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Thanks ntk. I’ll plan a combo once I figure out what I’m doing with her. I got back late tonight so I think I’ll just keep it really casual and just go out for ice cream or something like that. :stuck_out_tongue: Either way, the specifics aside, it’ll probably have IH, IS, and p74 with some IFM. Nothing overly complicated..I dunno, I need to call her first and set up plans, but that should be soon.

Okay, so it was basically a date, but we didn’t call it one. :stuck_out_tongue:

I wore 2 sprays of Instant Honesty 4x (one neck, one wrists), 2 sprays of IS2x (both throat), 2 sprays of IFM to the back of the head, and 30mcgs of p74.

It was a good night. A couple awkward silences but nothing terrible. Conversation was heavy, the usual Instant Honesty at work :smiley: Talked about family pressures, and all that BS. She quizzed me on what we talked about last night while I was trashed. :slight_smile: I think I passed.

Last night she had denied any further advances by saying she wasn’t comfortable because her cousin (my friend’s gf) was into me at one point. It was made very vague. Either way, apparently that’s a big deal so she was kinda awkward but I just ignored it and kept the conversation on something else. In fact, after I got her to spill the beans, we didn’t really talk about it. But it sounded like B told A that we used to ‘talk’ and A took that as B saying ‘mine’ and felt that she couldn’t ‘talk’ to me cause of that. Regardless of the fact B has a bf..

After dinner, we get some yogurt at [Insert Yogurt Chain], we share one and talk till everything closes around us. I’m dropping her off and before getting out asks me, ‘so about that thing, we never really talked about it.’ I reply, ‘what’s there to talk about? I know how you feel, and I feel it. No big deal, tonight was just a fun night out.’ Give her a hug and leave. She seemed…disappointed almost. When I got home, I got a txt saying along the lines of ‘hey, I’m sorry that I was being awkward about it all and not being myself. Hopefully next time I’ll just be able to chill.’ Sounds good to me. Either way, I wasn’t crazy into dating her or anything, but she is a cutie. I don’t mind keeping another cutie friend around. :smiley: Let em all kick it with me for all I care. :slight_smile:

Okay, I’m not really interested in hashing out all the details, but A314 and mx200 is nice. With a little IH in the elbows and some IS on top of everything, it’s a good day time mix.

I used it in classes, an asian girl from NZ initiated a conversation with me. I wanted to try and talk to her during lab but ended up sharing books with another girl who was also fairly receptive to me. Another girl, I don’t know if she’s friends the girl I shared books with, but she waved hi to me out of no where. I thought someone had walked in and looked behind me, but she said I was saying hi to you, then seemed kinda disappointed. I dunno, I’m not thinking too much into it as I was pretty much the only guy talking to people, but whatever.

Later..that night I think? It’s all such a blur…I reapplied and went to a restaurant with a bunch of friends, I accidently dropped two drops of A314 rather than 1 and it showed. Not a big deal, just make more effort to initiate conversation and it all starts flowing. Saw A, B, and C again, I ended up sitting on the other side of the table and so I just kept my conversation in that area. I noticed that when my friend Je (who was at the end of the table) shifted in two seats (pushing his gf and her roommate out), his gf sat next to him, but her roommate came and sat on my side of the table next to me. She was rather distracted by phone call drama, I didn’t care, I was just bored and didn’t want to sit talking to no one.

Later when people were moving around and all finished eating, I went and sat next to A and started talking to her. She’s always calling me out, saying I don’t remember our conversations, so I make sure to toss in references to past conversations. She, of course, brightens up much more when I do. The conversation flows even faster..

Eventually we’re leaving, I’m staying behind to finish up with the check and A’s waiting for me. :slight_smile: There’s a lot of good, fun energy between us, I enjoyed it. We went back to my friend’s house and we’re lounging, singing karaoke. Tons of flirting between A and I. Ju’s (Je’s gf) roommate made little heart signs at me when A wasn’t looking. :stuck_out_tongue:

We’ve been texting each other back and forth a lot lately and that night, when I was about to leave, she took my keys and wouldn’t give them to me. She kept saying, don’t leave, don’t leave.

After I left she kept sending txts saying I shouldn’t have left. Now I kinda wonder if I should have stayed…but she shares a room with her cousin anyways and…well, considering that’s one of her concerns to begin with, I don’t think anything was going to go down there..

For now, I’m waitin on the doc, a bug bite has my right hand looking like a boxing glove, and…it’s hot as shit here in Riverside.

More reports coming soon.

Fuck frat boys, I fucking hate em. Bullshit wanna be alphas, fuckin gettin off on every little bit of action. Fucking pussies can’t take me one on one, fucking bitches, every single one.

FUCK FRATS, FUCK SHADY ASS HOES.

END OF FUCKING STORY, FUCK Y’ALL, I wish I could scream it fucking louder.

.|.(x.x) .|.

oh shit… bad Saturday night, eh? Well it is a time when all the oafs come out to play, as well as the cool people. Sounds like you had a mission that was thwarted by some loud and possibly drunk types.

Dude, you don’t know how fucked up it was.

Met a girl, brought her back to my place, shit was going JUUUUST fine. Then fuckin a mob of frat boys are bangin on my door breaking in my fucking kitchen window with a tire iron, idiots left it behind.

Just bum rush me like bitches, they only got me once good, the broken glass did more damage than anything.

Fuck it, as long as they pay for damages, I could give a fuck, let em eat shit and burn.

Fuck… bad one! Ah, I’ve been lucky, nothing crazy like that has happened to me for a long time. So I take it the girl wasn’t A, B or C? Perhaps D?

“Bunch of frat boys” - says it all really. Wannabe alphas indeed. This is what happens when guys don’t have the skills to have like any females in their social circle at all, they band together, and have alcohol and the pack mentality to give them some Dutch courage.


want me to come over with my baby?
Ahh, guns. . . one of the best things about living in texas.

How are you doing? You ok? How’s the girl? What happened exactly?

Lol, nah, not A, B, or C at all, we’re closer than that. You could call her M, but it doesn’t matter cause I won’t be seeing that girl again.

Yea, and whatever females they do get, they need to keep a close eye on because they can’t trust their own relationships, all under the guise of ‘brotherhood’. I dunno, I know there are legitimate frat boys out there, I know some of them, but these guys are through and through, douche bags.

I’m just gonna take it easy, the glass in my feet makes it hard to walk around…

@Eldros, that would be far too much. I’d take em to the cleaners legally or through campus action, I’m gonna file a police report and try and settle it outside of court. They’ll pay for all damages to my apartment and car and anything they broke or they’re getting hit with breaking and entering, vandalism, assault and probably numerous other laws.

Oh how I wish I had one last night though, I’ll tell you that. Or a pump shotty, they’d back the fuck away then.

Whatever, I now know a couple more things about myself. I can walk into a frat party, solo bolo, and pull. I have also confirmed I can survive 3-4 frat boys. Hmm..maybe I should try taking on an entire chapter next time? :stuck_out_tongue:

If you’re curious as to what mix I was wearing that night, it was:
1 drop A314, 1 spray IH4x, 5mcgs p79, 30mcgs p74, 37.5mcgs p83, 12.5 mcgs of p93 and 2 sprays of IS2x.

As far as attraction goes, it was great. I didn’t even really have to work for it that much. M is playing beer pong, looks up at me and starts bumping into me way too often. I start a conversation, then we just keep talking and she’s giving me alllllll sorts of signs. Hands on my thighs, hands on my ass, whatever. So eventually, I ask if she wants to go somewhere more private, we go to the car, make out for a bit then head to my place.

Everything’s great there, no problems until..well, you know what happened.

You and I had the same thought, ntk…lol…working his way through the alphabet? :smiley:

Hate ‘em, ma self. One date in college…that was enough for me. I knew it was a mistake before I did it, but thought, maybe this one’s different. Yeah, right. Lets’ just say after he tried to get me in the back seat so I wouldn’t “rumple ma purty dress”…he ended up in the lake…whata dick. :angry: :stuck_out_tongue:

:open_mouth: :open_mouth: :open_mouth: Are you hurt?!!!

Spill.

And your hand? WTF?

E’s right…you need back up, baby!

Bella

Hi Bella, I’m alright. Most of the annoyance is the cuts on my feet from the broken glass. I’ve got a couple other cuts here and there and the lump on my head makes it hard to chew, but I’ll live.

I dunno what you mean about my hand. I got a bug bite on it a few days ago and it was really swollen for a while, if that’s what you mean. It’s fine now though, I got some antibiotics for it.

Right now I’ve got a hole in my wall, a broken window and dents on two sides of my car. I’m pretty sure the costs are going to be in the couple thousands..funny thing is that the same shoe prints on my door are on my car. Easy to connect the two for legalities. I need to go out and take pictures of everything, but right now I’m just trying to relax and take it easy.

My friends suggested that I pick a shotgun since I live by myself. I have thought about it before as my house was robbed two years ago, plus additional violent drama stemming from that. Now I’m seriously reconsidering buying a shotgun for some protection. I am very split on the decision though..

Oh and as for the girl E, she just slipped out while I was in the kitchen looking at my broken window. That’s when they took the opportunity to enter my apartment and jump me. One of the frat boys figured out the situation wasn’t really what they thought it was (kudos to him, he’s actually got a head on his shoulders) and we exchanged numbers. He promised he’d make everything right, but I’m going to file a police report to fall back on.

There probably won’t be jail time, I’ll just keep it to civil courts, but if the news reaches the UC, some of these students may get kicked out or put on strict probation. If these guys have past history, they may even get shutdown for a year. I might really need a shotgun if it goes down that way.

What would you and Wolf do? Would you guys buy a shotty? It’s not like you guys would move.

One rule I learned from a fighting pistol class I attended: always carry. What I mean by that is:

  1. buy a pistol
  2. learn to use the pistol
    3a. if your state permits, obtain a conceal carry permit
    3b. if not, carry anyways
  3. buy some gear (ammo, ammo clips, maintenance equipment, mods, holsters, etc)
  4. always carry. Getting in trouble for carrying illegally isn’t as bad as the regret for not carrying one
  5. remember this: i carry not because i am afraid, but so that i don’t have to be afraid.

Eldros, I don’t know if California allows concealed weapons, and honestly, I’d rather not have to resort to guns, but hell, call me naive I guess. Maybe it’ll take another beating until I get it. :stuck_out_tongue:

People are telling me that I should sue and might be able to collect big time. I don’t know how much it would be, but considering the negative light fraternities have been getting down here, I think I can get good leverage on the idea that on top of running coke houses, frats are also now running around, breaking, entering, and assaulting people.

Any ideas on that front? I’d rather come out of this with my school and room paid for than a couple dead bodies on my hands.

I’m glad you’re OK, Phya. I can’t tell you how sorry I am this happened to you. And worse that you were hurt in more ways than one. It’s f*cking outrageous. Yes, when I was referring to your hand I meant the bite. What bit you?

With ‘brothers’ like that, I’d rather be an only child. It’s gang mentality. Whatever happened to thinking for yourself. :roll_eyes: I never joined a sorority in college…so not my thing.

You probably already figured out your problems started when you walked into that party. Evidently those guys didn’t like the cut of your..ah…hair (i.e. you were wearin’ a bangin’ mix and, well…you were you.) They sure didn’t like you pullin’ one of their girls. They didn’t like whole thing and you leaving with the girl…can’t have that. I mean WTF’s the problem? You didn’t kidnap her.

I guess not. Wolf said one of those guys must’ve been interested in her or it wouldn’t have gone that far. Gutless simple minded bastards. Who the f*ck do they think they are.

Works for me. Thank God I’m a cough rational adult. Or I could be extremely dangerous. I once held my daddy’s hunting rifle on a couple of thieves I caught ransacking my parents house. I’ll tell ya that story another time. I was scared sh*tless…they’re lucky I didn’t shoot 'em.

Please don’t tell me they thought you were actually perpetrating a crime against this young lady! You really do need to file a report. They could do it again…only worse. Gotta have a record.

Wolf has a Louieville slugger or you can get one of them aluminum jobs. A gun may be too extreme, but IDK. If you feel as though it’s justified and you might, seriously, need it to defend yourself you can look into it. It doesn’t mean you have to buy one. If you do decide to get one, please take lessons so you don’t shoot yer damn fool self. BTW we have a shotty. I live kinda in the boonies. I’m not close to my neighbors. When Wolf’s away on business I’m home alone. Ya never know who might show up at your door. :roll_eyes: I can load it and I can shoot it…if I have to. By the time 911 gets to my house, it could all be history. I don’t plan on goin’ down that easy. I wouldn’t say I’m a puy but, how well do you think a 5’3" 110lb. woman can fight off…anybody? If I could do it with words, np. Oh, and I haven’t shot anybody yet. If Wolf gets home late he always makes plenty of noise when he comes in, so he doesn’t scare me. He doesn’t want an a full of buckshot. :stuck_out_tongue:

Yeah, I’ll have to remember that mix the next time I want my a** whomped by a hoard of frat boys.

Thank God you have more brains than brawn. Plus I don’t want them messing up your pretty face!

I don’t think you’re naive, just cautious, as you should be.

I don’t recommend carrying a weapon. Call a lawyer for a consultation, if you can afford one. If not then look into legal aid. I don’t know how much help you’ll get from campus officials, even though they may have to eventually take steps against these guys, in the interim, they’ll do everything they can to cover it up and/or minimize it. Take the pics and don’t dally.

Hope you heal fast, take care. Maybe you can get one of the alphabet girls to make you some chicken soup…or fill your bong? :smiley:

Bella

Bella, I think it was a spider bite, but I really have no idea. It’s history now. :slight_smile:

Those alphabet girls had a rough night themselves, my friends were attacked by some other kids at a lounge and they barely sneaked out while security beat down the other kids. I guess they were lucky since they were the ones dealing out the beatings..

You know..I was just thinking. A chainsaw is pretty intimidating, no? Better than a bat cause they won’t try and take it from you. Loud like a shot gun, and you don’t need a gun permit. :smiley: Now where’s my hockey mask?

The most…mind boggling thing about it is that they left behind one of the sorority sisters. Straight ditched her. If they came here because I was trying to take advantage of a drunk girl, why the fuck would they leave a different drunk girl? Idiots. Clearly their armor is black, not white.

As far as the pheromones go, the p83 made everything way more intense. From the intimacy to the fistfight, it was a roller coaster ride from beginning to end. The A314 was definitely seen as bit of a chip on my shoulder I think, especially since I arrived unannounced without my hostess. Like, who the fuck are you?

Curious thing though, the guy that said he would make it all good? He later told people that ‘a gang banger randomly hit up the party and was fucking with a girl, so we had to handle it.’ Lol, me? A gangbanger? I don’t look anything like a gang banger, except the short hair (but who doesn’t fucking have short hair here?) I don’t even have a single visible tat, not that that makes you a gangbanger..but you know. I’m thinking he just didn’t want to share details of something he wants kept under wraps, but it makes me more cautious about him.

Right now my plan of action is to file a report, then call around, consider my options and pull the trigger. If they are willing to settle out of court for..I dunno 10-15k should cover it (my friend thinks 50k but I think that’s way pushing it) That’s 5k for damages and 5-10k for fucking punching me and all the headaches associated with all this drama. That pays for my rent for the year, or my school for the year. :smiley: If they give me any problems though, I’ll just charge them with trespassing, assault, vandalism, slander (if they keep talking about it the way the are), etc and I’m sure there are plenty other obsure charges we could use.

Hey phya you sure have a hell of a log going. The results have built up quite good. Very successful log but sure took me a long time to read finally caught up. History sure builds up. :slight_smile:

Hey buddy, sorry to hear what happened to you there, man those assholes wrecked up your place, mess up your night with your girl & even injured you buddy. Well for now get yourself healed expecially your feet as you have pieces of broken glasses in it.

I think for that frat guy that you exchanged numbers with, you should pressed charges against him as i myself doubt his words after hearing more from you there. He & his friends make the offences so they must pay for it. I agreed with Eldros that you should get a sidearm as you never know if the next time things could get more ugly/worse or if you think a gun is not preferable then why not a baseball bat instead as a weapon to defend yourself :slight_smile:

I agreed with Bella that you should pressed charges against them as they wrecked up your place & harm you there physically. Try to seek for more damages from them as they are totally in the wrong there.

Well buddy i hope you will get well & get enough rest too. Think of this as just a bad incident that just happened. Take care :slight_smile:

Hey PS, hey lukester, thanks for dropping by.

I will press charges, after talking with my friends, they all feel that I shouldn’t give these guys any mercy.

Unfortunately, since they were allegedly ‘protecting’ M, there is the chance that they may try and get me for sexual assault or something. I don’t know enough about this, we had sex, but I didn’t ejaculate, so I don’t know how this might go down.

There were no witnesses so the police were doubtful, but they did leave behind a weapon. I think I’m going to need to get myself a very good lawyer.

If anyone has suggestions, advice, warnings, etc..PLEASE LET ME KNOW!

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