I am newly single 42 y.o. female. I am recently widowed and starting over again. I live in a very sunny part of California - in fact it can get darned hot out here. I’ll probably ask advice when I receive my new pheros from Androtics Direct. I will make sure to look through the search engine before I do that. I am a dark haired, dark eyed Polynesian mixed with other stuff. I am similar in type to Nicole S. of the Pussy Cat Dolls. It has its pluses and minuses. I am using pheromones to help break the ice, most people (male & female) are intimidated by me, until they get to know me. Personality - I am more like Angelina Jolie, tough-girl cool but easy to talk to once the door is open. I am not one to casually date but I do prefer having male friends. I absolutely don’t believe in friends-with-benefits. My hubby bless his heart was my opposite in every way - he was a tall lanky blue-eyed blonde. He was friendly and approachable. I am hoping that pheros will make me seem friendly and approachable, too!
Hi pink pillow, and welcome to the forum! I am sorry to hear about your husband.
Pheros can indeed make you more friendly and approachable though! I would suggest IO, IH, and Instant Shine for the reason that they are all very social formulas, and help to alleviate the bad Angelina and start in with the awesome Angelina from the get go. 
IO can make people more chatty around you in general, IH makes conversations deeper and more meaningful, and Instant Shine makes you and everyone around you feel better, making it also great for confidence. I suggest you take a look at the women’s pheromone guide (located in my signature) and have a look at some of the products available, perhaps it may spark interest in other products I have not mentioned. If you have any questions about anything, we are all here to help. Also if you stick around you will get a nice $25 gift certificate from the moderator to give you a great start on your pheromone journey.
Cheers,
-mco;
Hi Pink Pillow,
Welcome to the forum.
I agree with Mco on the social pheromones – IO, IH and SHine.
IO is to make you have more conversations with people and IH will make the conversations more quality.
Shine is for uplifting of mood and boost confidence.
Good luck
Hi there pinkpillow.
Welcome to the forum
I am sorry for your lose . I see your ready to step back out there into the world of dating.
Did you already order from the store or are you getting ready to ?
I suggest for a more friendly approachable vibe that you look at Ishine and IO.
Ishine has a magnetic youthful quality to it. Its great for drawing others to us and making giving them a feeling of ease and well being.
I also suggest IO for a attractive social friendly vibe.
If your looking to tone down the intimidation factor I suggest Instant sexiness B. Its not overly sexual although it has some sexy attributes to it.
See you in the forum
Tisha
All great advice from you all. I can’t believe how helpful everyone is. Thanks to everyone who has responded.
I will try IH and IO for starters. I will hold off on Instant Shine. I get enough attention as it is. In fact for my husband’s peace of mind, I had to do all sorts of things to not draw attention to myself. I look awfully young for my age - I could easily pass for someone in their late 20’s. NO BOTOX OR PLASTIC SURGERY - I guess its helped that I have worked out for over 20 years. As for dating, I have never been good at it. All my serious romances started with friends. All in all, you can count them on one hand and the funny thing is that not all fingers will be included. LOL I like to really get to know people so IO and IH sounds awesome.
Welcome to Pherotalk Pinkpillow!
You got quite an interesting forum name btw. I am sorry to hear about your husband passing away. HUGS Just take it one day at a time and you will get there. 
We have a great community of friends here who you can lean on.
They already proved it by their warm welcomes and amazing pheromone advice.
Your GC is on it’s way!
Thank you for your expressions of support and that life is truly one day at a time. I can’t believe how nice everyone is to me. I guess I am not so scary when no one sees me. LOL I have had so many people tell me that there were afraid to talk to me. WHY, WHY, WHY? Oh well, I am totally thrilled to find Androtics Direct and this forum. I found the company name on Yahoo Answers. Someone was asking about pheromones and another person recommended Androtics Direct. This will definitely help me with my rusty social skills. At the very least, I know it will break the ice.
My forum name is related to my real name which includes the word Pink. My parents were not hippies but they may as well have been.
Pinkpillow