Starting things off, I’m a 18 year old high school junior. About two years ago my interests began to shift from a very solitary person (not exactly by choice), to very people oriented. Problem was that I was an only child lacking social skills and with some very high ADD (not so much ADHD). So I got into consoling, all but gave up video gaming, picked up a copy of Dale Carnegie’s “How to Make Friends and Influence People”(and a few other social interaction books). I have also have been trying to turn around my lack of success with women. Been reading various books and online programs (flirting is 2nd nature at this point), but something seems to be missing. I’m 6’4’', good looking, outgoing, but I just can’t seem to get a damn date.
So I’d say my main priority is generating attraction in the opposite sex, if that works, I may consider some of the more “socially” oriented products down the line.
I know exactly how you feel. I myself am a HS senior and ive been wondering. Apparently, the top choices for beginners are Instant Shine and in your case, probably Instant Female Magic as well. Maybe the more experienced can suggest more. However, I am curious on the effects on younger women, that is why i posted a thread in the Men’s Section about who pheremones really affect.
Hey there, slackinghobo, it sounds like you’re off to a great start with all your reading material!
And:
I’ll damn date you, you adorable beast! Heehee
What do you mean when you say “flirting is second nature”? Does that mean you’re great with the opposite sex but are stuck in the friend zone or you have trouble “closing the deal”?
My brother is somewhere around your age, and I send him little gifts of Instant Shine every now and then. He brags to me that “all the girls love me on that stuff”. You might want to try that out when you redeem your gift cert!
Instant Shine is both social and somewhat attractive, so I’d have to agree with the recommendation.
Young women like things to be fun and exciting, with a sense of freedom. (This is where Instant Shines, ahem… shines) Most women (or people, period) save serious or “heavy” sets of psychological behaviors for later in their lives.
“closing the deal”, seems I constantly get turned when asking for a date, excluding the occasional boyfriend excuse it’s been a fake excuse of why she’s busy.(of course I call her on the bluff and be semi-persistant, but to no avail). From what I’ve seen from others, when I girl is attracted to a guy, she “makes time”.
Honestly, after reading about Instant Shine, it really didn’t make much of a sell to me. While it may “enhance” what I already have, confidence and an upbeat additude are easy for me to manufacture.
While Instant Female Magic may have negative side effects among other males, I think it would just amuse me.(Thinking of trying it just before my Men’s Weight Class for the heck of it)
And out of curiousity how are the bottles packaged.(In a box? ect.) While I could explain it to my parents, I’d prefer to do it after testing it. That way I would have an opinion one way or the other to if I bought snake oil.
