Hi there everyone. My name is John, but everyone calls me Shabadoo. Long story. Anyways, I’m 21 year old male that lives near Chicago, Illinois.
I was introduced to pheromones and this website by a friend of mine, and he actually gave me a little spray bottle to try out. I used it a couple times while I was at work and I got some interesting results.
Umm, I’m a outgoing guy who loves movies and books. I’m currently going to college for Applied Physics, but I’m considering changing my major to Theater with a focus on Acting. I’m typically the “guy friend” and thats how it’s always been. I’m not a fan of being single, and I’ve had a couple girlfriends but they never really lasted. Hopefully, the pheromones that I get will help me stand out and be noticed, as opposed to overlooked and on the sidelines.
I’m pretty sure the one he gave me was Instant Honesty, and the reactions ranged from mild interest from people who i don’t talk to, to non-stop yammering to those i did talk to.
As for the relationships, the first few were just iffy to begin with. I kind of settled for them, and never really was happy. the last two were difficult for me. the penultimate relationship was with a girl i was really attracted to, and thought there was a connection. though she never let me call her my girlfriend, and at times it seemed as though she was purposefully pushing herself away from me. i might have been used in that relationship, not sure.
And as for the last relationship i had, oh geez. she was a little crazy to say the least, and she got super clingy and it freaked me out, not to mention she freaked out my friends. i had to end it. after all, it was only 3 months. after i ended it, she was actually stalking me a little.
So yeah, haven’t really had the best of luck with women.
Anyways, welcome to the forum! I like instant honesty, but ammo is better for general attraction purposes, and getting the attention of some girls. A lot of people use it as a “base” per say, but then again, others prefer A314(respect/status/authority) as their starting point. Heck, many use both!
What specifically are you trying to increase? Your own confidence? Deep conversations? attraction?
Ammo would be the best for you. It would help girls see you as sexy and probably interested. I would also get instant shine and use ammo + is. Use 2x ammo or 2xammo + 2x IShine for about two to three weeks and you should have a bunch of ladies chasing after u.
Welcome, and have fun reading
I think you are in the same position as a lot of other guys. Breaking out of the friendzone can be hard and it can sometimes be to do with self-image…if you don’t see yourself as attractive in “that” way to other people you can’t accept anyone else could see you that way.
In my experience half the time a girl is being friends it’s because they’re curious about something more and when that doesn’t happen they assume it’s because you yourself aren’t interested. A female friend once said as much to me that she wouldn’t hang out with anyone she didn’t have a crush on because they add no social proofing benefit. Shallow, but how many guys hang out with girls they don’t find attractive in some way?
So mones. It sounds like confidence isn’t necessarily an issue but a lot of us find IG is a good way to help project that. You might want to have a look at IShine and IH too - for me those are good bonding products that bring a bit of closeness beyond “normal” friendship.
Ok, so to start out … Ammo and Instant Shine seem to be the best choices, and of course I’ve got to go with I know already works, Instant Honesty. I’m going to have to try them all out eventually, just to see what each does. I’m super excited, as a intrigued client and as a scientist. This is one hell of an experiment.
If anyone else has any other suggestions, please let me know. I’d be more than interested in the reactions that people have seen for each one. Not to mention combos that work efficiently.
