.
I know a lot of the guys love Ammo, A314 adds an air of alpha authority, which might not be quite the direction you are looking for. But, I have read that you can add a degree of approachability to it by adding some Instant Shine.
Take a look at the sticky posts at the top of the men’s forum, especially the noob phero bootcamp post. There is some great info there!
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IFM is a possibility.
Also IG. IG may be a better all-around product for you, while IFM will work better on grouchy ladies.
Instant Openness or HOnesty can really break down barriers.
Thanks for that folks! Instant Openness and Instant female magic it is then.
Cant wait to try them out A314 and Instant shine definately seemed to be working last night at the gym ladies were definately looking my way and maintaining eye contact for a little bit longer but still the usual frightened dear in the headlights look!
I just want them to realise that I’m a nice guy really.
So Instant Openness hopefully will do the trick.
Also went in to my usual coffee shop yesterday and the girl who served me who never speaks to me hardly just started talking to me as if she’d known me all her life I was wearing A314 1 drop and two sprays of Instant Shine which I have to say makes me feel great.
Have any of you guys had any experience with the other product I mentioned in my first post Attractant?
how is your physicality when you approach girls? do you face them directly as you walk up ? look at some of the material on physical confidence by pickup 101 - sean newman, an instructor there is quite built/intimidating and discusses how he deals with it. their physical confidence dvd is good, if overpriced but there is lots of free stuff too.
v basic question… do you smile (in a genuine way - depends on the eyes) when you make eye contact?
pheros can help, but working on and developing consciousness about your body language and vibe likely will have a larger payoff in the end.
also - try and get some feedback on how people see you. as tacitus has said, very few of us really have a good sense for how they are perceived by others or on how they can change their behaviour to modify that impression.
Thanks for that.
This is starting to become a real eye opener for me, I will start to look into things like my approach etc.
I am one those people who struggles with a smile as I have insecurities built in to me it seems. I believe that I need to work on this quite a lot.
Instant shine seems to have a very good effect on me as well as others around me. Have ordered Instant female magic and instant openness which may also help, phsychologicaly if nothing else .