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I’ve been using MMethod for 10 months now and it has killed my fears in approaching any woman. I must say, it really work in that respect. But after almost a year of MMethod, I have found that i’ve become reliant on that too. I’ve become so routine based that whenever I sarge a girl, it’s like a Shakespearian play about to start. It’s almost as if it’s scripted. I know that’s not the way Mystery intended it to be, but that how I have evolved to " become ". Remember when Style said at the end of his book how so many PUA’s try to emulate him and his routines ( I won’t say techniques, coz his techniques/understanding/calibration are awesome ), and become like robots? Well, I have turned out like that. I have sarged, I have approached, and I have closed with numbers for a date. Then on the date, I’m like this robot who just isn’t me. And I’m wondering , how long I can keep this facade up with the girl you know? So lately, I’ve been listening to this self-help guy called Gary Brodsky. I must say, he’s awesome and he instilled in my mind many things that are currently, causing me to evolve yet again to another level of confidence and competence. This guy is literally reframing my mind to bring out the personality in me, that I so lacked from the robotic nature of the MMethod.
I had a date last weekend, and I tried out some of these Brodsky techniques and I was incredibly happy bout the way I held myself. I was almost my best self on that night and I didn’t do any routines, didn’t have to depend on it for the first time in months. You know when women say to unconfident men " Just be yourself! ", well , that doesn’t work at all. It’s being your " best self " that brings upon the sparkle in her eyes, and boy…I sure got sparkles from her. Then again, I had Shine and A314 to help me as well.
MHarris, I have been thinking of the faking it till I make it with the mones, even before you mentioned it. I was thinking maybe if I get used to acting this way, I shall become natural in that form. But then I thought about it again. When one day, months down the line I decide to go commando without mones, the placebo effect might actually kick in. I’d probably start to think " hey you have become this really confident person because you had mones to help you and now, u don’t have mones on. Revert back to old self . "
I was watching the Annihilation Method by Style the other day. And he mentioned many a good AFC turned PUA had decided to drop the whole facade and just be " natural ", and that they thought that they had finally amalgamated with their alter ego. Within days they had lost it all and snapped back to their old AFC ways and have become quivering wimps again. Without the methods , they were nothing but the same person still.
I think it doesn’t work in theory. You can’t fake it till you make it because the little voice in your head will always tell you that deep down, you’re still the same person. One has to really consiously change oneself from within , and that’s the hardest challenge in life, facing your own demons.
Thank you for your Ammo + A314 feedback. I will try it this weekend for sure. I will also try MX 105 upon your recommendation. I think that formula’s missing 2 pheromones right? So in what way would it be different than MX102 in terms of effect? You mentioned it being more romantic, but what’s the downside of that? Less respect from men maybe ?
Sorry for the long post guys, typing my thoughts here allow me to actually analyze problems and see things from a 3rd perspective.
NFS