Hi all, I’d appreciate any guidance you could provide. This is the best place I can think of to seek help, my friends really aren’t to be trusted with this. Mainly because they’ve not been in the same position as me before and most of them are dirty pervs only after sex (As I’m sure some of you guys are
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Aim - Helping persuade a co-worker I sit next to, who’s already interested in me from my own and a lot other co-workers views, to give a relationship a go (both 21 and went to school together). I think the main problem is from what I can tell, she’s hesitant incase it goes wrong, which is understandable as it could make working in the same office ‘awkward’ to say the least. I don’t plan on letting that happen though! There’s been far too many ‘You don’t dip your pen in company ink’ sayings for my liking at this point… ![]()
She’s currently working 2 days a week and contracted until the end of the year (possibly being increased and extended) - I’m also her supervisor now to make things even more complicated! ![]()
I’ve used A314, Ammo, P83, P74, IHx2, IS separately and have a pretty good understanding of what my sweetspot is for all of these and have played around with a few combos. With this combo involving quite a few different mones, I’m looking for any advice on trying them all out together? Obviously my sweetspot may vary due to me using multiple mones. I’m open to suggestions on any other mones which might help!
Obviously I’ll take into account any views whether this needs changing up. I’ve not actually had the chance to try out A314 with her as I lost my to-go bottle a while back! I’m currently planning another order.
To start off with, she is pretty god dam gorgeous and I’d have to say a couple of digits out of my league! The thing is, we’ve been going out to lunch every day she’s in for nearly 2 months now and there’s progressively been more and more flirting and touching, we’ve really gotten to know each other quite well (compliments of IH). A lot of people in the office already thought we were seeing each other from the way we act with each other. I can tell she’s physically attracted to me, I really seem to be able to make her cry with laughter as well, which I’ve heard is a good thing. I hope it’s from laughter anyway…![]()
It started off with silly things, like her asking me for thumbwars to decide who makes the tea, putting her hair over my head so it’s all over my face comparing colours and that type of shit? Last week we went to her local pub after work and really hit it off for nearly 5 hours. She mentioned doing it again next week at my local, so things are looking okay.
Normally I wouldn’t pursue something like this, but this girl is definitely special
, different to others I’ve been out with. I’m thinking I’ll have to be the one to make the first move, I just don’t want to do it without knowing how she’d feel about it. Not too sure on the best way of doing that either!![]()
Anyway - too much typing, any advice would be appreciated! Ask away, I’m happy to answer any questions. It’d be good to get women’s perspective on things too ![]()