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Hi, everyone, I am new to the “pheromones”. Didn’t know they existed till about a week or so ago. You can call me Sam or Seekingadvice, whichever is fine lol.

I am a male, recently turned 20 years old, living in central jersey..

I am not very outgoing in the sense of the club scene..honestly..i’ve been to a few parties but not too much of a club person.. Personally I used to be the type of person where I was in my own world you can say.. I moved around loads, so in a way got accustomed to meeting new people. I’ve moved to areas from a city in one state to another.. On average from 3rd grade, when I came to Jersey, I moved to a different city in a different state every 2 years until I came back to New Jersey back in 10th grade (about 5 and a half years ago). I’ve been here ever since. I used to love sports, and I just got better and better, which boosted my passion for it. That was the one thing that I would do regardless of anything happening in my life. In Jersey, I made nice friends, but the thing is, (not generalizing or anything) I found alot of the people “clever”.. I was a str8 forward person.. I guess I was “innocent” + “honest”.. lol

Leading into my story before i found pheromones:

Basically it was me, and another guy, let’s call him Harry, and the girl, Jess. Me and Harry were close. Jess and Harry became bestfriends.. Harry asked out Jess without me knowing. Harry got the idea that I liked Jess. He told me he would try for me. Harry backstabbed me and made me and Jess not talk. Me and her found out and we got closer to each other than ever before with anyone else. She opened me up..(I was kind of shy/conservative). (Ever since I have been open to her meaning I am not at all shy with her. I have become more social with everyone else as well.) Harry just kept on being persistent and kept losing her trust. Me and her weren’t normal when she talked with Harry. She basically one semester just talked to Harry and the next to me, as circumstances went. I told her how I felt about her and she told she had no feelings for anyone but she told me she was closest to me. She asked me to move on, I told her it’s hard but I will try. Some misunderstanding happened between me and her.. she started talking to Harry and Harry was acting like her boyfriend again and told all his friends to not talk to her and spread some things about her. She found out a couple weeks after me and her finally cleared our misunderstandings and then came to me. Basically she told me “he wont bother me again”. She knows I don’t like her talking to him and vice versa. I feel as if I get along with her while Harry just gets her mad.

If anyone is interested, it’s better if you read the thread I made about my situation. If you guys want to read it and comment on it or even relate!, plz do.

–Special Thanks to Radman513, Hco22, Tisha23, and *Bman123 for writing your opinions and also for trying to help me. I will keep you guys posted.

I got to know about pheromones through a question i asked (Yahoo-A) for the situation i was/ am in. Someone answered it saying “use Axcite and she will be attracted to you” I tried to look up axcite.. at first i asked myself? is this really possible? I kept on trying to read reviews and i heard there was a very good forum by Androtics which was called PheroTalk.. (this one lol). So i decided to read through a few of them and before you know it, I can say it works (even though I myself haven’t used it myself).

Before I knew about this forum, I barely knew anything about pheromones. I am starting to read more and learn more everyday just by reading a few posts on this forum.

I really would like advice on what pheromones I can use to attract the girl I’ve been serious for. I guess I’ve been too nice to her but she tells me everything. She did as well to Harry but I felt like due to the situation and the fact that she was “bestfriends” with Harry while being goodfriends with me she might have taken me to be someone who will be there for her.

Yeah I will be, but in the boyfriend/girlfriend sense. She is traditional type of girl. I believe I am too, thats why I’m not much of a “partier”. She told me one time she would “marry the guy who she goes out with”.

So basically I joined this forum to learn more and for advice on how to get her to have feelings for me.

For those of you who would like to read my story, I will make a second post in this and paste my story and you can read it if you like!

P.S. It seems as if she just wants “best/close friend(s)”

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Hi Sam, welcome to the forum!

And thanks for the great info :slight_smile:

Pheromones won’t make her have feelings for you, but they can certainly help things along.

Ammo is a good one for you to use, it will enhamce your confidence and sex appeal, and is a great all around products that can be used in any environment.

Another one that should help is Instant Honesty. What Instant Honesty does is add intimacy and depth to conversations, others will feel more comfortable and safe around you, and will open up to you more.

Last but not least, there’s Instant Gentleman. Instant Gentleman will give you a more mature aura, you will be percieved as a guy who can be counted on to take care of things when the going gets rough, something most girls really like in a man.

I hope this helps! :slight_smile:

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SillyKitty is right on target with her recommendations … I would add Instant Shine (2x concentration) to that order; it will put you in a great socializing mood. As for the girl … if you are in the friend camp more than likely you will be stuck there. Try to see other girls and make sure she finds out about it. Then ask her out and see how that plays. Best of luck … we have all been there!

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Here’s my story:

(The story involves me (Sam, another guy Harry, and Jess (the girl)).

Me and Harry became close friends but he got to know Jess in college and since i was with Harry, I got to know Jess as well. Jess and Harry were best friends and Harry told me Jess liked me. I told him to drop the subject. But later i agreed okay you can try for me. Behind my back, Harry tried for himself. Me and Jess stopped talking for about 4 months because Harry would make us feel that me and her didn’t want to talk to each other. Me and Jess found out what Harry did with us and me and her became closer than ever. We were never this close to anyone else. Harry still bothered her saying she changed so she started talking to him for the hell of it( after asking me).

Things werent as good as before with me and jess but harry again lost her trust..and he made her choose between me n him. She chose me and she deciced that they both should stop takling and they did stop takling for about couple months. I started talking to Harry because he all of a sudden messaged me saying he regret what he did about a year ago. Anyways Jess and me still became very close again. Harry was jus on the side but Jess and Harry again started talking (because Harry would always be in college when Jess was). I finally told Jess how i felt. She said to give her time…

We discussed this again and she told me that though she was the closest to me than anyone else.. she never had feelings for anyonE! (My other friends couldn’t believe it because it always seemed as if we were sooo close…basically like bf gf kinda…(you know like best friends who understood so much..)

basically she told me she never in her life had feelings for anyone.. i asked her what if in the future she gets them ..will she tell me? she said yeahh but dont wait for me..because what if I dont get those feelings again?

i said okay but if we still have it in future we will tell the other person..

things went on the down from that time due to me and her misunderstanding..
and she started talking to harry again.. she became close to him.. until he lost her trust again and right before she lost her trust to him me n her talked our problem out..

so me n her are close again and what she told Harry was she probably wont be able to forgive him ever again.. and she considered him her best friend?

she told me before that she was the closest to me..she told me many times..and that she was never as close as me n her were at one point with any1 else.. but i do understand that when me n her werent talking for about 3 months due to mine and her misunderstanding..she became close to Harry..

So anyways what do u guys think i should do? I really have had strong feelings for her (even tho i told her i will try to get past it) and it feels as if she is kinda into her career right now and she is hurt by what Harry did again.. but we started seeing each other almost everyday in college now and we are getting close again…

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Thanks for the advice silly and red.

But one thing seems different:

This position seems very complicated, yes it seems like it is “the friend zone” but feels as if there might be a way out.. It has happened before but my situation feels different.

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Well, if its not meant to be, then its not meant to be. I hate to say it, but it almost seems like she’s using you on her rebound. She may be emotionally needy and get close to you because she just doesn’t want to be alone, and you’re convenient, and she’s familiar with you. She may not even realize herself what she’s doing.

I know you care for her, but the best thing you can do right now is to get out there, play with your pheromones, and see what other fish are in the sea.

If its truly meant to be with her, then it’ll happen. But in the meantime, have fun! :slight_smile:

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With that the quesition is, "Is this person right for me" there is a old saying that says, “Hightsight has 20/20 versions,” Isn’t it much easier for you to look back and see thing clearly, that you couldn’t see before.

It much easier for us to be wiser about mistakes that we had yesterday than the one we are in the process of making. I sorry bro, but I see warning signs here; maybe it’s not my place to say. Please, pay more attention to how you are feeling and not how you want the relationship to work, have you experience enough sorrow and pains. I just feel that there’s just to many warmings signs, that I don’t think neither you and her are compatible enough for a healthy relationship. Listen, You deserve better.

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Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too :slight_smile:.

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