I am a male in my 30’s and married, but our sex life has become pretty much perfunctory SOP, two or three times a week, with ME initiating all intimacies. While it has always been my goal to please her as much as myself, and figuring that it is the male’s instinctive pursuit of his own climax that compels his mate’s (as a natural side-effect), her interest seems simply to satisfy me as quickly as possible, so she can get a good night’s REM rest; i.e. serving as little more than a masturbation device, for my exclusive pleasure.
The prospect of subtle male pheromones enhancing her pleasure, and subsequently encouraging her desire for intimacies seems a promising avenue to explore.
While some people seem to regard the use of pheromones as taking an “unfair” advantage, I think they are simply ignoring the multitude of similar
devices that we already employ for the same purpose: cologne, perfume, mouthwash, sexy clothing, alcohol, Viagra, etc. IF pheromones WORK, then perhaps advising your partner that you are using them would be no more ”unfair" than her applying a certain perfume, wearing certain lingerie, or sharing certain drinks that one or both of you find exciting. Ultimately, saving the sexuality of a union may be the best, or even ONLY, way of saving the union itself. While I am anxious to try pheromones, the costs for prospective placebos causes me some hesitation, so I am primarily here subsequent to following the offer of an introductory free sample; if they actually work, then there could be no reasonable advantage in NOT ordering further quantities.