Howdy Howdy and welcome to the forum.
There are quite a few of us here who are married and have started using pheromoens as a way to enhance work, general social life and certainly life at home.
Ammo could definitely help with that day to day spark. It has the same anount of 'none in it as Turn Up The Heat but it is buffered so it gives off a “I am interested signal”.
Instant Honesty would also be good. It helps foster deeper conversations and creates a feeling on connection. And as you well know women equate that feeling of connection to caring which can lead to …
Turn Up The Heat sends out a strong signal. Moe like " I want you now." would recommend it for those times when things could be leaning in that direction.
Instant Female Magic can also help - when she is in “that mood” at that time of the month.
For a good idea of what you are looking at I would recommend reading:
Also my post on the second page of this thread:
Without Pheromones 4 days and it's tough! (Without Pheromones 4 days and it's tough!)
Both I think can give you a good idea of what to expect and not expect, especially at home.