Hi all, I am 33, female and live in the UK. I am a perfumer so I find the link between scent and emotions, behaviour etc very interesting. I suppose I originally became interested in pheromones in order to find something which may help to recapture the closeness in my marital relationship. With 2 very young children and a full time business, intimacy has become somewhat lacking - I have also gained some weight so self confidence is a little low. My husband is still attracted to me and makes this very clear but the problem is me, between feeling very tired and having little confidence, intimacy is the last thing on my mind.
I am looking for something to make me feel sexy and more confident.
Also something to help with intimacy and bonding rather than sex - if it leads there then great but if not that is fine too.
A few questions if I may:
Do pheros work in wax? (candles, wax melts etc)
Are they safe to wear around children? Could they have any adverse affect if I was wearing a phero and then had to pick one of my children up? - probably a silly question but be nice, I’m a newbie.
First about the wax question: I’d suggest you just use pheros like normal perfume. I’ve personally never heard of anyone using them in wax but I’ll leave this question to others who may have different opinions.
2nd: If you’re trying to strenthen the bond between you and your hubby then I suggest Instant Honesty because it is a great phero at helping to bring people together and it really helps people to bond.
Instant Shine is another good choice to help elevate your mood and to make your hubby more cheerful as well.
Oh and yes pheros are safe to wear around children.
Instant Shine (2x concentration) and Instant Sexyness A or B (do a search and see which might fit your personality better). Instant Honesty if you want to strengthen your bond to your husband. Instant Shine is a great mood lifter and adds a youthful feeling for the wearer. Instant Sexiness is just that … gives you a sexy vibe that hubby should enjoy. There are many more products (advanced) that may help also, but you need to get a handle on the commercial products first. Welcome aboard.
You may be surprised that many men and women come on this forum with this exact problem. In terms of confidence, tell me about it. I put on a little weight after my daughter was gone and I let that affect me greatly.
Confidence has so much to do with you and that’s where pheromones comes in. It is not a magic potion and is going to bring out what is already there and assist you in enhancing the attributes you want to achieve.
I will suggest Instant shine because it is a feel good pheromone that is a must have. This first time I tried this it lifted my spirits right up and when I wore it around my very critical cousin who couldn’t stop complimenting me. It was the beginning of something great.
Instant honesty is a communication pheromone but on a deeper level. I am sure your husband yourself are not that bad in that department but a little help never hurt anyone.
There are a few more products that you should pick up but at this time they are out of stock so we will work with these for now and I urge you to read the thread am going to include and anytime you need any more advice PM or call our pheromone expert Steve.
