…and I hope it will be ok with the mods here as it’s only very indirectly related to pheromone use.
Did you know that it’s possible to have such a negative loser personality that pheromones will be next to useless in helping you achieve your goals? Well I know because I have been and am still living it, but am on the road out thanks to a program I have just started working with and highly recommend. It’s called Deep Inner Game by dating guru David Deangelo. Although I am only beginning, the first CD has me psyched and I can tell I’m in for a real adventure in personal growth. Here’s the link (removed) Google deep inner game
It’s a little pricey, but available in installment payments and well worth it in my opinion.
I am sure someone reading this is also where I am right now. We’re all here to grow right?
I will keep you all posted on my progress.
I had such a loser due weak personality recently in my therapy session
One of the hardest cases. Because very often the reason lies more in the total unstable character of persons (not able to focus on a goal, nor able to FOLLOW the road and work for this goal longer than 1 week without “bailout”)
And to change a personality in mature age is very hard if not mostly impossible. Mostly a change is successfull when a powerful motivation is available ( eg: a new girlfriend who doesnt like some things of you, and makes you feel u have to change very desperately and gives the strenght)
I dont know this book you advised (from europe) so i cannot comment on this.
But good luck to your quest. The most important thing is to realize that only your own mind and inner work can result in successfull change and confidence, and you seem on your best way!
Hey Tran,
Don’t know your age, but yes…it’s heartbreak with a lady that has motivated me. She wont ever even know I am doing this program. But I just decided that I CAN’T GO THROUGH THIS EVER AGAIN! I have to change.
True, it much harder to change when older, but I wouldn’t say “mostly impossible”. The motivation is there. My only regret is that because of my age, I wont have more years to enjoy my impending success
I believe SteveO knows David, I have seen pictures of them together. I am pretty sure it was David ( I get them mixed up LOL) but I know he has met a few of the PUA gurus .
Needless to say I have to remove the link but you can leave the name of the program so people can google it.
Found my dream woman and realized i got too much bad habits from my old man (regarding relationship behaviour).
Gave me the power to make a 180 degree turn, and to be her dream man
[at least for some years]
Nowadays she still tells me always when she sees me, she found absolutely noone nearly compareable to me afterwards. well to bad she didnt think about it earlier
Good to have motivation to succeed! PERMANENTLY!
btw: my english fails at “snort” boy. how is this to understand here?
Tran,
Great success story with the lady. I hope for the same, but can’t depend on that. But I know due to hard work with this program, I wont have to deal with it again in the future.
“Snort” is a nasal sound used to indicate sarcasm lol
I believe the mind is more elastic than we might think. If there is correct motivation you can change. I still have some bad habits, but I’ve also developed good habits along the way – habits of my own choosing.
Books, CDs, Videos, they all help, but the most important part is putting on your shoes and walking the path.
Absolutely! You can’t change by just “watching” a video. David starts the program by requiring a 90 commitment to working at least one hour a day with the material and putting it into to practice. He basically guarantees that if you’ll do that, you’ll resolves all the issues you wanted to when you bought the program.
Actually if you want the truth I snort when I laugh sometimes (not loud I can control it LOL) so I wasnt being sarcastic.
LOL I see the problem when I wrote my reply I said snort boy and didnt put a comma in there. See now thats funny, now I am snorting some more cause it looks like I called you snort boy ROFL
