hi,
this is saxash and I came here thru a google search about pheromones..
the very fact that pheromones have an effect on subconcious mind is interesting enough for me to yearn for more info about it..
ok.. i’m 26, very male and presently in Mumbai,India. I like a girl in my office.. and hav been dating her for about 3months… shopping and going to the movies and many dinners… we talk about anything even her past sexual encounters etc. and her crushes.. once she even mentioned that she had fantacised about me on some ocassions.. so far so good..
but here starts my problem…
i find it really hard to get intimate with females.. and even in my past relationship it was the girl who had initiated the first kiss… so now i’m in a fix again.. i know she wants me.. but i just do not know how to start.. i know its very unmanly of me to expect her to initiate but i’m just too shy to initiate any physical relationship(PS : she also has a bf.. so this makes it lil bit more unsure whether i shud really go for it..)
also now it seems that she has given up completely.. and thinks that i’m not interested in her sexually which is totally not true.. i am interested in her sexually but more than that i’m in love with her and see her as my life partner rather than someone with whom i wud just have physical flings…
can pheromones help in my case???
any help wud be greatly appreciated.
Im a total noob here myself, so Im nervous to make any suggestions.
But what Mike has suggested sound like a very good start!
I just wanted to give you a warm welcome!
The pheromones and human behavior is very interesting isnt it?
Sounds like this is the place for you! So dig around and see what kinda trouble you can get yourself into!
Your immediate problemm is to let her know that you’re interested. Pheromones can help but they won’t do it for you.
I think ammo is a good start. When you wear it perhaps initiale some light physical contact like touching her wrist. Let her know that you’ve been thinking of her, but don’t say anything explicit enough to get you fired. She already opened up to you a bit and you need to reciprocate. The ammo will send an “interested” signal but you need to back it up with your behavior.
Mones help in attraction and socialization. They can even cause arousal and I think something like AMMO and Ishine which doesn’t come on overly strong and will help your confidence levels. As GW mentioned they wont do it for you. They open the door to opportunity but you have to walk through that door.
Your gonna have to kiss her dude. I would suggest using the mones as a tool and next time you are together in a situation where you have some privacy just take a deep breath and lean in close and kiss her. She is not gonna yell at you or anything. You have already established a rapport and attraction. Keep picturing in your mind yourself doing this it will make it easier when you do.
and presently in Mumbai,India. I like a girl in my office.. and hav been dating her for about 3months… shopping and going to the movies and many dinners… we talk about anything even her past sexual encounters etc. and her crushes.. once she even mentioned that she had fantacised about me on some ocassions.. so far so good..
which is totally not true.. i am interested in her sexually but more than that i’m in love with her and see her as my life partner rather than someone with whom i wud just have physical flings…