Thanks for the truth, but that is scary my friend. I have been down that road with NO help and want no part of that again. Sounds way too dangerous for my tastes.
I found that several sprays IO and IH (equal amounts) with a dash of P75 and IShine did rather nicely. Plenty of talk, with an occasionaly candid admission thrown in. Not really a dark tone. Shine and alphanol kept it light. The special juice in IH (third molecule) probably helped. Offered a touch of–not so much fallout–but the “into you” effect.
It need not be scary if you keep that in mind and take steps to keep the conversation light/retain positivity Even if it has to mean making light of things with the most jaw-dropping bad taste/insensitivity - You will be surprised how well the IS will carry you here and that you can manage to steer things back.
I’ve done similar but I find the IO (Alphanol) weakens the depth/confiding quality a lot, as well as hammering any fallout - and Crucible needs at least some quality/maturity/depth here in order to get into his relationship issues.
A314, IH, and IS will give me all three?
are you sure you don’t have anyone else in mind beside your wife?
..NPA(new pheromone additive)is a potent sexual product from lacroy.when a girl is in the presence of your TUTH cloud shes like “he’s hot,he turn me on and i want to have sex with him” but if shes in the presence of NPA “im soooo horny!!! i just want to f**k the shit out of him right now” potent stuff my friend.therefore adding in comfort(P74,A1)and socials is a must
Nah, I live in Georgia, so that isn’t the safest thing. I just keep it to my wife, I actually have no one in mind, but I am trying to heat things up a bit.
You say NPA, A1, and P74? Now how will that go along with Ammo, P75, A314, and IH?
Yes, this is a good status but quality/bonding and still fun combo - You can then sexualise it (or not) as suits you best. 
How would you use IS, IH, P75, and TUTH?