need to liven up wife/life of 47 years and phero seem logical to me. she lost trust in 1971 and never regained it even though I reformed on the spot. I need to learn how to slay the GREEN dragon:o
Hey Laverne, and welcome to PheroTalk! It would help us alot if you could create your own thread with some information about you, so we can tailor our advice to suit your needs and get you a $25 gift certificate. Take a look at the Sticky Note at the top of the introduction page on what qualifies you for the gift card… well, basically, its all the questions is asked Hellboy, as well as any other info you want to add. Thanks a bunch!
So she hasn’t trusted you for the last 37 years? Gosh, that green dragon must be old and tired by now.
I’m not sure what pheromones to recommend to you if her trust hasn’t been earned after all that time.
First, buy yourself 9 gallons of Instant Female Magic and bathe in it for several days…
Seriously, Instant Female Magic can sooth a moody woman. Instant Honesty can open her up to deep conversations, sounds like you need that.
Good luck!
wow man, I would suggest IH double strength, plus a double dose of good boy attitude for a while. Phero’s won’t create what isn’t there, so be prepared to work on the unpleasant, because it sounds like she’s pretty miffed after 25+ years.
Hello laverne and welcome to the forum.
It sounds like you have tried to do the right thing after making a mistake but sometimes that complete trust is hard to regain.
I will start out by telling you that these products are great. They do work. But they are not magic. Pheromones only create a suggestion to someone. It is up to you - through word and deed - to live up to that “suggestions” and get them to act on it. Some of us here will tell you it will alsways be 10% pheromones and 90 % you. So while the pheromones may help you in your quest, yours situation is one of relationship, and the pheromones cannot change that for you.
That being said, please read the Married guys thread in my signature block. It may give you and idea for strategies and products. I am sure that after being married for so long you will know a lot of what we talk about, but it will also give you some ideas for the products available and how you can use them.
Good luck and let us know what you decide to do.
Hi laverne, welcome on board.
I can’t really add to the advice you’ve already received, what I can confirm is that there are a load of really helpful people on here who can give you a gentle nudge in the right direction. Think of the pheromones not as a miracle cure but more as applying the right sort of oil to a big machine, it might just be enough to get everything working again.
There are loads of us on here in the same boat, looking for similar results so rest assured you are not alone. If you haven’t done so already, check the married guys link that bosshank advised you of, it’s a goldmine.
Oh, and as I know from personal experience, if you have a question, ask it, there is always someone around who can help!