Hey there guys. I am 24 and live in redlands, california. I stumbled across this site and found it quite interesting.
I did an undergraduate research paper about pheromones and the vomeronasal organ in humans, but never got to try things out. I suppose since there is a forum here and I can talk to live people, I can try things out without feeling like its a scam.
I am not really the bar of club goer. I am actually in graduate school so studying takes up most of my time. I have many friends that are girls and study with me, but that seems to be the problem. They see me as a friend and don’t ever think of anything else.
Is there something I could try that would make me seem like more than a friend? Or maybe put me into the mental realm of dating? Again, I’m not the party goer and getting laid is not my primary goal. I just want to have the opportunity to get a little closer.
Welcome to pherotalk
First, I wuld like to let you know this: mones do work. They do help. HOWEVER, if you do not act congruent to the vibe you are giving, you aren’t going to see any real benefits from using them (a.k.a step your game up).
Second, I would suggest you try this mix: IG + IO. Very masculine and fun guy to be around. Add ISHINE to that and you will be set! Ammo would also be another good alternative to really get you out of the friend zone.
Pick whatever suits your needs and personality.
I am not really a shy person and don’t have trouble talking to girls. I just get close to them and typically they don’t tend to see me as a potential guy they would date unless I make that clear from the beginning. Since I am not extremely active in trying to pick girls up, I have a much more low key game that girls like and are receptive to. Hence why I am always with them. Once I’m in though, it seems to be hard to get any further unless they act first (and for some reason the girls you like never like you back and the ones you don’t like always like you hahaha).
I typically don’t usually decide I will try and date someone until I get to know them anyway, so this approach works well for me. I’m not a one-night-stand kinda guy. Now I just need the extra kick for afterwards.
Seridey:
Let me know how things work for you! Ive got some friends who would def get a kick if they could get guys to talk to them cuz of mones
Hi, welcome to the forum! Have you a name, stranger?
Of course, there’s no ‘one size fits all’ when it comes to mones, and you’ll have do do some of your own experimenting, but I’m going to recommend Instant Shine, Instant Openness, Ammo and IG to you. The first two are unisex ‘socials’, but shouldn’t be undermimed. Instant Shine gives you that fun-to-be-around, smiley vibe, and is a real forum favourite. Instant Openness will make the people around you chattier, and maybe take the slight awkwardness out of conversations so everything goes smoothly. Meanwhile Ammo and IG are different, but both ‘attracting’ pheros. Ammo is the masculine, sexy phero and Instant Gentleman will make you seem like a cool, mature guy. Depending on what you think will work best in your situation, give them a go. I think it’s also good to give subtle hints to those girls if you want to escape the friend zone, more touching, playful teasing, eye contact, etc. But no doubt, the pheromones will help with that. Good luck, and please do share your experiences! I hope to see you around.
EDIT: I just saw your reply. I am going to stick with the suggestion of Ammo. Start slow, and work up the doses gradually to find your ‘sweet spot’ - it’s suitable for every day daytime use. See how that goes, and keep us posted!
