You are in ther right place if you want to learn about pheromones, how to use them and whsat to expect. There´s a ton of information created by the users of this forum during years. All the info here is based on trial en error, so I guess you will enjoy it.
To get you started, if you have not already done it, there are some threads you should not miss:
They have enough information to get you started. Alsdo, read the product´s decription at the store, because they are pretty accurate IMO.
Anyway, the search function is your best frined once you know what products you want to know more about, so get yourself familiar with it.
I agree with you. It´s your confidence and ambition, your attitude, what treally attracts a lady. However, mones can be a part of thgat, and also will help you to project the certain qualities or personality traits taht you want to convey. Mones are not going to do all the job for you, but can give you a nice boost once you are heading the right direction.