Hi Guys, I am trying to make send of the use of IG in a social function…
Environment: Social Function - Enclosed area Club/Pub
Application: IG 1 spay on each arm and rub on head, neck and ears… and 1 spay on throat - 3 Spray Total
ISX2 as above ~ 3 Sprays in Total
Observations: I was picked on all night by people I rarely interact with… they were not nasty to me just very crazy and don’t leave me alone…
Guy A, B, C all picked on me at various time during the night.
Guy A gave me wedgies, twisted my arms and hit my face (I don’t remember the face hitting but was told later)
Guy B first took away my glass later gave back to me,
later that night, he picked me up off the ground by my belt buckle with just one arm and throw me on his shoulder and carried me around.
Guy C encircled and locked his arm around my neck and bit my ear! ouch.. then rolled his knuckles on my cheek so hard and I was tearing up.
I don’t understand why this would happened when I did not see anything that dramatic during the testing phases.
P.s. Earlier in the day, at work, I did spray myseldlf with Turn Up The Heat on the throat because I wasn’t sure if the Togo bottle was empty or not… could that be a contributing factor???
Well…I can’t really comment on what happened to you there. That’s just kind of strange any way you look at it.
My thoughts on using IG + Instant Shine in a club setting would be…no. Especially if you are a young guy. You may end up coming across to others in close proximity to you as a happy old man. Now if you add some TUTH to the mix, you may start looking like a happy old guy in heat and ready to pounce on another guy’s interests.
This is the simple version of what I think happened. Next time, I’d stick to the basics of 1 or 2 drops of A314 and some Ammo. You really cannot go wrong there. After you get familiar with how that works for you, then slowly try adding one of the other products at a time…such as my favorite…p83 to lower the inhibitions of others around you. You could also try one of my other favs…spraying a little Instant Honesty, Instant Openness, and Instant Shine on your wrists over a drop of A314. Depending on how much you use…and I’ve been known to pherobomb, opens a whole new world of conversational topics wherever you go. ; )
I’m sure others will chime in here, but I think you definitely found out what may not work for you…depending on your age of course.
That’s very atypical of what IG has been for me, it sounds more like an IJ or A314 reaction to me. It could be that those guys were trying to AMOG you, but it’s so hard to pinpoint cause it is IG. Is this the first time testing it? If so you have to try and test it out again, it could just have been an off night
What’s your build, what was the social event about and what are these guys like. Are they bigger than you? Are they prone to showing off, what’s your personality and character profile among these people like
I guess in this case apart from mones, a nice badass tattoo might help.
Jokes aside, ditch these jack asses and get new friends. If you’re as big as them or can hold your own, counter AMOG them. Demonstrate a rugby move or something
IG is the shit…and doesn’t make you look like an old man at all. I have two nights of reports to write up the mix was IG + 297 + CTTM2, so far actually one of my most impressive club mixes. This mix had me pullin’ all kinds of girls, various age ranges (not one over 30 and I’m 44), lots of touchy touchy.
I can’t for the life of me figure out what’s going on here in your situation. To me that would be a very nice sophisticated kind of mix..something with class.
Your nick is “little” and from the way it sounds in your post you’re not a very dominant guy to begin with. There may be just something about your body language, your demeanor etc that was just not congruent with your phero signature and these guys decided to tool you.
Kind of like one day a guy who is completely clueless when it comes to fashion, and is totally socially awkward shows up in biker gear sporting fake tattoos. His “peers” would probably tool him pretty hard…this is what it sounds like to me.
Yes, the whole thing just kind of strange! Perhaps that combo just did not work for you. Or perhaps was just an off night. FULL MOON hahaha…
P51Mustang
Initially I thought it could be the residuals from TUTH… but I don’t know. IG is similar to A314 right but less agreesive??? I have not used A314 yet, afraid that people might run away from me.
Johnny Gslinger & thegentleman,
I am only 5’ 2" bit tiny compare to the other boys. They are a good head taller than me. We all work for in the same department so they are my colleagues, however, they are from different floors.
The social event was End of Financial Year function with cocktails and finger foods. These people are not normally show-offish, and I don’t really know them that we. That night, they were like annoying puppies that wanted to play with me.
“not congruent with my phero signature”… that might be the reason…
but I was being kind though, like a gentlemen, except when I got so annoyed that I said: “touch me again and I will bite your nuts off…” lol
Dude…LOL not trying to be harsh. But remove the “I will bite your nuts off” line from your repertoire. Just say and it can be in a funny way…“I’ll punch you in the throat.
Biting…well that’s gonna put you in that beta / bitch zone. There’s a reason they’re tooling you. It could be because of your size. I’m now a giant compared to what I was in High School. I was barely 5 feet, now I’m a bit over 5 ’ 6”. And I got tooled all the time because I was small. So I had to fight and fight dirty because they were always much bigger than me…or I’d play head games with them.
Anyway my point is, you’re going to have to assert yourself in a bit more dominant way around work and play. When some dude goes to touch you in a tooling kind of way like you described…I’d knock his fucking hand back with the quickness and tell him in a very stern manner “don’t let that happen again.”
Not only is it inappropriate behavior in general, but as co-workers it can be seen as harassment and constitutes a hostile work environment and don’t settle for that shit.
I recall a time when a huge football player, one of the coaches sons came up and grabbed my wallet off of the lunch table and went and sat down and started laughing at his buddies. I was half his size, I grabbed my tray and went and sat directly across from him and ate while staring directly into his eyes never wavering. Never has a big dude felt so uncomfortable, he gave me my wallet back but I never flinched and never left. Needless to say he never messed with me again, and his buddy that tried to start a fight with me earlier that day avoided me like the plague in the parking lot after school.
Don’t take shit. I’m not saying fight, but set some boundaries. And if they keep it up, document it and go to HR.
Maybe it’s the kind of people your hanging out with verses the body chemistry you were projecting and a whole host of other things, those being the most important that gave them the ‘need’ to do those things to you.