I think I got some hits today that I could write about. I went to the store and there was a guy who liked me. He kept walking by me. I walked about 4 feet past him, and he inhaled as deeply as he could when I walked by. Don’t think I’ve had that happen to me before. His inhale was loud, deep, and obvious, but not rude or creepy. He continued to try to get my attention after that and smiled at me a few times. Then there was a different guy behind me on the line. He kept getting unusually close to me, and I thought he may have been smelling me. I looked back and smiled a bit, he smiled back and kept staring at me wide eyed. Never had that happen either. I find it interesting and fun to start noticing the hits.
2 drops of Cleo
A bit of Mistress on pulse points as a cover up plus neck
I have been testing out this combination for about two weeks now. I keep noticing hits. I notice that when men over 50 are around me for over 5 minutes. They get more alert about their surroundings. They get really interested in women and they start checking me out as well many other women who are walking around. I also notice one thing always happens with younger men. A few have stood a few feet behind me, watching me with odd like intense interest, and it seems like they’re smelling me. I try to be nice and smile a bit, but their face looks like they’re turned on, so they usually seem embarrassed when I turn around and they realize how they’re acting. It’s almost as if they couldn’t stop themselves. I haven’t noticed any effects on women acting different. My husband tells me I smell so good when he hugs me but I don’t think it affects his behavior toward me. I do use pink sugar as a cover scent but I was getting these same reactions even before I used pink sugar. While I think it’s fun to notice how pheros affect people, this is starting to get weird and I’d like some different responses.
I am very intrigued with this Cleo and Mistress. Actually, I had no such luck with IH, IS, MX135 and CTTM. Even if I overdosed it.. still no effects. I am not making a journal yet coz there’s nothing at all. Tried to wait for their ISB the last options but if it won’t I will probably try that Cleo and Mistress for sure and will see. Thanks for sharing your journey towards Cleo and Mistress.
I think everyone’s experiences are a little bit different with pheros. I would probably talk to these guys if I wasn’t married. I didn’t want to come across as some silly married woman encouraging that kind of attention. I’m staying off the pheros for a week. If I get the same reactions when I start using them again then I will make a huge effort to say hello to these guys just to ease any embarressment and so that they see me as a person.
I love the way Mistress smells. I applied it right under my nose the first time I used it. The self effects were over the top. So much that now I am careful whenever I use it. I felt so IN LOVE, relaxed, sad, and sleepy all at the same time. I was so emotional that I took a nap. When I woke up, all I wanted was for my husband to lay down on top of me so I could cuddle with him. I feel pretty and sexy in a relaxed confident kind of way when I wear it on my neck. I haven’t noticed any immediate self effect with Cleo. Sometimes I can smell it about 7 hours after I first applied it and I get really turned on when I keep on smelling it. Good luck with pheros and please update us when you notice some hits.
I didn’t use any pheros all week. I noticed a big difference in the way I felt, the type of men I attracted and the way these men treated me. I felt “normal”, comfortable with myself and with my surroundings. Didn’t notice any guys sniffing me, and it seems like I got the same amount of attention I get when I use pheros. Something was a bit different though, I think the guys were more relaxed around me, and like there was a little less sexual tension. Unfortunately I went back to attracting agressive men who act with such agressive/threatening body language toward me that they make me the center of scenes. Where people just stare quietly in disbelief, then avoid eye contact with me to not add to my embarrasment. These guys find me attractive but act like such assholes. Not my fault, I don’t know what it is about me that brings out these aggressive behaviors in some men. When I was on pheros, the agressive guys who had bothered me in the past were actually very tame and acted like the normal guys who like me. It makes me very sad but I don’t know what I can do about it since it’s so unexpected. On a positive note, I found myself smiling easily and even saying hello to a few people. I was unable to smile at people I didn’t know becuase of my social anxiety. Then the pheros made it easier for me to smile, and now I learned that I don’t need the pheros to smile and make eye contact anymore. I’m really looking forward to using them again next week.
I was reading your journal, and it brought back to memory this time I was in a book store it was around lunch time. This mid summer day, I was very curious about finding about more about scents from scientific standpoint, because I had been doing so reading on-line and found this to be interesting.
So there, I was at this book store, and I found a book of the subject. I decided to find a quiet place alone to do some reading, so in a corner of the store where there’s a couple of tables away from traffic. After awhile, a nicely dress lady in business attire kind of momentarily standing in front of a book shelf perhaps 6-8 feet way; maybe she’s on her lunch break.
So at this time, I notice the most wonderful sexy perfume smell coming from her, I was like glue to this smell, because it expressing itself that was so nice. She seemed very professional, and elegant and was minding her own business, but I was what is it with this person that has me noticing her. Again, I’m something like, what kind of person is this lady.
Then it’s like a puff of smoke and she left, I thinking I should get up and just check this out. I didn’t though; but I couldn’t understand like something alerted this is the kind of person with substance and quality.
Now, the funny part, even to this day, I have wondered what was it, about her perfume. Perhaps she was wearing pheromones; I guess I’ll never know.
What would it be like for a couple of females one who I know and the other a stranger to wear some pheromones and then spend some time around me? I wonder how would I response or react. Then to top it off, for them to so kindly tell me, Oh… by the way how do you like the pheromones that I’m wearing? I would just like to know the effect/experience from the prospective of a target.
I could see that happening. Maybe someone somewhere could do a little documentary or social experiment. After exposure, the unsuspecting victims could be interviewed and asked questions about the ladies they were exposed to without being informed (at first) about pheros. I’d watch.
Good the hear on the Social anxiety end of things. Pheros have helped me a lot in that way as well.
The unexpected not so nice behavior coming from these men probably doesn’t help your SA.
Hope you are having a great day!
Sounds to me like pheros are making your more accessible to the right guys and repelling the jerks. Do you feel more confident now that you’re been using pheros? Or laid back? A combination?
MVKBUGATTI, I wonder if maybe you became more aware of the power of her perfume/scent because you were doing research on scents. Scent can have such a powerful emotional effect on people. Some men fall in love that much faster with a woman because of the perfume she wears. Some people just have an air about them that says that there is a quality about them that puts them on a higher level. The way she presented herself added to her level of attractiveness. I remember one time when I went to a Christmas party. There was a guy there who I could tell was wearing pheros cause I could smell them on him. I noticed that he singled me out from across the room to come and stand close to me. I knew what he was doing, and I felt a little weird about it. I thought he may have been testing out his pheros on me. I left the area, and he followed me. I didn’t blow him off but I wasn’t as friendly as I should have been. Looking back now, I realize that I was wrong. I wear pheros so I should have been sympathetic and should have known that I had nothing to be afraid of.
Madison, the rude behavior of some guys really hurts me socially. The way I see it is that I there are two things I can do. I can allow the fear to affect me to the point where I act out on my anxiety or I can learn from it. I learned from the last incidence that I need to be more social. Look around more and have a little smile on my face when I look to see who is around. When I feel anxious, I intimidate some people when I look at them without smiling, so I have to smile wether I want to or not.
MVKBUGATTI, I wonder if maybe you became more aware of the power of her perfume/scent because you were doing research on scents. Scent can have such a powerful emotional effect on people. Some men fall in love that much faster with a woman because of the perfume she wears. Some people just have an air about them that says that there is a quality about them that puts them on a higher level. The way she presented herself added to her level of attractiveness. I remember one time when I went to a Christmas party. There was a guy there who I could tell was wearing pheros cause I could smell them on him. I noticed that he singled me out from across the room to come and stand close to me. I thought he may have been testing out his pheros on me and it made me feel kind of weird. I left the area, and he followed me. I didn’t blow him off but I wasn’t as friendly as I should have been. Looking back now, I realize that I was wrong to have been so judgmental. I wear pheros so I should have been sympathetic and should have realized that I had nothing to be afraid of.
Madison, the rude public behavior of some guys really hurts my social confidence. The way I see it is that there are two things I can do. I can allow the fear to affect me to the point where I act out on my anxiety or I can tough it out and learn from it. I learned from the last incidence that I need to be more social. Look around more and have a little smile on my face when I look to see who is around. When I feel anxious, I intimidate some people when I look at them without smiling, so I have to smile wether I want to or not. It will help people to like me more and want to be nice to me when I acknowledge them, and it will help me to see what kind of mood people are in and who I should avoid.
Eldros, You’re right about the pheros helping me repel the jerks. Using pheros has been so interesting for me. I had awful social anxiety before I stared using them. At first the pheros gave me a sexual confidence that was giddy and fun, they helped me feel so much happier in public. I got used to them so I stoped using them to see if I could feel the self effects again. I felt the most socially relaxed I have felt maybe in years the week that I didn’t use them. Now that I’m using them again, the pheros are giving me more confidence, but it’s not social confidence. Lately it’s been nothing but over the top sexual confidence. It’s starting to concern me because the pheros affect the way I feel and I’ve been noticing that the way I have been carrying myself lately has been changing and some people who know me have started to notice these changes in me. I know I am not ready for that kind of sexual confidence at this point in my life. I keep on attracting good looking men that are really horny who feel so comfortable letting me know what they want from me that they even follow me around. The way I look at these men when I return the eye contact is different from the way I normally make eye contact with strangers. I can’t really say what it is, but it feels more intense, and I can see it in their reaction. It makes me feel uncomfortable because I know I will see these men again. I don’t want anyone seeing me down the road, remembering how they acted and feeling awkward to see me again. I’m also married, and while I love the attention and I think flirting is fun. I’m concerned that I might be sending out the wrong signals. I don’t blame that on the pheros, but they do affect me and I still have a lot to learn. Sometimes I want to stop using the pheros just to feel down to earth, but I’m more concerned about attracting aggresive jerks again. I started using pheros in December of 09, so this is all still fairly new to me.
I’ve been layering p74, today was the first time I started testing it on its own. I sprayed it once to my neck and went out to eat breakfast. I felt happier then I normally do. When I got to the restaurant, some hot guy said good morning to me on his way out. For some reason I couldn’t smile at him. I started smiling once he left. Then I turned and to my surprise, that ex crush was sitting there, eating and watching me the whole time I had been smiling to myself because of the hot dude. At least I didn’t feel embarrassed. We had a falling out a few weeks ago so I just ignored him. When I got to my table all the feelings came back, and I got teary eyed! This may have been a p74 self effect, it was just so over the top. Thank goodness it didn’t take me long to compose myself and he didn’t see that. He walked by me a few times and we didn’t make any eye contact, it just didn’t seem right, but I was glad he didn’t completely ignore me. He ruined the happy mood I was in. Then when I realized he had left, I smiled and I felt happy again.
The order I placed like two or three days ago, got here today! Unbelievable. Thank you for the free gift of IH, I have to write a report about what IHx2 did for me the other day.
A few weeks ago I met a guy at the gym and we started talking every now and then. He seemed nice. I usually wear one spray of IH to the back of my neck. Two days ago, I wore the p74, p83, ISA, and one spray of IH. He started talking to me, and I knew that IH was doing its work when he told me that he feels like he has known me for a very long time. He talked my ear off for over an hour. He talked a lot about his marriage. Said his wife won’t even hug or kiss him. He then said that that is why some men go out and rape women. He was watching me carefully as he said it, I was too stunned to respond to that. He continued talking, and a few minutes later, made the same stament, AGAIN. This time, I was ready for a response, but he wouldn’t shut up.
I thought he was a nice guy and I was ready to go out to lunch with him next week, but I don’t want anything that has to do with him anymore for obvious reasons.
He was at the gym today, acting like a love struck teenager. I kept on ignoring him. He is very good at reading body language and knew better than to come work out with me this time, but he kept peacocking and looking back at me, winking and smiling at me. I would not smile back at him. It was obvious I was avoiding him, and he came over anyway. Telling me how he could see how I was really into my work out, and how great that was, etc. He then started coming onto me. He knew I didn’t want to talk to him, so being the con man that he is, he started acting goofy. Instead of coming across as funny, he looked like an idiot and people were just staring at him. At one point he even stuck out his tounge in the middle of a sentence, acting like he was so cute. He finally left. I kept an eye on him, and he was so happy talking to people, always facing me and WATCHING ME. I ended up having to leave early cause I got tired of constantly avoiding him.
I am so disturbed by that asshole. I don’t want to blow him off because I am concerned for my safety. I want to let him go gently, but he’s not taking the hint. I also don’t want people at the gym to think that I am a poor judge of character and that I can’t get along with the men there. I will not be wearing anymore sexual mones to the gym until this problem is settled. I would love to hear any suggestions about how I should deal with this creep. Thanks in advance.
Oh Cindy, be careful! Because a guy who fantasizes about rape enjoys an unwilling participant (which of course is what defines it as rape).
Park as close to the entrance as possible, and go to the gym during times when you know lots of other people will be there (yes, I know that sucks, because that’s when you have to wait for equipment, but your safety is more important than anything else!).
My advice is to just ignore him, pretend he doesn’t exist, hopefully he will stop bothering you (and hopefully not bother anyone else too).
That is really good advice. Better to change my schedule than to be sorry. I think he was under the influence of alcohol or drugs the last time I saw him. Either that or he really does have some mental condition. I just can’t see anyone with any kind of social common sense acting that way. I’ll change my schedule long enough to hopefully get him to calm down because I get the feeling this one is the type that will hunt me down. When he does, and dares to approach me again, I will not be nice anymore. I will be ready to make him look like the laughable piece of scum that he really is. He’s the kind of creep that gets off on weakness, and he confused my niceness for weakness. This creep seemed so nice. I really think that the IH and P83 had an influence in making him feel comfortable enough to tell me about his views, and I’m so glad that I wore them that day.
I agree, its best that you knew this about him now, than to later be somewhere alone with him and learn about him the hard way. The kind that just won’t take no for an answer, the “you know you want me” kind of guy, totally gives me the creeps.
I try to be nice and smile a bit, but their face looks like they’re turned on, so they usually seem embarrassed when I turn around and they realize how they’re acting. It’s almost as if they couldn’t stop themselves. I haven’t noticed any effects on women acting different. My husband tells me I smell so good when he hugs me but I don’t think it affects his behavior toward me. I do use pink sugar as a cover scent but I was getting these same reactions even before I used pink sugar. While I think it’s fun to notice how pheros affect people, this is starting to get weird and I’d like some different responses. 
