nothing wrong with cute girls.
Although sexy girls turned me on more, I like being close to and having serious relationships with cute girls. I desire to take care of and be near them. Also, I seem to trust them more…
I think if you have a pretty face, cute or sexy, guys WILL like you. Having a nice bod is also a plus!
hey i actually tend to like cute girls more because im able to have a deeper relationship with them and id rather have a deeper relationship than have a girl thats sexy.
Okay just because a guy doesn’t call you sexy doesn’t mean you aren’t because there are certain reasons why guys wont.i don’t call girls sexy for certain reasons
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it can give away my overall intention/in order to increase my status
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wrong situation/place/time/
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we don’t want girls to think we’re weird. if a guy randomly goes up to a girl and tells her she’s sexy or just out of nowhere says it, girls especially around my age are just like "wtf"now for older women it might be slightly different i cant really say much there due to my lack of experience there,but one day i’ll know
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I’ve learned that if i call a girl “Sexy” a lot it’s effect seems to wear off/ diminish the more i use it and it just becomes another basic word like cute. for example i used to call this girl cute a lot and one day her response was just “oh thanks” and that was her response every time i called her that from that day forth . Now the very first time i called her “Sexy” she blushed and
all this other stuff but after a while of calling her “sexy” it wore off -
(okay i know some of you ladies might hate/be mad at me for doing this but its the truth) Well then with that said another reason why i/guys like to call girls cute/adorable even when its quite obvious you are way way way way above that is because we know it gets to some of you girls, and yall tend to go all out and do things just to hear me/us say your sexy
There was this one girl i met she was about a 9-10 on the scale and i always called her cute/adorable but never sexy and it drove her wild, apparently i was the first guy to ever do this(thats what her friend told me). she was so used to guys telling her she was hot/sexy that when she asked me what i thought about her, and i told her she was “adorable” she was kind of surprised.She ended up doing a lot of things just to impress me and for me to just tell her how sexy she was. she was literally chasing after me for about 4 weeks,or a month finally i told her how sexy she was. Of course it was after long story short lets just say she threw herself at me , and also because i felt it she had chased me long enough. Basically im just saying she did all these things and much more just to hear me tell her how sexy she was and also because i acted like i wasn’t really interested, i always told her i only date “sexy” girls.
another perfect example is Mickaelia’s post
Even when lying naked in my most sultry poses I hear cute and it’s just frustrating. I have a plan though.
I am not the make up wearing type so I decided am gonna do up myself and choose a hairstyle that is not me at all to see what
happens.
Just wondering if I should throw in some IS/a to blow him away even further.
just like i said because of being called cute your now going all out and changing around stuff just so you can hear the sweet word “Sexy” you catching my drift?
bottom line im not trying to say anything bad/disrespect anyone all im just trying to say just because a guy doesn’t say your sexy doesn’t mean you aren’t.Another way to see it is “If no one’s telling you that you are SEXY, that’s just because you are SEXY, and they just don’t want to admit it” well at least for me and my friends thats true 
once again im not trying to say anything bad im just saying the truth/main reason why some guys wont say you’re sexy, based on what i’ve learned and what the many guy’s i know have told me
and ladies please don’t be mad at me im just trying to help out :o lol
I think I have a similar problem with the OP.
I don’t think I ever get called ‘sexy’, all I hear is ‘cute’ from time to time.
I think a big part of it is that I’m short and on the chubbier side, (I think if guys honestly judged my face as an attractive one it’s buried under the chubby cheeks and round face at the moment, haha) and I am a bit ougoing and ‘random’ but still, I feel like… like if this keeps going, I’m never going to get called sexy! And that I’m never going to be treated seriously, even?
I suppose I’m grateful that I get cute as it’s better than nothing, haha, but when I get annoyed with a guy (esp one I’m interested in despite being out of my league) laughing, shaking their head and saying ‘you’re so cute’, even still they respond with ‘but you’re just cute’. Hmmm… /rant
All of these are signs of what we cute girls have to bear. All in all I figure that cute it sexy we are sexy but when they say cute most of the time it’s a mixture of our sexiness and personalities.
Sexy sometimes is just the outer where as the word cute and meaning embody so much more.
This is a new year and I have so much more perspective on life and things.
If you change for someone or change because you feel it would make someone love you more or make you love or feel more comfortable with yourself it won’t work.
Accept yourself first for being AMAZING! That you are. Then progress and make the changes necessary for you.
I know am going on and seem like some wise old lady but I learnt so much the past year and so much of it was from pain and risky decisions so I feel I got a lot to say.
I just wanted to say that I completely get this feeling.
I’m five feet tall and half-Asian. Everyone tells me “Aww she’s so cute!” I’m so sick of it! I look like I’m 12 most of the time, unless I present that “sexy” confidence. But even then, I’m still “ridiculously cute”.
Actually, I wanted to buy some Instant Sexiness the other day, but it was out.
And about the serious-relationship with cute girls thing…it IS sort of true. Most of the guys I meet tend to mention how they want to protect their woman and have a feel of manliness about them.
xD
Hello, twin!? I’m exactly as you describe, except I’m full Asian. Hahaha.
In reference to the mentions in this thread that guys would go for ‘cute’ rather than ‘sexy’ for a relationship, that part I admit, I like very much. I would much rather have a long-term relationship with a guy that would maybe even feel the need to protect me, rather than play games or have one-night-stands (IF that was their interpretation of ‘sexy’.)
And thank you Mickaelia for the lovely advice. I feel it’s very real and it is something I always like to keep in mind, and will try to keep in mind. 
I have always wanted to be “sexy” and end up getting “cute” so I can totally agree with the frustration. It seems no matter how hard I try I cant get through that door so to speak.
I have tried everything, and come to the conclusion that I am doomed to be “cute” forever. I would have thought that by the time I hit 31 (which I will be in a matter of days) cute would have long ago passed me by…no such luck. Not ever to long ago I had a guy I was very interested in say “your so cute” I was so miffed I responed with something to the effect of “puppies are cute, kittens are cute..I dont want to be cute.” I think I shocked him a bit…but anyway…
Mick, if you ever happen to find the secret to getting away from cute let me know. Have a great day everyone!
I have been working on it but I find that cute is like a personality along with sexy and if you got to switch from one to the other you got to change so much.
I started getting you are sexy from my boyfriend ever since I changed my wardrobe. Not to be raunchy but less functional and more mouth dropping.
I will attempt to get your guys pics when I can.
My hair went from being up a lot to being down. I am also right now researching articles to get myself from the sexual comfort zone to trying new things.
I am still being me and there are somethings I refuse to wear, somethings I refuse to do and I got my limits but he is a younger dude and and I will be 27 next month so I find that keeping it interesting is necessary.
I can tell you it’s work though but his reaction from all of this has me feeling mad sexy and that has been the word coming out of his mouth.
It won’t last forever because am not about to change everything about me for a guy but just like cute sexy is a whole image with personality , clothes and approach to things all together.
I needed to do this because we hit a bump in our relationship started by my lack of trust and a whole lot of emotional barriers from my past. I am not doing this because of guilt but all through it he decided to stick by me and even with the fights and bullshit he still loves me and I never had that.
Had guys run so easily while I chased so it’s my turn to put in the work to show him I love him.
He understands the effort and know that I will be cute forever but this is what the relationship requires right now.
Lol…here are a few of the things I have been reading :
Tied Up & Blindfolded The Goddess Journals
Sexual Positions Free - Learn Some New Sexual Positions
How to Give a Blowjob - Oral Sex Tips for Her
How to have anal sex without hurting her
I will leave you guys guessing as to what I would do and what I won’t and how far it goes.
Michaelia
Like I said before its a state of mind. You dont have to do any of those things your reading about to be sexy if you dont want to and I dont suggest you do unless its something your truly wanting to do.
Just reading them though and exploring possibilities will change your state of mind. Once you change that your body language will change accordingly on its own. Also your personality and attitudes will slightly change. That happens naturally as well as we grow and learn.
Tomboy mentioned something in another post on a different subject but it fits here as well. Choose to be sexy. Just believe that is what you are and the rest tends to just fall in alignment with that. Sort of like the laws of attraction. You are what you believe you are. If you believe your cute then no matter how sexy you are you will just see cute.
Believe your sexy
Tisha
awh-sum!!!
I got to stop doing that. I guess someway in my speaking I always tend not to be that clear.
First, thanks for looking out and I know you got my best interest at heart.
I am sexy but am more cute which is different from the sexy I like to be sometimes. Cute with all that it is me and forever will be and am not trying to change that.
This is a new year and I am exploring if you get what am saying. Of course there is more to it than that with my b.f etc etc but trust me he doesn’t want me to change for anything.
New year : Pray harder , work harder, play harder
Like I said I probably won’t do most of the stuff am reading or agree with everything but it’s something that I wanted to read up on and know for myself I don’t want this but at least instead of just shutting it out see what it’s about before I decide.
Then there are somethings I have always wanted to but never trusted or felt that comfortable to do so.
I am exploring a different side with the clothes, the hair and other things. Somethings may stay some won’t it depends.
I read an intro from a guy who was in his 30’s or 40’s and spent his whole life living for someone else instead of himself. I am not totally like that but I tend to take what others say to heart.
Not that I don’t listen now it’s just that I feel like am not starting to live and it’s a long process but I feel great and it has made work and everything else around me better.
Noted you should not do anything else for anyone and allow yourself to be forced into anything. I hope all females reading this got it.
I hope I was clear this time around.
I love taking things out of context 
LMAO Wait thats not me its ummm…Jayarea
LMAO! That was a good one. You caught him and he can’t deny it know. We all know the truth.
See Micka can not be trusted 
WHAT HAPPENED TO MY PATIENT CONFIDENTIALITY!?!?!!? My parents dressed me in girls clothing and I had to go to girls bathroom till I was 9 
I’m was confused about my sexuality 
I am tired of being cute too. My bf says I “can” be beautiful or sexy but I guess I have to work hard at it because I am not naturally beautiful to him, just cute. 
I never got the cute comment much with other guys, I got more “hot” or “beautiful”.
Maybe this is why my bf calls me cute? He is the first one to do that to me and it makes me want to try harder. I never wore makeup or tried to dress up before and I still always got hot or beautiful. Now I feel like I have to put in a lot of effort. Or maybe I’m just older and my looks are fading. 
It could be if he is very strategic. Does he prefer to cute to sexy girls?
Dont change a thing, just the self judgement. Sexy is a state of mind. When you feel sexy your body will walk that way
Excuse me for intruding ladies, but if I can offer a guys perspective, we often associate cute and sexy as being similar and sometimes I am more turned on by a women showing less skin but wearing clothes that show their shape well, more then if her breasts were barely in her blouse cuz that line between slutty and sexy is blurred at times…but I know that a lot of women who are sexy naturally don’t think they are…my ex who is one of my best friends takes my breath away she is so beautiful and she just told me yesterday that she has never felt sexy, but damn…she is like a drug to me…I hope that helps some of you a lil…your bf probably sees you a lot sexier then you do…confidence is the most sexy trait a woman can have in my opinion…