Honestly crapwack, there are great minds here that are ready to give very valuable advice. But you have to provide some information like Marc mentioned above. The only reason you might sense some aggitation in some responses is because of some certain red flags that were raised with your very first post…ever. But I have to agree with Bloomboy…no mix of mones in the world will prevent someone’s desperation radar from going off. And that’s especially true with women. It’s all about congruency with the mix!! Very important stuff that I’m just starting to learn myself and it’s definitely helping with my body language even when I’m not using any mones at all.
But yeah we need more info if you really want us to help.