I didn’t even buy a lap dance from this stripper. Anyways, during her dance time, I went up close to the stage to take a close look at her, literally, lol. At once, she briefly touched my hair. When I returned, a guy next to me said something about how she seems to like me. I just chalked it up to her trying to get more money out of me.
Later, when she was done, she dropped by where I was sitting and gave me a gentle kiss on a cheek. She told me where she lives. When she found out how I live near the club, she asked me to come back the following week. She definitely wanted to see me again; then, she asked a few things about me and left. She didn’t even talk to some guys next to us.
Well, I just thought it was interesting, because she didn’t even ask me if I wanted a lap dance or anything. In fact, she never came back to convince me to get one. Is she setting this up for the future? Prior to this, it had been four years since I last visited a strip … so, why would she assume that I would return? AMMO gives off that vibe? For your info, I was wearing:
2x AMMO to forearms, 1x of it to the back of neck, 1x p79 to forearms, and 2x IS to my hair. Also, waitresses couldn’t stop staring at me. I wonder what they were thinking, while getting exposed to my mones
I’ve always equated bringing pheromones to a strip club as the equivalent of bringing a dollar off coupon to a fancy department store. You’re still going to pay through the nose!
Zac Efron recently dumped 2,000 dollars at a strip club. And he’s Zac freakin’ Efron!
Strippers, waitresses, bartenders, shooter girls are collectively known as “hired guns.” Strippers especially are the masters at throwing out false IOI’s. Not saying that you can’t land a stripper, but as soon as you give them one dime, you are now a “customer,” sort of their version of friend zoning you, and will be lumped in as such and the party is over and if you planned on bedding her, it will only happen if she’s an escort on the side and you will pay through the nose.
Mystery has an amazing method on dealing with hired guns. Read “The Pick-Up Artist.” It’s not as technical as The Mystery Method, instead it’s lessons intertwined with a narrative. I really enjoyed the read.
Yeah, I’ve had similar things happen many times at strip clubs. Some actually are interested in me while others are setting me up for a “paying” arrangement later. They’re so smooth it’s hard to tell how sincere they are until you engage them. Usually they just want more tips, modeling gigs or are a hoe. Realize, no matter how nice they seem, they think most men are dicks, and ultimately are only there for fast cash, not for dating. The ones I did date were total nut jobs, albeit hot. The drama and extreme lifestyle isn’t worth it most of the time unless you haven’t gotten laid for a couple years…
I would date one, although definitely nothing SERIOUS. No matter how dumb or unstable they are: hot is hot, and I rather date a hot, bitchy girl that is a freak in bed than some skinny Harvard grad with no boobs and an inch thick eyewear
Whatever she wants, I am down… but, I am not going to waste my money on them, lol
The key is to not show them that you are really interested in them. If they try to come up and talk to you, just kind of blow them off. Never give them money if you can avoid it. Have a friend go with you so you can say you’re only here with him. Neg her some, but be playful about it. This will drive them nuts that someone isn’t all wide-eyed for them, and they may find some attraction with you. Just my 2 cents
I would only “date” them for short,hot flings. There is no way, I would go for more than that.
Plus, I can’t ruin my reputation with my colleagues, so I would have to keep it a secret from everyone
Is the club a juice bar club or an alcohol club? Juice bars are tough to run game in because nobody thinks you arrived for the sole purpose of downing a Snapple.
Sometimes the hottest girls in a juice bar club are the bartenders and waitresses. Feigning interest in them will keep the dancers on their toes.
3xAMMO + 2x IS + 3x IH + p79… The Greek girl at the strip club remembered my face, but couldn’t remember my name. Well, I had forgotten hers also, so I asked her for it again. Afterward, she gave me a kiss on the cheek, and then welcomed me back. I told her, if she could remember my name when I come back in a week or two, I would buy her some pizza. She agreed; she said she will surely remember it next time. I doubt it, but this keeps ball rolling, heh. We will see what happens. I got no lap dance or anything else from her again, and she didn’t mind at all. In fact, I am thinking she doesn’t want me to pursue her in that way at the venue. Anyways, if she remembers my name, the game will definitely be on: I can use that as an excuse next time to get her number and hang out with her, lol.
I’ve actually thought about taking Mystery’s Hired Gun method and my mones down to Little Darlings here in Vegas and just practice gaming them all night long for shits and giggles.
I don’t judge these girls who work these jobs, but I know that from my experience doing online marketing for a lot of adult companies and knowing talent etc. That they are for the most part an unstable lot.
There have been some amazing people I have worked with like Rachel Aziani and her boyfriend Buzz…I love those two to death. But they are few and far between.
I’m interested to see where all this takes you young gun!
I don’t know if I mentioned it already, but… I am not looking forward to having any serious relationship with these girls. I would not mind being their friends, taking them out to nice dates, and even possibly getting involved with them sexually… however, outside of that, I REALLY doubt I would go for it… just saying…
Yepper! They are masters at throwing out fake IOI’s, I hate to say they’re manipulative, because in my view of strip clubs, you gotta know what to expect when you go in there. You’re paying a woman to shake her tail at you, and when she starts flirting etc., its just to get more money out of you.
When I walk into a casino here in Vegas with the exception of the poker room I expect to lose, they have the edge.
When I go into a strip club, I expect them to flirt and make me feel all tingly inside, but I know it’s not going anywhere, not really because I choose for it not to, but because she is just doing her job at creating a fantasy.
Well, like I said, it a win-win. If she does go out with me great, but if she doesn’t, it is whatever… Who knows? She might really remember me, and I would owe her some pizza
i have to chime in with a ‘technique’ that has served me well over the past 15 years of strip clubs. I haven’t been going to them much lately but this should work just about everytime.
Every club has (on average) one ‘10’ and one ‘-4’ and a few '7’s 8’s and 9’s on any given night. This is the basis for the angle.
Mones will definitely help and you should use ones that show high value but they are not always needed.
This may seem a little harsh but it works. Just mind your own business until the ‘10’ gets to you during her rounds of the bar. Engage with her in some conversation for a few minutes and then basically take the attitude of ‘you’re hot but just aren’t worth my time or money’. End the conversation by giving her a 5 or 10 and blowing her off. Make sure at least one other dancer hears this happen (crucial). If you blow her off right and basically pay her to leave you alone because she isn’t enough for you the other dancers (7,8,9) will work that much harder for you attention. They are all looking for a way to prove they are as good as the 10 and since you’ve shown that looks alone are not worthy of your time they will flirt and work harder to be deemed worthy. Also you will have given the view that you have no problem spending a few bucks to ‘get rid of’ unwanted ‘arm candy’. You will appear to be a guy that has the cash to blow but not one that throws it around with abandon. This will play on their subconscious. All women are looking for someone who is responsible but able to provide for them easily.
Long story short… by blowing off the 10 you will be attracting the 7’s, 8’s and 9’s. I prefer to be surrounded by two, three or four 8’s or 9’s rather than one 10. but that’s just me.
It may seem like alot of work but there is nothing better than spending 5-10 bucks and being surrounded by cuties all night.