**hi everyone im new here (duh right?)
im a female, 31, from NYC
its a bit embarrassing to say why im here but well…i have NEVER had much luck with guys ive never been in a relationship; and guys just seem un-attracted to me even when i dress nice and act sweet and friendly.
I suspect its due to my weight…im a size 18-20 dress size
I’ve had my heart torn to shreds so many times
I first heard about pheromone colognes and perfumes several years ago and scoffed at it…but recently i found myself wanting badly to attract a certain guy who is sort of just a friend for now…
being that i realized that have a VERY good sense of smell i just felt it was worth a try…I felt that ANYTHING was worth the try…
I used a roll-on perfume called “Scent Of Eros for Women”…
I’d read that it was highly recommended. I barely had enough money to buy it but i really wanted to try SOMETHING… Im sort of still experimenting with it with “my certain guy”…
MY FIRST REVIEW:
“Scent of Eros for Women”
i barely have any money…but in desperation i searched the web and scrounged up a bit of cash to buy this
Its a nice scent and its…well…its very strange to describe…at first i wasnt used to any pheromone scents and I said “it smells like butt”…
but the more i smell it the more its sort of enticing me…im questioning why it seems like it works on ME (LOLS!!!)
its a very light scent that is like a very gentle floral fragrance in the breeze…It made me feel a little bit confident (or maybe it was the new heels i was wearing) and i did get one man sort of flirting with me briefly as I walked by
I must admit i FELT sexy wearing it; almost like i had a little secret
I like to smell it before i go to sleep…its nice and somewhat calming
did it work on my “certain guy”?
…well its hard to tell; it was a cold day and he’s a smoker (which can ruin your sense of smell) and ive found that in the very cold; smells seem to not “drift”…they sorta stay frozen on you (if that makes any sense )
what i did notice was that my cats seem to like it (ODD!!!) normally then wince and run when they smell perfume…but when i held “Scent of Eros for Women” under their noses they all just sat there, smelled it and began to purr
Not really who i planned to entice but that was just an experiment
i will be attempting this again in few days with “my certain guy” to see if there is any luck…i will report back
so anyway thats my story…im desperately wanting to try all the pheromone perfumes out there…I want to try them ALL…(im like a human guinea pig lol) I want to find the ones that will do the best on me, i need my “love potion”
I don’t want to be sad and crying anymore
i want to feel like a woman and not just a pal
im praying for the right scent…the feeling of lonliness is heartbreaking
One of my girlfriends is about the same size, and you two share the fact that you have a really pretty face (even though I can only see the shape of yours it looks really nice ) But her attitude is AWESOME and she has a great trackrecord with guys.
It would be great for you to try IS, it gives you kind of a “glow” like “hey you look like a shining sun today!”-kinda glow. And the selfeffects might give you the needed attitude.
IS/B is for the sexy-thing, I don’t know the product you have, but I asume its for sexy, so maybe you don’t need that…
Please ask any questions you wan’t, I’m a newbie too, but with all the help people at this forum gives, you’ll feel like an expert in a few days
Hey there, Pikachu… I mean, PiercedPikachu! Welcome to the mone forum!
You know, IS/b and Instant Shine may be really good combo for you. I find that my spidey sense tingles when my wife has on her IS/b. I just got her a 30ml bottle and she wears it often, I can tell!
Instant Shine is my smile in a bottle… as you’ve seen, some products provide a self effect as well as an effect on others. So, Instant Shine has others feeling relaxed around me, wanting to be with me because I give off that at ease vibe…
Well, I don’t recommend trying ALL pheromones out there… some will be a Negative to attraction for you… But, go on by the women’s section and check out the very informative stickies, most by Tisha, to help you out in what mones can do for you.
Now, you have a thought of having this work on ONE target guy… It may be more difficult to get a reaction you want as you don’t know how he will react to mones…
Glad you could come on in, sign up and chat… we, around here, are willing to help out with mone advice and all other kinds as well!
Is there a difference in the effectiveness of the spray perfumes versus the roll on perfumes?
I cant really afford the spray perfumes they’re more pricey**
If you’re thinking about the “togo”'s its a smaller spray. Unless they’ve got brand new stuff I haven’t heard of, theres nu such thing as roll on.
I only own togo’s still, and they are fine, just the same stuff, but an oppertunity to try something before putting down big payment. Theres about 40 sprays in a togo.
I would by the IS if I had to chose only one, and already owned a mone that was about attraction.
Do you remember to calculate with the 25$ gift certificate? When your post is marked “answered” you will recieve an email with a code, and you can then spend them on smartmones.com. I did that and paid very little for my first order, most was shipping because I live in europe.
Oh and by the way, if you need to be inspired to look at yourself in a better way, just watch Grey’s anatomy, the women on that show are HOT, even though many of them are overweight they just got that amazing charisma. I’m about a size “Torres” (maybe smaller now, I think I’ve lost weight lately), and it actually made me feel better to watch how fucking sexy she is in sexscenes, where as I always feel like I’m to big when those anoretic actors take of their clothes…
For the Instant Shine, just give the 1x strength a go… the 2x strength equals to 2 sprays of the 1x…
Are you comparing the IS/b with Scent of Eros? They are different products, though, I’d suggest you pickup the Togo of IS/b and compare them both on yourself… others that have experience with Scent of Eros might be by and chime in…
I see that you’ve been looking through the Stickies as you posted on one of Tisha’s. That’s great! We’ll get you going soon enough, Pika!!
Here is another ‘good’ primer for mones by Steve O:
Hope I understand your question and have helped in an answer.
Taggle and Alpha, that sexy devil , are on spot with their suggestions.
Here’s the deal, kiddo. Alcohol based pheromones hit harder/faster and diffuse more quickly into the air than oil based ones. Oil based anything sticks closer to the body and therefore will diffuse more slowly.
One or the other isn’t better, really, they just perform a bit differently. The effectiveness of any pheromone depends on a few things but to answer your question… if you want to better effect others from a distance, within say 6’-10’ away, then an alcohol based pheromone product would be the better choice in order to expand your “pherocloud”. If your “target” is going to be in close/closer proximity to you for an extended period of time, then an oil based pheromone would work fine.
Oil based products are often preferred by those who live in very warm climates because they last longer and don’t “burn off” as quickly as alcohol based products, so you don’t have the need to refresh them as often. It’s just that the oil based products don’t diffuse as far/fast as alcohol based ones do. BUT you can always just spray one of your favorite perfume/colognes right over it to help diffuse the oil based molecules/pheromones and get them out into the air more quickly.
Anyways, it’s nice to have you here! Have fun, Pika, and if you have any other questions just post 'em over in the women’s forum and the lovely ladies will be happy to help.
No, there are no oil based pheromones presently available at AD, that I’m aware of, except A314. Although they did have a couple of oil based products at one time.
I was answering Pika’s question more so in general terms as to how alcohol and oil products differ, rather than meaning AD products in particular.
Hi and welcome, PiercedPikachu as always, 1Alpha has given some solid advice. I have found (in researching the forum & IRL) that the animal thing is not unusual. I have roommates with a puppy and she goes NUTS for me when I wear the mones. As I said 1Alpha gives good advice and the IS/b is wonderful. The confidence is amazing; you’ll be able to take that on your new heels and strut your booty with confidence; Instant Shine is something you’ll want to have always. People want to be around you, want to help you, want to make you smile (in that way!) and something you can feel smug about. I’d also go for some IO - it’s my current love for completely different reasons and you’re welcome to read my journal for why. Bringing me to the big thing. You can read all the journals if you want. Guys, girls whatever. Read, have a laugh and fun researching. Check 1Alpha’s signature for the links to 2 really vital places to start - which are the recognising hits by Tisha23 and Steve’s Intro to Mones.
BTW this forum is ‘sponsored’ by Androtics Direct, so while they (other brands) may come up in passing; generally speaking this forum is mainly for discussing AD products. Which, by the way, came up in my research as a superior product. I’m devoted. They work. I’m not going anywhere else except as maybe novelty value.
You are lucky I never seen so many women in the intro section especially on one thread. They must love you.
They already gave you some great advise so there is no reason for me to repeat.
I hope you are making use of the information we have on here and the female section.
Just like some men who come here thinking that size is a problem in getting them a relationship it’s about confidence.
If you were in Dominica you would be confident as hell about your size because the men go for the thick , big girls. In fact , the big girls turn up their nose at us skinny girls cuz the men would more choose them.
It’s all about what you want for dinner , a nice juicy steak or a bone.
Hope this forum will assist you in bettering yourself and building your confidence.