How to arouse a man when you're nursing?

My sister-in-law complains to me about my brother not sexing her now that the baby is here and nursing. I’d like to help her (no, not THAT way!) and think it might be the sights and smells of a nursing mother that turns him asexual.

Women who are nursing seem to give off a pheromone that turns men off - they are usually less than fertile anyway although my SiL claims to be ovulating.

She’s certainly horny!

Any ideas or suggestions? If there is a product I could send her, that would be worth a try.

Hi there, Whitehall! Had you ever sent your some mones?

IS/b would be my suggestion, with some P96 for enhancing the IS/b as well as a mood stabilizer for HIM. :slight_smile: If he can get the attraction vibe of IS/b and have it fortified by P96, most any normal hubby would be at his gal.

If you’re interested in her satisfaction, she would need some TAC, for the Extra closure for her, if he only puts out a half hearted attempt, that’s plenty for the TAC to do it’s orgasmic magic on her, @ 20 mu… that’s a Great threshold for that.

Anyway, I hope that helps.

Interesting suggestions.

One poster under “Theory” mentioned that she’s probably giving off intense oxytocin since she is nursing. That probably suppresses his libido.

I haven’t a clue as what would be an “anti-oxytocin” pheromone. I doubt it would be good for the baby if there was such a thing.

The “suppresses his libido” comments is interesting. With my last girlfriend, I found that after things like cuddling with her, I felt less sexually aroused than I did after more physical activities, like doing sports together and such. Let alone something more thrilling, like taking a flying lesson.

There is “anti-oxytocin pheromone”. It’s testosterone. It’s the reason why women bond more from having sex than men do. The surge of testosterone during intercourse in men cancels out some of the bonding effects of oxytocin (which also gets released during sex).