So far, I have no luck in getting guys (gay/straight) to interact with me… basically the mones I am using seem to make girls very chirpy
Just then, CBusinesstime reminded me of Instant Sexiness B. Tisha had also suggested Instant Sexiness B in the past too but I did not ended up getting it because I thought the product was not available
Now, because I don’t want to give out too much feminine vibes, can I combine Instant Sexiness B + Instant Gentlemen???
Haha! Glad you’re considering IS/B - I have no idea what would come of this so don’t get mad if it goes wrong! :o Haha, kidding. Well, at least I think It won’t if Tisha actually suggested it as well.
Actually..If it doesn’t conflict with each other, that would be interesting to test out (for gay men). I really think your testing and feedback would be a great value to the gay community here little. I’d say just go for it. You have nothing to lose!
hahahah, yes I have absolutely nothing to lose, except perhaps a few hours of my testing time and $$$$$ right???
I really think this is a crazy combination and a crazy idea to start with but it is like desperate times call for desperate measures… I am really pushing the boundary if I went and get these 2 products.
OK here’s my theory on the matter, Gay men are still men, so while a feminine product like Instant Sexiness may be good, bear in mind that gay males still produce testosterone and the subsequent mones associated with it. So I would imagine you’d be correct in assuming that some degree of masculinity would be helpful for what you want to accomplish. I would think Ammo to be better than IG, Ammo is sexier and not as “old” in it’s vibe. I would suggest either a half or a full spray of Ammo, 2 sprays of Instant Sexiness and a good amount of socials. Since Mystery Boy (the product aimed at gay males) seems to be out of stock till who knows when I suggest (based on reviews and descriptions of the product that I’ve read) you’d be well served with heavy doses (3-4 sprays each) of Instant Shine and Instant Openness.
This mix is light, fun and care free from the IO and Shine.
And has a mix of masculine and feminine vibes that should theoretically intrigue gay males.
Yeah and keep in mind also, some gay men are MANLY men, heavy none producers…I’ve been around them on a few tours Ive done, who were also very attracted to other MANLY men. Some were attracted to feminine men, in feature but still heavy none or rone, If I were to guess ofcourse by their “natural stink” at least. I guess Mystery Boy is outta stock?
So, now I just have to create a vibe that is somehow between the two - manly but sophisticated and sexy… I think it is easier just to get a total makeover!
And yes, this Mystery Boy is still pretty much a Mystery to me…
You know I think it needs to be mentioned that one major element that can’t be left out when looking for interaction is location. It doesn’t matter what you wear, if you are not in a location that is deemed appropriate for such interaction then you won’t get much. Where are you going to meet people?
by invisible are you meaning they don’t talk to you at all, or are not displaying attraction? I hate to say this but if you’re gay and the heterosexual males around you are not it could simply be avoidance based on homophobia. Some straight men will be afraid to be friendly with an openly gay male for fear of either A.) the gay male misinterpreting their friendliness as attraction and trying to escalate by hitting on them which could make them uncomfortable, or B.) fear of other males seeing a friendly and platonic interaction and either jumping to the conclusion that there is more going on than actually is, or simply being assholes and teasing him as though they assume more is going on when they in fact know otherwise.
Now if you’re not openly gay, it may be possible they’re simply getting a “gay vibe” from you, in which case again, refer to the above. Women are quite open and comfortable around gay men for a variety of reasons which would explain the polarized difference in behavior towards you. Honestly if you’re throwing off a gay vibe and simply want the straight men to be friendlier and more respectful toward you, then I would avoid feminine mones altogether. A good dose of red blooded masculinity is what’s needed to reduce any…fears they may have regarding their perception of your sexuality. To a straight male, being perceived as gay when he’s not diminishes his status and social value in a lot of ways, only the most secure and genuinely alpha of men would be confident enough to be openly social and friendly with a known or suspected gay male. I’d suggest a couple of sprays of Ammo for a well rounded manly kinda vibe.
If you’re goal is romantic/sexual attraction, the mix I mentioned earlier might help attract male attention if the man is gay, either openly or latently, but I will confess it’s likely to make straight males even more uncomfortable around you than it sounds like they are now…sorry but that is how men think.
I have to tell you, some of this has nothing to do with sexuality. If someone is ignoring you or treating you like you aren’t a person, then screw them. Don’t seek there attention. They aren’t worth it. If you really want attention from them, make them come to you. I don’t think you should hide behind masculine energy if you have feminine energy. BTW, I know straight guys that still exude feminine energy. It’s their core. They can’t change it, and if they tried to it would screw them up.
So normally they say if you want to have the women then you need to lead the men. Well in your case, you may want to try reversing that. If the women are giving you all of their attention and being openly friendly, then lead them. Maybe the guys will be nicer. If not screw them. If you are looking for more than friends, then you need to look in the right areas. Look for places where people are looking for you.
Here’s a little mix I made up for a gay friend here in Memphis who swears by it.
6 sprays of Ishine
4 sprays of IO
1 spray of IH
1 spray of IG
1 spray of TUTH
25 mcg P83
It’s all about social vibes in the gay scene according to my friend. A little masculinity and alpha vibe goes a long way he says. He told me what the best vibe to have was and then we went from there. He says he has met more guys with this mix than anything else I gave him, including Mystery Boy. If you decide to use it let me know how it works for yah
It’s remarkable just how right on you are with the masculinity. I posted my gay mix that I made with one of my gay friends. He emphasized just how important it was to be the most social guy, but at the same time masculine guy.