Hi! It’s been a long time since I’ve been here!! I am not a very confident person. I am a very outgoing and friendly person. I have many friends and have a lot of fun with them, but when it comes to picking up girls or talking to females, I am just an insecure and unconfident guy. Is there an ebook or some materials that I can read about insecurity and confidence?? I am not even sure what they are anymore. I am sure there are few guys like me out there. Any tips would be appreciated!! thank you in advance ![]()
Think most of the guys on this forum at some point have had some confidence issues.
I suggest you read some PUA material to learn some basic ‘tricks’ on how to frame your interactions with girls. How to approach, how steer a conversation into a sexual direction, how to use confident body language etc. BUT: in the end, building your confidence is something you’ll have to do by working on your long-term goals. Your confidence and self-worth shouldn’t depend on how girls treat you.
Some popular ones:
The Game - Neil Strauss
The Tao of Badass
The Definitive Book of Body Language
Can all be downloaded easily as eBooks if you know where to look ![]()
Also: some alpha mone blends can give you a push in the right direction. Have you tried A314 or P75?
Thank you so much for your valuable tips!! I will definitely read those books carefully over the Summer. I’ve tried A314 spray type, but I haven’t tried any of the P series. I am thinking about purchasing A314 oil ![]()