A friend told me that he might be talking to a chick from his past. I asked him about it and of course he denied it. I’m not sure who is telling the truth so I plan to use IH to get down to the bottom of this.
I am not sure how much to use and where to use IH and if I should use it in combination with another spray.
What, where and how much would you use?
I have plenty of opportunities to conversate with him, we snuggle up at night and watch tv in the mornings. i was thinking i could spray a little on my forehead vecause I lay on his chest some nights. any suggestions would be appreciated
I would suggest at least 4 sprays. Your in close proximity so it doesn’t matter to much where you spray it. I spray it to the back of my neck and head because it affects me less there.
You do know that pheromone advice is not the only advice your gonna get on this one from me LOL
Talking to a girl from the past whether it was a GF or not is not cheating. Dont make this into something its not. Even if he met up with her and say went to lunch or had coffee its not cheating. They could have parted as friends. Of course meeting up with her and not making you aware of it could be a warning flag and cause for concern but just talking to her shouldn’t.
I am not saying you shouldn’t ask him or bring it up but tread lightly and don’t over react. Maybe he did talk to her and knows you would react badly and doesn’t want it to become something its not so he denied it. That doesn’t mean he is cheating or thinking of cheating.
Trust is an important part of a relationship as long as its not blind trust. Making him aware that your trust is not blind is fine but again don’t cross the line into lack of trust by over reacting to whatever his answer may be.
Another thing to consider and I am not trying to make you doubt your friend but consider her motive for telling you this. Is she trying to make you doubt him ? Some people like to create drama for others because of there own lack of trust in people.
Lots of my GF’s try to put doubt in me at times. Doesn’t mean they dont like me or they are mean. I dont think they even know they are doing it. Like the other day I was talking about my hubby spending the weekend at the racetrack and my GF mentioned all the hot car chicks there that hit on the drivers and asked me if I worry about it. I simply reminded her, I didnt give birth to the man I married him. He knows I trust him but he also knows that trust is not blind.
