I will do my best to make this as short as possible.
I met this woman and we started dating. After a few weeks and not being able to see each other very much because of the distance and work, she told me that she doesnt feel the chemistry. She has just gotten out of a bad relationship 3 months ago and now thinks it is herself that is the problem.
She says that she feels numb and that I am her type of guy. She is not looking for anyone now, she also doesnt want me to go because she thinks that it could possible be feelings coming down the road. We are still texting and calling all the time and visiting each other on the weekends.
I said that I would wait for her to work through her last relationship but that I am not a friend, but rather a suiter.
I am a 49 year old white male in Las Vegas. I would like to know how to get that chemistry started using mones if that is possible.
She is a 53 year old white female of German decent.
Any tips would be great. She is a keeper!!!
A314 can make a woman feel very connected to you, esp if she is reasonable mature/mature outlook. There are ways to help steer that connection further buf for starters, A314 is fine.
TUTH is more directly sexual and should be used to steer the likes of A314 when the mood turns sexual. Even with mature women, a small amount is sometimes all you need, so as not to upset the A314 too much.
Thanks for the great advice.
What about using P83 and P96 together with A314 during the day and then maybe adding a touch of TUTH in the evening? P83 is reported to have a sensual and romantic effect and P96 a Social bonding with cuddling effect?
I tried it out last time we saw each other and we did cuddle all night and ended up kissing. But they were samples that were not very strong.
Both of those do go well with A314 but keep the P83 for times there will be a reasonable chance of getting physical - P83 is more sensual/uninhibited rather than romantic IMO and often wasted in daytime use where getting physical can be less welcome.
P96 is more emotionally liberating and that can in a sense include being more romantic as well. Its bonding/connecting properties are IME greater when paired with A314.
Thank you very much for your insightfulness. I do have one last question though, I read a lot about AMMO and I am wondering if AMMO would also be a good choice or not.
Ammo is a good alrounder but if you are pushing 50 and she’s 50+ then you will probably find she is more tuned-in to a status/sexual signature than a balanced all-rounder. Even if you use Ammo, you will probabl still need to boost its sexual proportion with some TUTH to suit your ages.
Another point to remember is that if she isn’t long out of a relationship, pushing for another will not likely go-well. Instead, look to have as much fun and pleasure as you can in the moment, without any pressure or suggestion that you want more. This will more likely help bring her feelings round to wanting a relationship again sooner rather than later. Never put yourself in the position of negotiating attraction with her - that is a passion-killer like no-other - and that you ended-up kissing and cuddling, well that does indicate there is a bit more than just friendly feelings here.
And always leave her space for wanting and wondering - The more she thinks about you the more her feelings are likely to turn hot for you - esp where the pheros are involved.
Thank you very much for your advice. I don’t want to push too hard and it is my plan to just have fun and be part of each others lives. I know I have to let her get over her past relationship and what went wrong. But what I want to achieve with mones is that when we are together there is always that underlying attraction. Then when she is ready for a relationship, I will be the one that she naturally will be attracted to.
