Hi. I’m a female living in a southern suburb of St. Paul, MN. I’ve been single for only about 2 years (not my choice). I found this site after seeing an advertisement for Pheromones. Wanted to do some research to see if it seems to really work.
I met a great man more than a year and a half ago. We say we love each other, and we talk every day. (He lives in Arkansas, so I only see him about every 3-6 months.) We spend as much time together as possible when in close proximity - which he always initiates.
We had one great evening of romance. However, when we talk about having a consistently romantic relationship beyond friends, he says he “doesn’t have it for me”.
Since finding information about pheromones, I am wondering if it’s pheromones that is missing when he uses the phrase “have it for me”. He doesn’t seem to be able to describe what that means. Any thoughts?
Once I figure out which product to try, I am going to try it the next time I see him.
I am just hoping someone else has had a similar situation and would be willing to share some insight. Thanks!
Welcome to the forum. What you seek may not be found in the pheros, but they may help to push you in the right way. You cannot change someone’s free will with these… more hint and be subtly suggestive. Over time this may be the push you need to move out of the not so romantic zone.
Before we can suggest anything thought, we will need to know more about you.
What is your personality like? Are you shy or outgoing?
Are you just looking to try and snare the this guy or are you interested in seeing if there’s more opportunities out there for phero use? These can be used for all types of things… respect/work, bonding, romance, sex, and more.
Also, maybe you can give us some more info about your background? You mentioned being single for awhile but not by choice… maybe elaborating on that will help us to get a better idea of how to help you out.
There is a huge amount of information here at your disposal.. user reports and journals, general banter, and the people here are fantastic.
This place has a very ‘family’ type vibe which I’m sure you’ll see.
Anyways… we all look forward to hearing more about you so we can give you some suggestions and get you started on this pheromone honeymoon we’re all enjoying so much =)
I’m not shy, but in a group of people I don’t know, I am sometimes quiet until I’ve observed the dynamics of the group. Some of the product descriptions sound like they might be very helpful in groups when I don’t know people.
I’m a widow.
I realize the pheromones won’t change a person’s free will. A subtle push over time sounds pretty good to me. I’m just trying to understand what is missing for this one particular man. I had come to the conclusion previously that it was likely to be some sensory thing that is unconscious (since he can’t really describe it).
I haven’t met anyone else I’m interested in attracting, but if I did, I might try pheros. I currently work from home, so there isn’t an issue with trying to gain attention, respect, etc. at work.
Because of your current situation, I would suggest something in the Instant Sexiness line to incite some more sensual responses from him. Instant Sexy A is a more dominant ‘Angelina Jolie’ type vibe where Instant Sexy B is a more playful.. kittenish ‘Marilyn Monroe’ vibe.
Also, something that may help him to open up to you about the emotional side of things could be Instant Honesty. This is beta -nol driven and is good for bonding and deeper conversation.
I hope these suggestions help. Doing a search for these products will yield a HUGE amount of information for you from users.
Instant Honesty is so effective at getting people to speak their minds. It might help you figure out what’s lacking in the relationship, and may help your SO be more open about what he’s looking for. It also extends a feeling of trust, so it makes people feel more comfortable and safe.
Instant Sexiness is simply a must for every woman. It is confident and sexy, and since there are two versions of it you can choose the one that works best for your own personality.
IS/a is strong, confident, seductress sort of sexy.
IS/b is softer, playful, more demure sort of sexy.
Both are very fun to wear and make the wearer feel more confident and alluring.
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Awesome… I really do hope this info helps you to achieve moving forward with this gentleman.
Let us know how things go for you. It’s best to keep a journal so you can check back at a later time and really see how you’ve progress, and it gives us a great opportunity to provide more advice and support.
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