My journal: husband's Fall Out mix saved our marriage, now talk of opening it up

Field Reports & Anecdotal Experience Women's Journals
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My husband and I recently hit a rough patch and I firmly believe his Androtics products saved our marriage. In one night about 3 weeks ago, his Fall Out mix had the renewing effect of several days’ vacation with no kids. (We have 2 and another on the way). At that time, I didn’t know he was using pheromones but he let me in on his secret shortly after.

Around that same time we started seriously talking about opening our relationship and have narrowing down our parameters to a point where we both feel comfortable moving forward, but honestly since we got back on track neither one of us is in a big hurry to explore the option because our bond is stronger than ever now, both of us are committed to being the best versions of our selves, and to letting each other do the same. We’ll see what the year ahead brings, but for now it feels like we’ve got the spark back. I think we’re better parents too. At least we’re happy more often, and more patient with the kids.

As of this posting, I don’t have my own mones but have tried my husband’s. The only one that gave me notable results was IS but he only had a to-go and it was gone quickly so I only got to use it once. P102 did nothing for me.

I’ve been scouring the forums and getting acquainted for the past week. This weekend, I will be placing an order of my own. To-go’s of ISex/A, ISex/B, IH , and P74 , and a full size IShine.

I’ll hit the 3rd trimester of this pregnancy just before my order arrives, so I wont be using mones everyday, and I’ll be taking a long break from them during maternity leave, from a few weeks before baby’s born to 3 - 4 months after. In the meantime am extremely curious to see how people react to the pregnant lady exuding extra sex-appeal.

Right now, I’m observing how people respond to me normally. I’m friendly but sort of shy. With other shy people it can get kind of awkward. With more open people, conversation is usually pretty easy. I smile and say “hello” or good morning" etc, to people I pass on the street if they make eye contact, but I don’t push it. I estimate 1 in every 4 or 5 people I pass will exchange a friendly word. Generally I’m treated politely by strangers and warmly by acquaintances and friends. My hope for my mone experiments in social situations is to be able to diminish that social awkwardness so social interactions with other shy people are more relaxed, and increase the value of other interactions.

At work I get along very well with all my coworkers and bosses. I work in an office with an even mix of men and women. I am a middle manager and I am responsible for a number of various tasks, so I’m hoping to get a good mix of social cooperation and respect from the vibes I give out, as well as the self effect of increased mental focus.

With my husband I want to reciprocate the effort he’s been making to attract me, and continue to keep that fire of passion burning. I want to overcome the frumpiness and grumpiness that typically comes with being a working mom. And, if I do eventually pursue other romantic interests within our new agreement, I obviously want to increase my edge there. More on that if I ever get there

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Placed my order last night. So Excited!

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My order arrived today. I drove home on my lunch to test out the work mix I had planned, picked up a couple deli sandwiches on the way for my husband and I.

The work mix went like this:

2 sprays of ISHINE (1x regular strenght) to the chest/neck

2 sprays of P74 (12.5 mcg/Neroli Fragrance) one on each elbow.

1 Spray of IH (regular strength) split between each wrist.

Experience: got back to work 15 minutes late, still calm, cool and happy on the freeway.

One coworker who had been particularly disgruntled yesterday and this morning was completely back to his usual friendly self and remained in good spirits the rest of the day.

Another male coworker stopped by my desk to ask a question, but first he paused, shut his eyes, and took a deep breath in through his nose, with a sort of nostalgic smile on his face.

Self effects: I stayed happy and upbeat all day. Didn’t experience the typical “crash” I’d feel after a deli sandwich.

I was a little disappointed to not experience sharper focus which I’d read was an effect of p74 in some reports. Also, was expecting more from IH, but people remained sort of aloof and casual. This week there has been an increase negative talk behind the backs of certain people. I was hoping the combo of p74 and IH could bring some of that out and aid resolution. I’m thinking of adding another spray of IH tomorrow.

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Planned Instant Sexiness A / B blind test.

I have a unique opportunity the next two evenings to go out without kids. I’m planning to do a blind test of Instant Sexiness A and B, one on each night. I’m going to be adding the IS to my work mix described above. Another time perhaps.

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I have to use a higher does of IH to see any effect. I use four sprays when using it to open people up. I usually stick to one to two mones until I know how they effect me at each level. I only do two if each is reported to give different effects. Also if you want more self effects spray them closer to your face. Like on your neck. On the writs and elbows I see more effects on other. Especially since I am in sales and my hands are usually out in front of me gesturing near the client. Good luck to you and your husband.

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The unknown sexiness experiment part 1:

I picked on of my 2 regular strength, to-go Instant Sexiness out of a brown paper bag on Friday Morning and put it in my purse. The other I tucked away in a drawer. The night before I had practiced holding them to spray in such a way that I wouldn’t see whether it was A or B.

Once I hugged and kissed my kids and left the house I gave myself the first spray - it took 3 pumps to get a good spray out of the new bottle so I think I ended up with closer to a spray and a half. I re-applied the sexiness twice during the work day, and steered it with P74. Here is what I experienced.

Had lunch with my boss and one of the young men who works in my department, the key On Page SEO tech. We were discussing strategy for some key clients as overall strategy moving forward with the changing landscape of the industry. It was a positive and synergistic meeting. We were able to congratulate ourselves on our use of best practices thus far, and agree on the ways we are going to adapt. It all seemed effortless. I presume the P74 was helping here.

The Instant Sexiness came into play in choosing where to sit in the restaurant, they both looked to me, and both insisted I lead the way for our party when we were being shown to our table. I excused myself to use the restroom, and when I returned the waiter had only brought 2 glasses of water to the table. My coworker immediately gave me his glass, and the boss gave his to my coworker. Neither of them had taken a drink yet.

Later at the office, some interpersonal drama that had been brewing all week was coming to a head between three of the men in the department. I spoke individually with the two main people in the office just before the three of them met and “had it out” as it were. I just listened and encouraged each to consider the other’s point of view, but they were both very upset, one was livid. They were able to clear the air enough to move forward in their working relationship.

Just before closing time, the third guy who was only marginally involved in that drama very respectfully told me about it from his point of view. He was apologetic and said that he didn’t want to put me in an uncomfortable position in the middle of everything. I assured him that as manager it is my job to listen when people need to vent. He was talking to me in my cubicle, and after a moment of standing he assumed a resting squatting position while we finished our discussion.

I went out to dinner with 2 of the ladies from work, and on the way I gave myself an extra spray of each p74 and Instant Sexiness. Again at the restaurant, I was the primary person the hostess and server spoke to. It was a somewhat nice restaurant where you would expect good service, and that is what we got.

Best Guess at the end of the day: IS/A

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The unknown sexiness experiment part 2:

Yesterday was Saturday afternoon; my husband took the kids over to the babysitter while I got ready to go to a concert. I applied the other Sexiness. Again, it took 3 pumps to get a good spray from the brand new bottle. Again, I steered it with P74.

When my husband got home, I was still about 10 or 15 minutes from being ready to go, but he didn’t seem to mind the wait. When we got in the car he admired my thigh-high nylons. We stopped at the large chain discount super store to pick up an umbrella for the outside venue and a chance of rain. In the store, I got more than the usual number of smiles from some of the male shoppers. I went to use the restroom there while my husband went through checkout. Another woman went into the restroom ahead of me but then offered to let me take the vacant stall. I declined, but I counted it as a hit.

We stopped for dinner near the concert venue. No obvious hits there, but very good service and very very good food. I reapplied the sexiness between dinner and the concert and once more toward the middle of the concert. We got there very early and a young man chose a seat very near us though the place was nearly empty. Nothing else much to report from the concert except some very passionate sincere kisses with the husband. Overall, it was a just a fun night. I felt easy going, confident, and happy the whole time.

Best guess at he end of the night: IS/B

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The unknown sexiness experiment results:

This morning checked the bottles and confirmed my guesses were right. Friday was IS/A and Saturday was IS/B.

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Thank you for the tips. I tried extra IH on my wrists and P74 closer to me with better results for both. Also not using more than 2 different mones at a time.

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P91 came with my package. I had such big plans for what I ordered and I was so eager to try them after waiting until pay day and waiting for delivery day. So the P91 of which I knew absolutely nothing had to wait.

Yesterday after a day at the beach I decided to give it a try as we were winding down. I hadn’t worn any other mones all day. I gave myself a couple sprays on the wrists in the early evening, along with two sprays of Instant Shine on my chest, figuring you can’t really go wrong with Instant Shine.

I became strongly empathetic to my children and my husband with this combo. I felt like it was easy to identify their needs and a pleasure to meet them. This lasted a couple hours and by the time I’d gotten the kids ready for bed, I was ready too. While getting my son down to sleep I let him feel his baby sister kick in my tummy and we talked a little about how he would soon have 2 sisters. He was happy and I was happy.

I tried the same combo for work this morning. It turned out to be a day of technical difficulties and a few fires to put out right off the bat. No interactions or feelings that I could attribute to the mones. I might try again in a few days, but for now, I’d call p91 the “Good Mom”

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I haven’t been able to repeat the effect I got before with P91. I’ve tried it repeatedly at home and at work and I’m not sure what it does.

Instant Sexiness B is my favorite of the 2 types, and I’ve been using it at work. Mostly looking for a reaction from my work crush. It works as expected on just about everyone, though, most people are nicer and perhaps a shade more flirtatious. It suites me well.

Last week I wore IS/A one day, I sprayed some on my chest about half an hour before leaving work. I was the only one left in the office and was looking forward to my husband coming to pick me up. I noted he was a bit stand-offish. We stopped to pick up dinner at one of our favorite pizza places, and I went into the grocery store while we waited for the pizza to be ready. I didn’t notice much from fellow patrons, except when I got in line one of the two girls in line ahead of me went out of her way to make room for my items on the conveyor belt. The checkout clerk was obviously just going through the motions with the girls ahead of me, his perfunctory niceties came across surly and curt. His demeanor didn’t change for me much except one point in the transaction when he hesitated and looked at me kind of dumbstruck for a moment while he tried to remember his next line. It was subtle but I don’t think I imagined it.

Days later I told my husband I had been wearing IS/A and remarked that he seemed stand offish toward me while I was wearing it. He said to me he felt like he had a super model on his arm that night.

P74, Instant Shine, and Instant Honesty, and P91 as mentioned above have yielded no results that I can think of. Neither self effects nor hits from others. I’ve tried each in steering the IS/B, and I’ve tried every combination of 1 of the mones and 1 of the putatives. I get the hang over from IShine, but that’s about it. I did just hit the 3rd trimester of pregnancy so I figure either my hormones are overpowering the pheromones, or the absentmindedness in this stage of pregnancy is keeping me from accurate observation.

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P74, not sure what it does exactly, but I know I want more. Actually have a full size bottle of 15mcg. Husband reports feeling like he wants to follow me around when I wear it. I feel great when I wear it with my IS/B which I’m also currently out of.

Speaking of IS/B - it’s working wonders on my work crush, with whom I’ve developed a full on secondary relationship. We talk online all the time and find hidden moments to be together at work. We torment ourselves by trying to maintain a professional demeanor when others are present. It certainly feels just like when I first fell in love with my husband. This past Friday at work, after hours drinks with the work crew (I only had apple juice) ended with the two of us alone, very much enjoying our first kiss. That may have been heavily influenced by the very last of my IS/B to-go. I wont be able to order more IS/b until the end of next week, so I will definitely report whether things are different with my new love without it. I think his affections are genuine, that is - not purely mone-induced, because he has recalled specific events from months ago, long before the mones when he had made attempts to get close to me, however it might have been the Instant Sexiness that gave me the courage to make my own feelings known to him.

IS/a is not an option I’m going to explore any further, at least not at work. The few times I’ve worn it, my boss seems to hate me. I swear his normal friendly demeanor toward me turns to pure contempt. This result has been repeated 3 times. So the to-go I have of IS/A should last a long time and will be used only if the occasion seems to call for me to be an alpha female in non-work settings.