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Hi! A big thank you to Mickaelia n Steve for helping me register :slight_smile: Some facts about myself, I’m in my early 30s, female n living in SE Asia. I’m completely new to pheromones n will appreciate any advice that long time users have to share.

I came across pheromones while reading a forum for tips on how to have silky smooth skin :stuck_out_tongue: One link lead to another n here I am :slight_smile: I hope that the products here will work as I read alot of websites that claim pheromones are hocus locus.

What do I hope pheromones will do for me?

  1. improve my relationship on all levels!
    At first, I thought pheromones are purely for sexual attraction n hope that it will spice up my r/s in that area. It’s great to learn about the socials n how it has helped couples cuddle n talk more :slight_smile::slight_smile:

My first question : Lust For Me was the one pheromone I wanted to try. However, this is no longer being offered. Can experts please suggest some alternatives? Instant Sexiness seems to be a general attraction pheromone n I’m looking for something that targets the physical aspect of my r/s.

  1. Smooth the days
    Read quite a few reviews on this forum where the socials help make a workday more pleasant. There was even some reviews on how pheromones can help PMS.

Second question : Are there any oil base products for women ? It’s v v hot n humid here.

Third question : Some posts mention the standard pheromones (like IS, IS etc ) in various scents like Neroli n grapefruit. I don’t see this option nor any description of the scents in the sale section.

Lastly, I really hope this works n will add a little sparkle to our days as the products are expensive.

Hi and welcome to the forum pinkconfetti! :stuck_out_tongue: Chose a smiley for your name. Well first, apparently some people have no effect with mones, or they (the mones) have no effect being worn by some. However: Most of the people here have an awesome time experimenting with the responses you can get from different combinations.

IS/B combined with other things - like the socials can bring about some awesome “display” behaviour. I’m still newish and experimenting with the larger reactions. For some body tackling responses, talk to Tisha23. Her body of knowledge about mones is HUGE and she’s really cool with helping.

Smooth your day? Definitely. Lot’s of times I haven’t bothered to journal the small reactions, expressions of manners, consideration etc that make your day nice to be in.

No, there are no oil based products currently for women. I know what you’re talking about. I used to live in the sub-tropix and the tropix. Again, talk to Tisha; as she may have some ideas on that subject.

Steve and Mickaelia are awesome! Helpful above and beyond. But you will definitely find that out some more, for yourself. Welcome again, read some journals - that’s what they’re there for and plan to have fun with the experiment. :wink:

Hi pinkconfetti, welcome to the forum!

For relationship improvement, I highly recommend Instant Honesty. Instant Honesty adds depth and intimacy to conversations, others will feel more comfortable around you and open up to you more. It is also great for creating and strengthening emotional bonds.

Instant Sexiness B will give you a soft sexy vibe, guys will want to do things for you and protect you. IS/B is one of my faves!

For the physical aspect, unfortunately as you know, Lust After Me is no longer available. However, you can purchase something with similar effects from Love-Scent, it’s called Essence of a Woman copulins. Kind of stinky at first, but after a drydown of maybe 15 minutes, it’s okay, and can be covered by a fragrance if you wish. Copulins are naturally made in our bodies, but as we get older, we produce less of them. Copulins are what makes men aroused by us, and can raise a man’s testosterone level up to 150%.

To smooth the days, definitely go with Instant Shine. Instant Shine will give you and those around you a nice mood-lift. It makes me feel sparkly and peppy, and is one of my staple products as well.

I don’t know about PMS, I’ve been fortunate to have been spared that, thank goodness. But I’m guessing Instant Shine might be ideal for that also.

Unfortunately there are no oil-based products specifically for women, they are all alcohol based, but I live in a tropical climate and they work just fine. There is one oil-based product, A314, which is an alpha trust/confidence/respect product marketed for men. I have been able to use it successfully, but women need to soften it with other products in order to not come off as too harsh. I would not recommend that you try this yet, not until you are comfortable and experienced with the other products first.

It’s great to have another girl here, come join us in the women’s section!

I have to say that Astrea and Sillykitty are both giving you excellent advice. Tisha is THE go-to lady around here for pheromone info! :wink:

I dunno about PMS, but I bet I can advise you here. I am in surgical menopause. If your PMS has the mood swing junk associated with it, then Instant Shine will definitely help. It’s helped me. I had been saving it for times when I was out and about with people (I’m a writer and don’t get out a whole lot, esp. during the week except to gym). Now I use it pretty much every day because it seems to mellow out the grumpies. thinks Maybe helps my hot flashes too, so it might help any physical PMS symptoms a little. But the mood, definitely!

Hi Astrea, thanks for pointing the icon out, just got it fixed :slight_smile:))

Didn’t know there are journals until u mentioned them - they weren’t visible to me before i registered.

Love ur journal n I’m eager to try out the stuff to smooth our days out! Seems like they work for u in that aspect :slight_smile:)))) still considering what to purchase as shopping is $20.

If I have questions on products, do I post here or I’m the female forum? After reading more, tah sounds wonderful too - cuddle phero :slight_smile:

SillyKitty, thank you! I need to digest ur post again n thanks for pointing out eow :slight_smile:

I’m considering getting the to go sprays, any idea how many usage I can get out of them? I notice the a314 for guys mention that it has 40 sprays - is that the same for female to go?

I’m also sad they took away tah cos I love love love to cuddle.

Trying to figure what n how many to get as shipping is $20 but I don’t want to order a bottle n have them not work.

I’m not an alpha female n I like the description of ISb. However i read some comments for others that we should always try both IS. Can I get ur opinion please ?

Hi Boudicca, thanks! My wish list is getting longer n longer :stuck_out_tongue:. How do we catch hold of tisha?

Sometimes i get moody n irritable for no reason, sometimes I cry easily… The mood swings changes each time.

Pinkconfetti, Instant Sexiness A isn’t currently available, and we don’t know when it’ll be back. Word is it’s been discontinued. :frowning:

I can’t really say how many sprays each to-go bottle yields, cuz I didn’t count 'em, but they last me for, oh, a month maybe of continuous use?

And to catch Tisha, pop over into the women’s forum and post a question to her, or PM her. (top right of the screen)

Thanks! Oh dear, all the instants I read about seem to b discontinued :frowning:

Well, I think it’s a matter of getting good, high-quality synthesized molecules, from my understanding. I doubt there are that many labs out there synthesizing mones, and it’s probably expensive to get a really good one. You know, one that doesn’t have impurities and such. When a trusted supplier stops supplying, what’re ya gonna do? Still and all, there are some really good women’s mones still available.

I use IS/b and like it. I wear with Instant Shine and get lots of good vibes. I can go back and forth between alpha and beta female so it works ok. I’ve ordered some A314 which has a strong alpha vibe to it, but it’s designed for men so I’m going to tone it down with some copulins I have ordered. Then I can wear the A314 and cops when I want an alpha vibe, and just wear the IS/b and Shine when I’m good with a less intense vibe.

I’d recommend you start by getting a to-go of IS/b and another of Instant Shine. The first will give you a nice mellow feminine feel; the second will smooth things for you AND the people around you.

:pPinkconfetti, the journals are for members to read - so now you can!
Go to the women journals on forum board and just open a new thread (top left) and that’s your journal. We all read each others and that’s how we all get input and advice/help. I have seen posted that the TOGO! bottles have 40 sprays and the blue (I’m saving for mine now!) have 200.
You can either try to find Tisha’s journal OR look her up on the members list and PM (Private Message) her. Just click on a name for options.
Boudicca is the person to talk to about experimenting with things for PMS and such, she discusses her personal tribulations with her current physical challenges quite openly here - and thank the powers that be for that. Information is power - and she’s sharing her information.
IS/B is AWESOME. Alpha or not; the confidence gained is priceless. You just might be more comfortable with less IS/B and more of . . . maybe IS or IO for approachability.

It’s important that you try them out for yourself; don’t be put off by saying “oh, I’m not an alpha . . .” You’re sweet spot ( a number of sprays) just may be less - or not! Everyone reacts their own way and a few don’t get self effects. Just treat this as the best adventure you’re gonna have in the self discovery arena.

We’re all here to help - really! Most everyone is cool and the whole point is to further knowledge about mones and their effects in the practical, proactive way. I’m glad you found my journal a little helpful. You have no idea how I felt when I realised that IO could a) keep me relaxed enough not to panic b) calms me down when I’m feeling stressed and c) stopped the building panic dead in its tracks! Yay! 4 me. The journals are how we communicate here - remember to read the guys as well; they’re interesting and fun.

You will have fun - if you want to. :smiley:

Welcome to pherotalk Pink!

You are more than welcome and we are always here when you need us. My team of ladies who are taking the intros by storm did an excellent job in helping you out.

I know personally for me P74 tends to assist with my pms as well as shine and I have reported it on the forum but have never seen anyone else report the same.

Putatives are non refundable so I don’t advice you take a chance and purchasing it when it’s so iffy. I suggest you try shine and ask around the female section to see what the other ladies have to say about their pms and these mones. Compare then make a decision.

Your gc was issued! :wink:

Hey, pinkconfetti, have you tried Evening Primrose Oil or Vitex Agnus Castus - sometimes marketed as Vitex.

Help me enormously with all those inconvenient symptoms. :smiley:

It depends on the aspect of PMS you want to combat, but I took magnesium on the advice of an expert friend for achy muscles and my (prescription muscle relaxant-requiring) cramps vanished! So do some research, and there may be other vitamins and minerals you’re low on that can help other aspects. (Food sources are best, of course!)

Hi and welcome!
Wait for your $25 GC, order more than $60 worth for free shipping, and it will cost you about $35 total. :slight_smile: