Hello. My name is Julia and I am a 29 year old female in Sacramento, CA. I am taking online classes to get my teaching credential for Earth Science and Biology and work at an independent study school (Options for Youth) as a science and math tutor and part time science teacher.
I’m here because my best friend and her husband both use pheromones and have been spraying me with various combos over the last few months. (Sometimes they even tell me what they do 
) I have noticed definite, immediate effects on my personality and in the attitudes and energy of groups we’re in, and decided to start experimenting with them on my own.
My biggest hope is that pheros will help me relax a bit in social situations and maybe meet someone to start a life and a family with. I tend to come across as shy and reserved when people first meet me, especially if I’m in a new place and/or surrounded by a lot of new people. I am not usually the type to jump headfirst into new social situations and prefer to sit back and listen for a while before I speak up. This is deceiving though, as any of my friends will tell you, because I can be very social and have even been called the life of the party 
, it just depends on who I’m with and what mood I’m in. I’m also quite impulsive when it comes to anything else in life, just not people (unless I’ll never see them again). Unfortunately, I do usually take time to warm up and its often hard to get people, especially men, past that first impression.
Any suggestions for combos to relax and “go with the flow” when meeting new people at the local bar, etc.?
Also, I’ll be in a rather high-stress situation at the end of the month in which I must assert and maintain my authority over a rather large group of actors at a renaissance faire. My friends are portraying the court of Herny VIII and I’m the one who gets to be director and stage manager to make sure things run smoothly and do all the last minute decision making. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. This is something I know I can do, but it is well outside my comfort zone.
Hello Rennie and welcome!
To help with jumping headfirst into new social situations, I suggest Instant Shine and Instant Openness.
For authority, A314 works great. It really raises respect.
I hope this helps, and I hope to see you on the forum!
Hi Julia,
Welcome to the forum
I would suggest a good combo to start with Instant Shine, instant openness or CTTM for social situations.
If you want to just sit back and listen posibilly Insstant Honesty I’ve done it. Funny what people say.
Chris
Hey SilentScope,
Welcome to the forum! I personally love Instant shine as it can help give you a fun vibe from the outset. As the others have suggested Instant Openness is said to be great as an Icebreaker though I haven’t tried it on it’s own.
I wonder, are the pheromones you’ve been sprayed with from here? I’m sure you’ll be having your own crazy experiments soon.
Good Luck with it all!
looks like renny now has a female counterpart 
Hello Rennie and welcome to the forum.
We would love to know who your friends are (forum user names), if they post and what you have been trying.
Hi Rennie. Sounds like you have a real advantage as a beginner, b/c you already have been exposed to what pheros can do, and you have people around you with some experience.
As some others have said, Instant Openness is a good icebreaker, it gets the conversations started. Instant Shine is wonderful; it lends you an air of youthful vigor and fun that attracts people to you.
Have fun experimenting.
Mco-gnv, that is a really cute avatar you have there.
Hi Rennie. It sounds like you have an advantage as a beginner, since you have already been exposed to pheromones and have people around you who have some experience.
As an icebreaker, Instant Openness is great. It gets the conversations started. I really like Instant Shine, as it lends an air of youthful vigor and fun that attracts people to you.
Have fun experimenting.
Mco-gnv, that is a really cute avatar!
Welcome to the Forum Rennie!
So, you want to move up from being a guinea pig. I experiment with my friends all the time.
Instant shine will help you relax and since you are giving of that bubbly,joyous vibe from wearing it, everyone will want to be around you.
Instant Honesty is a pheromone that is for a deeper more intimate level of communication and so it is something you want to wear around someone you want to get close to and even have a relationship with.
I recommend instant sexiness/b for your personality and to wear when you want to attract that certain guy. You will give of that mysterious, shy girl persona.
Instant Sexiness/A I will recommend for when you want to come across as more confident in a Angela Jolie way.
Both instant sexiness/a and b will make you feel more confident and have you strutting your stuff.
Instant Openness is the ice breaker pheromone that will get people chatty and will be great for the bar, just to chill and have light conversation, nothing heavy.
To assist in the authority situation I have a product in mind and it is in the MX section. Products like these are not recommended for first time users so I suggest you get used to the instant lines first then give our pheromone adviser a call to get advice on some respect pheromones for women.
In the meantime I suggest you read up on the product MX300.
Your GC is on it’s way!