I’m a 21 year old female (Prime dating material!) in the Central Texas area. I’m told over and over again that I’m gorgeous, but I seem to lack social skills. Additionally, the men that I want to notice me seem to be intimidated. It’s a shame. I’m hoping pheromones might give me a slight edge…
I’m a little confused about all the different mixes and what they do, but I’m going to start with a little IS/B
As they say the very attractive women tend to be the ‘loneliest’ because most men dont bother to approach them especially if they seem distant or come across as unfriendly.
If you really are attractive then you better find the right pheromones. Dont get the ones that will make you even ‘farther to reach’ so to speak. Get something like ‘Instant Openess’ or similar pheros. If you are a shy person get the ‘Instant Shine’. Maybe all you need is confidence so you can start hunting the men that interest you rather than waiting for them to come to you. 
In the 21st century good things no longer come to those who can only wait. 
Hello Lido_puma! Welcome to the forum darling! It’s so exciting having more ladies join the forum!
Since you mention that you’re having trouble in socializing, I would highly recommend you to try instant openness, it’s really awesome stuff, it’ll make you feel chattier than normal, and people around you will feel relaxed talking to you. I once have a conversation with this unknown teacher in college for 1/2hr (and I’m not much of a talker when it comes to strangers lol)
Now, can you tell us more about your personality, maybe that’ll help us know why guys seem to feel intimidated by a gorgeous lady! Also, is there any self-effects or reactions you’re looking for? Don’t hesitate to ask baby, we’re here to help you out
Hello and welcome to the forum.
Sorry to hear about your problem. If I were single and lived in Texas … lol.
There are actually quite a few ladies here on the forum and I am sure a few of them will be by to help with suggestions but until they get here I will try to take a stab at it …
IS/b may well be the way to go if you intimidate guys. It will give you a soft and sexy vibe rather than the more aggressive vibe of IS/a.
You may also want to think about some IO. It may help loosen the tongues of those guys you seem to intimidate.
IShine will help lighten the mood and keep everyone feeling happy. Maybe between the IO loosening their tongues and the Ishine making them feel happier you will get some conversations going.
Good luck and once again hopefully one of the ladies will be by soon.
I’m happy so many people are willing to help a girl out.
I’m pretty young and I hold a leadership position in my field, so I came across as pretty (Okay, really) arrogant in the last year. I’ve calmed down a lot since then.
I’ve always been shy. It seems like I never know what to say. When I first meet a man I’m actually interested in (And this only happens when a friend will make him aware I’m interested, or if he just walks up to me), I tend to let him talk and ask me questions. I just never know what will keep his attention!
I’m definitely looking forward to trying out Instant Openness.
Hey sweetie, I like your honesty
lol, aww. that’s okay, you just feel super self-conscious talking to him lol, instant openness will help alot, and you could always pair it up with instant honesty when you want to make the conversations more intimate. Just be prepared when using instant honesty though, cause what people would say could be good or bad, they’re saying what they thinking without thinking sometimes lol But it could help break the ice.
Bosshank has given some excellent suggestions too, instant sexiness is a must for every lady in the forum. Do give mx135 (chocolatini), mx235 (cookie) or mx335 (grapefruit) a go too, they all contain the same pheros but come in different scent packages, chocolatini is my fav’t now a days, and it diffuses really well. This mix is like the “center of attention” mix, people want your attention, they’ll listen to what you have to say, they want to stare you down, they want to hug you lol! yea, I love this one, it’ll pair up great with almost anything.
more texans…awesome.
Maybe you’re a bit intimidating?
Too bad you don’t live in California. :]
Hi lido … I’m a bit of a newbie too (5 mo.) & just wanted to say that you’ll find excellent advice from peoples here. Pay close attention to advice from Bosshank, Ms Selva, Tisha, Jasmin & a few other longtime users … I’ve never seem 'em steer folks wrong.
IMO, IF you fall into the excruciatingly gorgeous category you may want to ‘open’ guys up a little bit thru the use of some of the socials that have already been recommended (Instant Shine in particular) and - oddly enough - maybe even some very light doses of spaceland depending on the situation and save the Sexiness products for a little later on. The reason I say this is I have several friends who fall into the same category as you and I’ve noticed that there always seems to be the guys who come on strong - talking trash (my definition) and kinda acting as god’s gift. The rest are quietly dumbstruck - in awe and slightly drooling. In other words - just another day in the life of the physically beautiful.
Approachability and being mentally congruent with that is the key to opening up options. Smokin HOT alone can provide DHV but sometimes leads to being labeled as cold, unattainable, too pricey (in terms of dating ya) etc - NOT saying it’s right or accurate just an insight into the self-worth issues some guys carry around which I suspect you may already know. It’s obviously just an excuse to avoid saying hello.
My point is that drop a dead gorgeous woman who is open and approachable is one of the shcweetest things god ever gave us. Once the approach walls have come down and you’ve chosen him or them, you can begin to inject the sexiness quotient into the mix - selectively. On a side note, looks can = sexy but do not always equate to sexiness. I know several ‘average’ women in the looks department who are some of the sexiest women in existence.
Looks like I’ve rambled a little especially since you didn’t ask but wanted to say HI - welcome - offer up my .02 and most of all enjoy. These products are for realz.
I live in Austin, Tx…I sent you a pm…look forward to hearing from you
I’m actually originally from San Jose.
Sweet another central Texan, too bad you are a little old for me. May I ask which town you live in?
I’m glad you think so too. lol
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk
Ahh the curse of looks LOL They can be intimating to alot of men. I think IS/B is a good choice. You will still be gorgeous but more soft, It will bring out your softer, less dominant qualities.
Ishine IO and IH are great to increase interaction and give a comfortable warmth.
Whether you know it or not, your looks have given you quite a bit of power. May as well use what the goddesses have given you to your best advantage. Body language is something to look into and become familiar with. Guys give cues just like women do and you knowing those cues and being able to reciprocate them can help them feel more comfort in approaching you.
There is a link in my signature below.
Your GC is on its way
Tisha
Okay, this may come off as harsh but I don’t intend it too. I used to be painfully shy, and eventually grew out of 80% of it (after wasting the prime of my youth) – so this is where my perspective comes from.
Shy people are very self-absorbed. They are so wrapped up in worrying about themselves and what other people think about THEM, they notice/care very little about other people and other people’s needs, concerns, and wants. The self-absorption may be rather negative (in that being shy is generally unpleasant), but it is self-absorption nonetheless.
This is why shy people often come off as arrogant or stuck up. Other people notice the lack of empathy. And the shy person protests, “no, I’m not stuck up, I’m just shy”. Well, to other people, it doesn’t really matter if you are spending all your time thinking how much better you are than everyone else, or spending all your time worrying about how inferior you are. Either way, you are inwardly focused.
The cure IMHO is to try to focus more on other people (other than what they might be thinking about you).
yes mam … you hit the nail squarely on the head
Incredibly attractive female huh? I want to see some PROOF on those claims!
When keywords like incredibly and attractive are used together in the same sentence, wow. Like sailor4uk mentioned, a pic would be great!
Welcome to the forum btw.
See your in Malaysia dude!
Another great country ive been to thx to the Royal NaVy!
Got my scuba diving licence their!
Welcome to the forum, Lido. Listen to these people. they know there stuff. helped me out alot. Best forum of people I have ever joined. Of course the company and products are awesome as well.
also Thanks Xev, that makes perfect since. I have been shy alot in my life, it does give off a stuckup appearence. great to learn that one.