:)Hi all, my name is Shazz (not my real name, but if you really want to know my real name, I can pm you :> )I live in Singapore, of 30+ year old and come across this forum and its main flagship shop when looking for other pheromones.
:DAnyway, I am an introvert, like to do jobs personally and individually. But I’ve practised alot to be an extrovert for quite a long while. So you can say an introvert in the inside and an extrovert in the outside. I have some friends but they are not too frenzy with me. So I like to juice it up a bit by being the ‘guy’ among other guy friends. The one other guys look upon and chase after for a game of soccer and such. I hope I can achieve it here. ;)One more thing, I already have a family, but then I recently went out with a female friend of mine, who was married. It kills me to go out with her secretly behind her hubby’s back. Anyway, I don’t have the luxury to be committed anymore since I have a family. She seems unsure of herself, whether she wants me as a friend or as a lover, since she is always wearing kinky dresses going out with me. I’m not sure whether I can kiss her without getting slapped or not. So confusing! 
I hope you or anyone else can help me to make the flirtation and sexual process faster so that after we make out, we can get on with our own lives. Enough of me babbling…Anyway, thanks…
Well, First off i would like to say welcome and ty for coming here. I know i love this place. It is so informative and everyone here is so friendly. And for your guy friend i would highly recommend a314 for that. But with your girl friend… I really cant say i would do anything since you have a family. Well anyways welcome aboard and hope to talk to ya alot more 
there are some good products to help you with getting that “cool guy” vibe. ig gives off a smooth gentleman vibe that is still very social. a314 gives off more of a leader vibe, and both of these would be great at work or in social times. you can pair it with something like io or ih to help with communication. this is good for those times when your good friends are together and you want to have a good time.
as for your relationship issues, you might get some better feedback on another forum. that certainly is a very complex situation that not many of us know or understand, or are willing to discuss.
Hello Shazzak,
Welcome to the forum.
If you are looking for the man of men vibe, I have to agree to with A314 reccomendations. It truly does have that follow the leader vib. You cant go wrong with IO for your social needs. It is great for icebreaking. Start slow and do some reading around the forum. You will find there is alot of feed back on all of these products.
Again welcome.
Welcome to Pherotalk Shazz!
I did not completely understand everything in your introduction but I am going to comment and when you respond you will fill in the blanks.
You said she was married and that you have a family. What do you mean by you have a family? Are you married or was married yourself?
If you guys go out and she wears clothing that as you put it is kind of suggestive I think she may be trying to tell you something and waiting for you to make the move. If she was recently divorced or just getting back into the dating game she will need some time to adjust.
A314 will be great to bring that kind of impact you want to have on her and to soften the touch add instant shine.
Instant honesty is for a deeper level of communication, you guys already communicate but to make her trust you more so she feels more comfortable around you.
As a fellow woman myself from your post I am not sure if you are taking your lady friend’s into consideration or if you want to hurry up and get to bed with her. If that is the case then I do not encourage it.
Your GC will be issued soon!
Thanks for the information,
One more thing, I am playing a team sport. Is there any effects on the people playing with me, if I were to wear let’s say - A314, instant shine? Will they boost my players’ performances without the steroids and enhancers? I wonder if some teams have been dwelling with mones as I heard here that if you OD then you’ll make men very aggressive and in sports you can get them to be kicked out of the games by the referees…