So I joined this community like a month ago looking to improve my life after a pretty bad relationship with a girl. When i joined here and ordered my pheros that consisted of AMMO IO IH IS and TUTH I was exited to try them out and see how they worked. Well i just have to say its been an awesome experience. The problem with me is my confidence. I don’t know how to build it, and i dont know how to keep it. After the breakup my confidence was completely GONE! it’s funny though cause after i started to use IS and AMMO together I started to feel good and really noticed a change in my attitude. I spent the las week in Vegas and every day i was there I wore IS and AMMO one spray of each(One on the neck and one split between the wrists) now i don’t know if this is all in my head 
but i swear people would talk to me more then usual. I had this girl that was with her boyfriend and everything come up to me and just start talking to me about the shows that were going on around the city. THIS NEVER HAPPENS!! so I give credit to the pheromones on this one, but my biggest problem is wondering if its just all in my head. Well i guess I’m starting to ramble and i don’t even think this post has a point to it, but i just needed to share these things. any other advice would be great on what i can do to just help my confidence or just help me be better with the girls. I am moving to a new city where I am going to know absolutely NO ONE so I am kinda freaking out about it but I am really hoping pheros will help me meet people.
Hey bdarbe, I’m a new phero user too and I’ve had similar experiences. I’ve also questioned whether it’s just in my head or not but if like you said “THIS NEVER HAPPENS” then it’s probably the mones working.
I’ve also noticed changes in myself when wearing pheromones. When wearing IO and IS to the chest I feel much more outgoing, chatty, and confident. I have no problems walking up to strangers and just talking about anything. This is another indication to me that I think these mones actually work.
Also it seems like it might be a solution to your confidence problem. Hey…if mones work, why not use them on yourself too???
No offense but it’s not a solution to a confidence problem and it shouldn’t be. Granted certain pheromones and products can have mood lifting even confidence boosting self effect but that is temporary and can fade over time. I would suggest picking up some books on confidence and assertiveness since imo the two are interdependant upon each other. And practice whatever exercises they suggest. Your confidence needs to come from within to be of any value or lasting effect. One you get that issue addressed the mones will increase in effectiveness substantially.
You’re right Radman. It’s not a real solution to a deep seated confidence problem. What I’ve noticed is that wearing IS or IO, tends to make me more outgoing and social and less shy and brings out the more confident part of my personality.
I used to have a huge confidence/self-esteem issue and through years of self development work I’ve made enormous gains in that area. I would also suggest the same for anyone with similar issues. It’s a long road but immensely worth it.
I believe using pheromones (assuming they affect you the same way they affect me) can help with that though. It can help bring out the more confident parts of you and give you motivation to keep going on the road to self improvement by giving you short terms gains, it can let you see and feel what it’s like when you’re “on” or “in the zone” (so you have a better yardstick to measure your progress), and it can get you started on a positive feedback loop (better results = more confidence = better results, etc).
Used in conjunction with personal development I think mones can be a helpful tool; used by itself, it will probably just be a bandaid to cover up deep seated problems and won’t help much at all.