My friend acting weird with my Ammo

I wore Ammo last night going out with some of my friends. There were around twelve of us. I haven’t seen them for at least eight months, so I am sure they probably can’t remember my pheromone signature. When I wore Ammo, I felt that the guys who brought their girlfriends along seem to be so protective of them, always hugging their girlfriends when I was talking to them, but they don’t do so when others talk to them. (Its a sign for me that ammo was taking effect) One of the girlfriends (Indian) really liked the way I smelled, I think that this Ammo stuff really works for Indians, but be careful not to OD, I have OD’d before and its a completely different experience. She actually came very close to talk to me while her boyfriend went to get a drink, she took an interest in me (she asked lots of questions such as who are my friends, where I normally hang out on weekends etc). When her boyfriend came she just switched topics and started talking about other stuff :slight_smile:
I am really enjoying Ammo, I find that 2 sprays is more than enough for me, although I do also get hits with only one spray.

Anyway, what I felt was weird was about one of my friends who used to be great mates with me during college, but this time, I thought he felt intimidated by me. Whenever I get close to him or his girlfriend, he puts his arm around her when talking to me. So when I had a chance to speak with him whilst he was not with his gf, I grinningly told him that his gf is cute, that he’s doing great for himself, he told me that he has been with her for at least a year already, in my mind I was thinking what does that have to do with anything? Anyway I later learned that he just started dating her for two weeks, now I wonder what he would accomplish by lying to me? Strange behavior.

He didn’t want you STEALING his lady…nice little report man :cool:

I wondered that as well, but could AMMO really change his perception of me that drastically? I’ve known him for four years, he should know by now that I would never think of stealing his girl from him. I guess AMMO can be a dangerous product to use around insecure friends, it can be potentially friendship ruining.

i’ve got “friends” who i can “trust” and i have “friends” who i can’t “trust”.

your friend may have the same categories, and he may have just moved you from one to the other.

Man that sucks, I should stop wearing Ammo when meeting up with him. Hope that it would change our friendship back to normal again.

i’m not sure it’s that easy or simple. if you had a good friendship before, there really isn’t anything that ammo is going to do to stop it.

many people who regularly wear pheromones feel more confident, even during times when they aren’t wearing any. are you willing to be less confident as a person to maintain a friendship?

I used to be close with him during our college years, but haven’t seen him in almost a year, I guess he thought I changed…for the worse.

I am a confident person though, so I don’t think it would be a problem to stop using AMMO around him. I just hope that my friendship with him is not ruined, I really like him as a person, he’s a really nice guy, very friendly, but not so when exposed to AMMO. I think maybe I will put on IH, IS, and IO when I see him next time, rebuild back the friendship. Do you think this would work?

By the way, he’s of half Chinese, half German descent, don’t know if this information helps.

I wouldn’t be so quick to blame Ammo - Its actually produced some great male bonding for many people.

Try to be more aware of whats going on between you two - its most likely something far more simple.

This effect is reasonably normal. In fact I’d be worried if my guy friends didn’t engage in a little tree pissing around me when their women are around. If a guy acts a LITTLE territorial around you it means he sees you as a man of high enough status and value that you could steal his girl. It’s totally subconscious and instinctive. Amplified by you no having a woman of your own in the situation.
If your friends didn’t act a little territorial around you, it’s almost like the male equivalent of a woman telling you that you’re like a brother to her…ie you’re not seen as a sexual being a but as harmless as if you were gay or a eunuch.

I guarantee that you could have defused any sense of unease by pointing out a random female not part of your group and indicating to your guy friends that you were interested in her. In fact I think any of them would have been happy to wing for you and play you up to an outside target simply to occupy you enough so they can feel more relaxed about having their own girls around you.

I would say the Ammo gave off a confident male signal (that sexy guy) and your friend, maybe for the very first time, took you as a potential threat. Now that’s not to say you did anything wrong, but that is to say your friend didn’t have a very good perception of you prior. Basically he is seeing you in a new light and it scares the hell out of him. Many people are frightened of change.

I can almost bet your friend at times, puts you down, disrespects you in front of his girl, or is sometimes a big jerk when women are present. Its not all the time, but just enough so he can elevate himself above you. These are all signs of someone who is lacking in their own confidence. Now that you have this air about you he sees you as competition. He doesn’t understand the abundance element and wants to hold you back. Another thing to consider is that you have also gained some confidence from the Ammo. You might simply also be noticing more of this behavior that’s always been there with your friend.

So yeah Ammo is very powerful! Just remember though its about you and your reality. You create for yourself the reality you want. Keep at it and don’t concern yourself with your friends issues or lack of confidence thereof. Continue to build yourself and surround yourself with good people. Do not sacrifice the greater good for the current comfort stage you are in. The highest payout is always rewarded on the greatest risk. Take the risk as in the end the payout will be a better you.

Right - in my experience though his friend is an exception to the rule. I always get male bonding with Ammo although again I usually do only wear one spray.

Exactly my point John. You’re a confident guy and as such I’m sure your friends would be confident too. It just sounds like in this situation that his friend has some confidence issues. Ammo is pretty harmonious as you say :slight_smile:

Thanks guys for all your responses, it is amazing Steve that you were able to describe my friends’ antics quite accurately, as if you were there and you know the guy! Every time he is with his girlfriend he always acts differently with me compared to times when we were alone together. I always hated the times his girlfriend is around because of the effect it had on his behavior, its like he’s a new (worse) person. But every time his girlfriend is not around, he’s a really nice guy.
I am never like that, whether my girlfriend is with me or not, I act the same all the time, this is why I don’t understand why he has to change so dramatically whenever his girlfriend is around. Now I know thanks to your insight Steve, you are a psychologist!

Psychologist: no, but have been in that situation many times before I got that confidence thing under control.

As you progress through life you will come upon better people to surround yourself by. Might I suggest Psycho-Cybernetics By Maxwell Maltz. I’ve read that book so many times and every time I go back and read it again I discover something new in myself that I missed the last time. That single book had a more profound impact on my life than any other book ever.

II believe it to now be in the public domain and a search for it on Google will reveal many download PDF sources.

Steve and other admin/forum members, why are you guys using hypnotic language on me to make me associate AMMO with confidence/power. Steve, I realize the placebo effect is incredibly strong, and that if I am able to trick myself into thinking that the pheromones work, then they will work! This is what is amazing about human consciousness. It is real if we believe it is real. It won’t be real if we don’t believe its real. Amazing right? This means we need to learn to control our minds 100% in order to successfully lie to ourselves, and this is one of the hardest things to do :wink:

I don’t know anything about hypnotic language. Ammo is associated with confidence/power because that’s what the pheromones in it tend to communicate.

Now I’ve done some off the wall pseudo science type of experiments with pheromones and one of them was having a friend of mine use Ammo while learning basic PUA tactics.
At the risk of rehashing old info and annoying long time members, the guy is a 6’5" 350 pound mountain of a man. Nice as can be, but very insecure about his weight. On top of that he has a receding hairline and as a survivor of cancer he has one testicle (another source of insecurity for him).
I had him take the 30 day Style Life Challenge from Neil Strauss’s book “Rules of the Game”…twice. Once with two sprays of Ammo a day and the second time with no pheromones.
Now you would think having gone through the program once before, the results would have been better the second time around…not so, he got better results the first time he went through the program. And I peeled the label off the bottle I gave him so he had no idea what he was wearing, and I made no mention of pheromones to him at all. All he thought was that I gave him some good cologne I had handy.

If I may ask, how significant were the differences? (phone numbers etc.) Matt

12 numbers the first 30 days with Ammo, 8 numbers the second time around (bearing in mind that the second time around his confidence and technique would have been better and thus his results should have been better)