To start, a bit of information about me.
I’m 30 something years old, married and mother. We live in a small village and as it almost always is in Germany, the next big city is not far away…
I might not be “top model hot”, but I cannot complain about the way I look. I am quite social, can talk to almost everybody and about almost everything.
Me and my husband get along quite well and considering the time we are together, we have a pretty good sex life. A monogamous one! LOL.
So, I don’t really know what I want to reach using pheromones. Propably just wanna experience something new..
Anyway… of course I couldn’t wait for weekend to come so I could test the Instant products. I am doing it since 5 days already. So far, the only one that sort of worked for me was the IS-A. The IS-B didnt make me feel good. And all the others were like having no effect at all. As if I had never touched them. I go on trying them this coming week using a bigger amount of sprays.
So, to the details…
Day 1
8:30 am
IS-B
2x on the neck
Gave me a little headache and made me dizzy. This lasted for about 3 hours.
I didn’t do anything special. .. went to a supermarket, gas station, car wash, picked up the kids from school… Didn’t notice any hit, any extraordinary reaction from other people.
3:45 pm
I. Openness
3 sprays (neck, hair and wrists)
Didn’t get any self effects. Neither negative or positiv.
I went to a friends place. She had invited me and a few other friends of her for a coffee. I would meet these other women for the first time so I thought It would be a good chance to try the IO. The event was quite nice, but I didn’t notice any special vibe on the air. On contrary. I had the feeling I was a bit quiter then what I use to be. As if I would be to tired or to lazy to talk. The same thing with my friend. She was not so talkative like she uses to be.
So, at the end of the day I was just “happy” that these 2 products at least smell good. Pretty strong, but good!
3 pm
I. Openness
2 sprays (neck and wrist)
No self effects.
So I thought I give this I.O another try and decided to test it here on the village with people I already know. Took my boys to the soccer training and stayed there talking to the other mothers who also like to stay there watching the kids. Again, I didn’t notice any special thing on the air. The conversation flew as usual. This time I didn’t get so quite like the day before, but still I was not on my best “talking shape”.
8 am
I. Sexiness B
2 sprays (neck and wrist)
No headache but I got a bit dizzy again and my mood got quite down.
It was a sunny and nice day and I decided to go for a walk, which I am always happy about. Wanted to check what the I.S-B could do at the restaurant but almost immediately after application it got me so sad and dismotivated. The only thing I wanted was to go back to bed. Despite the mood change, I managed to leave the house. Of course it was in vain. It was terrible and of course with that mood, no one wanted to talk to me. Not even the people I already knew… lol
3:30 pm
I. Shine
2 sprays (neck and wrist)
No self effects
I didn’t have anything special to do so I just ran some errands while while waiting for the time to pick my kids from a bday party up. As far as I understood, I.S. needs the user to interact with the “public” so it can show some effects. So I might not have chosen the perfect moment or location to test it. Maybe that’s why it “didn’t work”. I just went to a shopping mall and sat for a while in a caf?. It was pretty full but I didn’t notice anybody looking or smiling at me. And btw, I also didn’t get that “high” everybody talks about.
7:30 pm
I. Sexiness A
2 sprays (neck and wrist)
Didn’t feel anything special
Me and my husband had planned to go out that night. First for dinner and then to some bar. Just the 2 of us. We would go to a famous gourmet restaurant at the city so I had to dress accordingly. Made my hair nice, very little make up (as usual), a good looking black dress and 2 sprays of IS-A. So at the restaurant there were almost only couples but a few of those guys couldn’t stop looking towards my direction although they had their wives/gf right in front of them. And my husband couldn’t stop kissing me. I mean, he is already like that but that night it was almost anoying. After dinner we went to a bar for a few drinks more and also there I got some attention. It was pretty crowded so there were a LOT more eyes on me. Until my husband got jealous and we had to leave… hehe he. . It was a very interesting experience. Felt quite good too. The only strange thing that night was that I couldn’t sleep. At all. Was the whole night awake. Although I had gotten up at 5 in the morning the day before, was quite busy the whole day, went out until about midnight, consumed alcohol and had sex. Normally I would sleep like a stone for at least 6 hours but that night I couldn’t close my eyes. So I wonder if that was some side effect of the IS-A.
11 am
I. Shine
2 sprays (neck and wrist)
No self effects
Went to a sport store specialised on golf. Sprayed the IS right on the parking, shortly before going inside. The place was not full, there were a few sellers walking around but I spent about half an hour there on my own. No one offered me any help or asked me what I was looking for. Quite disappointing.
Good journal here. I see some hits and some misses too probably for a reason or two.
If this is your first time with pheromones, then these results is just normal, specially because you haven’t pinpointed yet your sweetspot.
I suggest you test the mones solo for at least a week each straight. IShine for week 1(1 spray on day 1, 2 sprays next, 3 next and so on), IO on the next week and so on. The objective is for you to get the number of sprays that gives off the best effects for you and for others(this is the sweetspot). Another reason for trying them solo for a week is to avoid confusing both your body and the people you mingle with. One possible reason is probably because of the mones, your body is now emitting a “changed” vibe, and the people around you is probably still processing this new vibe they now perceive. These are the people who have known you for years and a sudden new vibe after several mones use may have thrown them off course, specially if you keep on changing mones per day. So keeping them under your mones cloud for at least every time they are with you, may help them “familiarize” with the “new you”.
Nice journal so far. I agree with Dee. I get almost immediate effects from the mones while my wife it takes sometime for her to pinpoint what each one does.
After you get a good feel for a few of them do you plan on telling you husband? I ask because since I told my wife about it she really embraces it and she likes wearing them to. So now it is a hobby of both of ours and it really has brought us closer. A lot has improved in our relationship.
Well best of luck and I will be tuned in to see what happens.
After reading Dee A’s wise advices, this week I’ve been testing only I. Shine. Today (3rd day) I think I finally had that “Oh shit! Now I see it!” moment which Tisha always mentions on her Threads…
So, to the details…
Day 1
11:15 am Instant Shine
1 spray (Neck)
Got a little headache and was a bit dizzy for about 20 minutes.
Picked up the kids from Kindergarten, talked to a few people over there but didn’t notice any effect on them.
After that I took the kids to a beauty salon to have their heir cut and they seemed to be the only ones who reacted to the mones. They were fighting each other to be seating on my lap, always taking very deep breath around my neck.
15:30 pm
I. Shine
1 spray (neck )
Got very little “bad effects”
Took the kids for an ice cream together with a friend and her kids. Didn’t notice any effect.
Got no “negative effects”
About 30 minutes later I found myself singing on the car and when I realize it I also saw that I was driving way too fast. A lot faster than what was allowed. Luckily there was no police control on the way. I was just feeling happier than what i use to be. So I went to the downtown with my little daughter. I didn’t notice any effect on others, but as I type this now, It came to my mind that my little daughter caught a lot of attention while we walked down the main shopping street. I mean, she is a very cute 2 years old girl who usually gets a lot of people to stop and interact with her, but this day it definitely happened a lot more than the usual. So maybe she got the credits for me using the IS… lol
Day 3
8:20 am
I. Shine
3 Sprays ( 1x neck + 1x hair + 1x wrists)
Got no negative effects. The good self effects were not so strong like on the day before.
Took my kids to the doctor for a mandatory check up for kids who live here. The doctor and her assistant are usually very friendly but today they were even more. The doctor took her time checking each one of my kids very well, always talking to me in details about everything she was doing. In the end she decided to give the kids a little reward because they behaved so well. Normally that is a lollipop but today my kids got that plus a little toy. Each! And I got a recipe for pain killers… without even asking for it. ..
4 pm
Reapplied I. Shine
2 sprays ( 1x neck + 1x hair)
No self effects
Went to the mail. Didn’t notice any reaction on the others.
Went to a friends place to bring her a T-shirt she asked me to order for her and which I had just picked up from the mail. We greeted each other with 2 kisses on the cheek, as women usually do. After that she opened the package and suddenly got so excited about the new T-shirt that she had to try right there. Started undressing right there in front of me and out of nothing asked me how her breasts look I mean, we are friends, but not such good friends… Could that be the I.Shine working on her? To me it sounds more like IO or IH effects…
So, that’s it for now… Tomorrow I go on with 4 Sprays. ..
Day 4
3:30 pm
I. Shine
4 Sprays ( 2x neck + 1x hair + 1x wrists)
I just ran some errands with a friend. We both were in quite a good mood, talking, laughing… I was sooooo relaxed that I forgot to check how other people around me reacted to my presence… lol
So I decided to repeat the test the next day…
So now we are at Day 5:
8:30 am
I. Shine
4 Sprays ( 2x neck + 2x hair)
I. Honesty
2 Sprays (Wrists)
So, I know it is not recommended but I decided to add some IH to it… A friend asked me to go with her to check a “new wonderful weight loss program” at a new gym, so I thought it would be a good oportunity to play with the I.H a bit…
The person we talked to at the gym was very very friendly. Always offering us something to drink and showing everything around and at some point he started spitting the truth out… the program only works well IF bla bla bla… and he didnt wanna let us go… lol..
After that we went to a Caf? together and my friend couldnt stop throwing compliments at me and at some point she even started telling me a few very personal things I didnt know about her yet…
I think we were together untill about 11:30 am and I would say the mones worked all the time…
11:30 am
I. Shine
3 Sprays ( 1x neck + 1x hair + 1x wrists)
Went to a family party (all of them “in-laws”). It lasted the whole afternoon. I could say it was a good “getting together”. I go my fair share of attention but nothing exagerated. Around 3 pm I reaplied the IS (2 sprays to the neck) but although always diferent people came to talk to me I sort of got bored…
And that was my last day with IS. It definitey works and I am sure I will always have it with me. I am just not sure about my sweet spot… If 3 or 4 sprays…
I definitely would start with 2 sprays and go from there. You could try that and then spray another spray every half hour or so. I would guess between 2 to 5 sprays at the most.
I didnt notice any immediate self effects.
We (me, husband and kids) went to a friend’s house for a barbecue. When we arrived, my friend looked quite tired and demotivated but shortly after I started talking to her, she seemed to look happier and more relaxed. He husband, who is a nice but very quite guy, was often coming to us, asking if we were ok, if we needed something, preparing us something to drink. After about one hour another couple with kids arrived. They were already on a good mood, so I cannot tell how the IO affected them. So we had 6 loud kids running around and due to a problem with the smoker, the food took more than one hour to get ready. Everybody was hungry, but no one seemed to care… I think that was the I.O. working it’s magic…
I was invited for breakfast at a friend’s house. We were in total 4 women, all around my age. Everybody was in a good mood and very talkativ, but I cannot say it was because of the IO. We are usualy like that when we meet without our kids…
Day 3
6:30 pm
4 Sprays (1x back of neck + 1x front of neck + 1x hair + 1x wrists)
I went for a meeting at my son’s school. All the parents and all the teachers were there. It lasted about 2 hours. We were all together in a big room (about 30 persons) and room temperature might have been under 20 degrees (Celsius). It was cold and I was sort of impatient. I somehow was not in the mood for all the bla bla bla… But everybody seemed to be happy. After it finished I was the first one to leave. Everybody else stayed there talking to each other…
It’s nice to see that patience has paid off for you and that you finally have been getting some noticeable hits.
A sweet spot is a very personal thing, it is hard to assess for the others. The sweet spot is whatever dosage with which you feel confortable and that gets you the amount of hits you are looking for. Some will like to see crazy effects all the time (like me… joking), others will prefer light improvements in their everyday life. Keep testing, and if you have a great time with a dosage or a mix, and if that can be easily reproduced each time you try it, then you’ve found your own personal sweet spot for that product or mix.
Self-Effects:
I got definitey quiter! But maybe I was just so affraid of start telling all my secrets around that I was paying extra attention not to open my mouth too much… lol
Possible effects on Others:
We invited to friends to have lunch with us. A couple. About 20 minutes after they arrived, the husband started reporting about an unplanned business trip he would have to make in 3 days. Wife didn’t know about it and was not pleased. We were all seating very close to each other on the lliving room, so I decided to get up and go a bit away from them so they wouldn’t be around my mone cloud. There was already a bit of a discussion and I didn’t want the situation to escalate. I went to the kitchen to check for the food. Shortly after that the wife came after me and less than 5 minutes later she was making me a list of people she doesn’t like here on the village. And of course, why she doesn’t like them. We know each other for about 4 years now, we meet very often, but she had never mentioned anything like that before. About 3 hours after spraying the IH, she was still feeling like sharing her thoughts and started reporting about some secrets another friend of us trusted to be safe with her…
Self-Effects:
Ok… I am done with testing this mone. 3 sprays is definitely to much for me… A new acquaintance invited me to have a coffee with her (at her place). On the beginning the conversation was flowing quite normal… we talked about the kids and how funny or stressfull things are at the moment… just the usual bla bla bla… But at some point (I think about 45 minutes after applying the IH) I don’t know what happened to me… I just felt like sharing with her something crazy I did at a party a few months ago… The “funny” thing is that I knew that was not me! I knew I would never tell her that kind of story because I know she has a very conservativ mind and she would for sure change the way she sees me… So I was like trying to hold that story back and for some time it worked. Everytime I was on the edge of start telling, I could “swallow it down” again. I thought of leaving, going home, but I couldn’t… It felt like having a burden on my shoulders and I couldn’t move. Untill I started talking… After I told her every single detail about that story, I felt such a big relieve… Like I had been unchained and could finaly move… Very awkward…
Possible effects on Others:
She was a good listener, didn’t make any kind of critic about my behaviour and even said it was a nice afternoon. That we should do it again…
I wonder if the back of neck app spot was the one that hit you with the IH. I remember spraying this one me instead of IS one time I was in the hospital and I told my wife all kind of crazy stuff. I was lucky and she just laughed as she is very understanding.
I was also wondering if what hit me “so bad” was one spritz too much or if it actually was the app spot… I would have to test it again, but I am not sure if I dare…
And I got a recipe for pain killers… without even asking for it. .. 
I mean, we are friends, but not such good friends… Could that be the I.Shine working on her? To me it sounds more like IO or IH effects…