My recommendation for respect would either be A314 or Instant Gentleman. As far as social goes Instant Shine is pretty much a must have in anyone’s Arsenal and maybe some IO and IH.
There are plenty of MXs and Putatives that are good for social, sexual, and respect as well but I would recommend sticking to the Consumer line until you get some experince and do some reporting with those first before you start playing with MXs and Putatives.
Here are some useful posts I would recommend reading if you haven’t already.