This is sort of along the lines of what John and Tish were saying.. I don’t think you technically need to be a JERK for the JERK to WORK though. I wore it around my now girlfriend and it was either what I buffered it with or the fact that the way she deciphered it gave off a “jealous BF” vibe. That is not something you want IMO. All mones work differently on different people. Now take for example A314 and this seems to be VERY sexual for my GF and IJ seems like a “jealous BF” vibe. It maybe a congruency issue, but you really need to try something OFTEN to see if what is happening is just situational, your body chemestry, and or what your buffering it with.