My Journal (With and Without the Pheromones)

I’m a sagittarius…part human, part animal, loves to travel, only takes the advice she things is worth something, and I don’t commit easily.

Yup, so I’ve noticed. Which is why, as a psychologist, I tend to put them in boxes so I can figure them out easier and figure out how to attract them. So far cancers are the easiest. Leos are fairly easy too. Geminis aren’t hard either, unless I do them wrong…which I’m wondering if somewhere a long the way I hurt him :confused:

They are hard to pin down, but I have dated a gemini once. I’ve found they like being friends first with their partner, which is what I like as well in a partner. One reason I like that tho is loyalty tho and it makes me question the geminis flakiness and see it as disloyalty. One night he’s liking it one way and the next I’m left wondering if it was just a dream. o.o Thank God I’m not a cancer or a taurus or I’d probably freak out at how distant he’s been.

I’d like to hook him like I did my ex. (My ex still talks to me and talks about how he’d love to get back together with me if he moves back…long story that would make things far more complicated then they should be). Idk…I’m not usually really attacted to gemini..they annoy me a lot actually, but theres just something about TG (D) that really gives me that charge of electricity.

When I read this I nearly spit my drink out.

This answered a question that’s been bothering me about someone I’m interested in and why she got mad at a certain situation.

Please do tell :smiley: All my friends are horoscope skeptics but its really helped me understand why people react or take action the way they do in general. Sagittarius, Leo, Libra, and Aries women tend to have more backbone and are more forthcoming from the ones I’ve had the pleasure of being around.

man, you have so many MALE fans here, lol…
so are you going to add all of them to facebook?

I will “never” make a facebook :wink: There arent enough girls to be her “sisters” so I suppose we try to be make shift “brothers” to HK.

I’ll PM you, HK if you want in on it I’ll share that privately, too much details, but I trust OA and you.

Lol well thats good to know, me being a sagittarius and all :wink:

Yeah I would agree. Knowing about all the signs really helps me pin point what a person is going to be like. I love guessing what sign they are then looking up their bdays on fb lol

Haha I don’t usually add people unless they add me first. Well except Steve, but come on, he’s Steve :stuck_out_tongue:

Yes, I’d like to hear the details. Sounds interesting!

Soooo no testings as of late. There is a bday party tom, but I’m not sure if I’m going yet because I have to take family photos saturday early in the day.

Update on TG (D): I left him a text last night because I saw one of his fraternity brothers was doing a dance to Single Ladies for this talent show thing. I thought it was pretty funny so I texted him to get a confirmation on it and maybe a funny story. No reply. Granted it was 12 am, but why no text the next day? >:frowning: lol I’m not as upset about this as I normally would be. Though I do wanna give him the cold shoulder now. Can’t stand this flakiness. My last ex (also a gemini) was somewhat flakey, but not this flakey o.o what gives?!
I still need to have that talk with him about him talking to me more, but now I’m wondering if it’s even worth it to pursue this.
Ugh, of cours I wanna pursue it, but not if I’m going to be seen as not valuable >.<

Well that was my rant for today.

Us guys like to pursue and girls like to be pursued. so Reverse it and you get the guy

You’re right Steve. But it’s how to get him to pursue me is the problem. This could be a job for pheros…and a lil charm.
I think maybe the reason why I have been so confused about this is because I thought I had this one in the bag because he’s liked me for so long…boy was I wrong

The BIGGEST letdown I had was when I heard from many people “She likes you” and I didn’t maintain the attraction and I thought, “ok she likes me done deal lets f*” booooooooooooooooy was I in for a surprise.

Remember that having an initial attraction only means the job is a little bit easier. When it comes to women, most men have the attention span of a butterfly. He’ll forget about it as soon as you make him chase you again.

Like this Pic way better than your previous Jedi one, dear.
With your dazzling feminine allure, now, you will have more male fans here :wink:
Way to go, and stirring up guys’ wacky limbic system, hehehe

He’ll forget about what? o.o
And do I want him to chase me or not? I’m confused. Sorry, I must have not had my wheaties this morning

Thank you :slight_smile:

Had a few guys telling me on facebook that this pic was very beautiful. Figured I’d switch it up and see what the fellas at Pherotalk thought of it as well :smiley:

Blaaaaah! I was thinking about it and I might end up going to that party tonight since I think my bff wants me to go. If I do I might see TG (D) there, but who knows. Maybe I’ll meet some other guys.

Anywho…I’m not sure how I’m going to react to TG (D) when I see him next. I’ll probably play it off like theres nothing wrong like I always do with people (I don’t generally get worked up over much and try to just forget so I can have a good time) but that won’t stop me from thinking about how he didn’t talk to me nearly all week. That offends me and if he’s not willing to be responsive then I really see no reason why this would work out. I have done the work…I even texted because I felt like talking to him. That’s more work then I do with any guy…really it is…I don’t really care about most guys, well at least not enough to text them first. And now I’m losing interest and I’m very confused. >.< Good thing I’m not feeling super mega lonely or I’d still be trying to make it work.
I’ll probably just play this off as nothing happened, pretend like I don’t like him back in the old days, and get on with my life :3

Hahaha lets see how long this lasts :wink:

TL;DR version.

Guys will forget easily if they are turned off by a girl for something as soon as another form of attraction comes their way again.

Just like your situation. Girl flaked on me, I was turned off. But she did certain things to get me to be interested again, and I disregarded her flaking on me and like completely forgot it even happend.

How that relates to you, is that the guy right now was in my situation, but as soon as you see him, and make him chase a little. Watch how much he’ll come back.

If he doesn’t, then he’s prolly just an ass. IMO

Thank for that insight. I think I will give him another reason to chase…just cus that psychologist part of me likes to test and see if certain strategies work. :stuck_out_tongue:

Bff has confirmed she is going to kidnap me tonight so I need to come up with a good party mix. I am thinking maybe MX135, but not sure yet since it is rare and valuable and I rarely use it unless I really really reallllllllllllllllllllyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy want to.

My personality has actually been amazing lately. 0 clinginess, confidence, commanding, friendly, involved, happy…and people are really responding well to me. Idk what it is, but my mood and personality have just really clicked into a good level. It almost makes me afraid to use pheros tonight because I don’t wanna ruin my awesome…ness lol. Still… :3 I want something that will attract the guys…not just TG. I need to show TG that I’m sought after by other guys.

I’m not sure if I mentioned it last time, but when i was hanging with TG and my guy friend last weekend I noticed TG didn’t like it when I mentioned his name or when I would put my focus on him. I’ve noticed that before with him back when we were just friends. And when he sees that he usually tries to get my attention and either clings to me or does something that makes people think I’m with him. hehe… :stuck_out_tongue: I gotz a plan.

Sooo combo ideas are greatly appreciated. Where my girlies at?! Guy and girl help with a combo is needed pronto!

I know jack about female pheromones. But spend time with TG, then go out and flirt with other guys but very subtle, very very subtle. It’s gotta be to the point of him thinking “is she flirting, is she not” and he’s going to try and man up and take you away from the rest of the guys. If it’s too blatant, you’ll piss him off and try to one up you, if its like you’re enjoying just being out and fun. Well, all I can say is.

Check and Mate.