Hey Cheatingheart, Welcome to the forum!
You have done a great job explaining your situation here, as well as in the womens forum: Advice wanted for my situation. SteveO should be along soon to welcome you and send your Gift Certificate on it’s way.
I can tell you that these products DO work, and the number of users in the forum should help also confirm that for you. As far as Pherlure goes. That’s kind of a hit or miss products. It works for some, but does not seem to work well for the majority of people who have purchased it.
I am sure that Tisha, Kitten and a few of the other super knowledgeable women will be along soon to help out and provide their input. Not being a woman myself, or being ultra familiar with the products designed for women, I’m still going to say that I think you picked a couple of great products. I would probably lean toward suggestiong Lust After Me or another copulin heavy phero as well.
Again, welcome to our little coner of the net. You have found a great source for informaiton, and an absolutely terrific group of people who are always willing to help guide you.