Need advice - Pheromones to repel

Hi all, been a while since I’ve been on here. I need some advice. I was wondering if anyone had any thoughts on a phero blend that I could use to dissuade my girlfriend from being interested in me. We have been together for quite some time and I have been wanting to break up with her for a while but I still feel quite a bit of compassion and don’t want to break her heart. She has been really stressed with school and work and I don’t want her to feel like she’s getting dumped. I think that if I made her feel disgusted with me somehow then it would be easier to break up amicably. Any assistance is greatly appreciated

I am curious about this myself. I was wondering if anyone has a mix like what you are talking about

Bathe in A314 oil, TUTH and Instant Jerk and all the MXs, Putatives, Experimones. I’m talking a full bath worth here..
Unless it creates the worlds strongest pherobomb mix..Then you’re gonna have to take a life raft out with you the women will be so turned on!

In all seriousness, just do it with words, like normal people. If you rely on pheromones for such specific interactions, you’re gonna forget how to function without them! :stuck_out_tongue:

Yeah, I know I need to just do it. :\ shit sucks

Plan A: Try to break up.

10 mcg unbuffered eNone.
Most women just panic and think you’re a creeper.

(This tactic is probably not endorsed by anyone at AD
we promote spreading good vibes here. )

Then be critical of personal character / flaws,
rather than putting in the effort to see the situation from her point of view.

“You always screw things up” - eyeroll, smirk, etc.
And don’t accept her repair attempts.
get defensive about anything she says (cross-talk, stonewall, etc.)
don’t accept her influence (that alone works 90% of the time)

Basically, do the opposite of what Dr. John Gottman would tell you.

That’s usually enough to end most relationships.
The eNone will just make her panic faster.

or Plan B: realize that “compatibility” is only about 10% of the reason any relationship works. The other 90% is grit: how dedicated you are to creating common ground and mutual respect and cultivating shared appreciation, etc.

Be clear about what you want - do you want to see other people? Do you want more space? What drives you? But at the same time show her empathy and compassion. What is her situation and what drives her?

Straight RONE high dose 10 mcg or more may help you

He wants to break-up with her, not bore her to death! :open_mouth: :stuck_out_tongue: :smiley:

Otherwise, something rone heavy might well do the job - A314/P75 in fairly high doses and back that up with some suitably hectoring/instructive behaviour on just about everything. Then text her a hundred or more times a day to see she’s doing it just rigt and demand extensive postmortem briefings to back this-up.

She ought to be heading for the hills in no-time!

At least you have compassion. A lot of people will just simply send 'em packing their bags without an ounce of respect or dignity.

I’m not really sure how you could do this, without negative consequences (like her hating you). Its a shame you can’t come to some kind of mutual agreement where you terminate the relationship, whilst remaining civil, or even friendly, with one another. But no one person is the same, so I couldn’t recommend anything other than sticking to your intuition and letting everything fall into (or in this case - ‘out of’) place.

Edit: By the way your initial post is worded, it sounds like you still genuinely care about her. Is her stressing over school something worth breaking up over? You may regret it in the future, as the way you’re wanting to end things will mean you won’t have the opportunity to ever show that you still care, even as a friend. As you still care for her, I think you should have a calm discussion, and even use 'mones to your advantage (IO, IH), to let her know how you feel. Perhaps she could agree to given each other a little space whilst the current circumstances are occurring. Then, when things have calmed down, you can then recommend you either resume the relationship, or try and remain friends by explaining to her that you really do care about her, and if it were any other girl who you genuinely didn’t care about, you wouldn’t of gone to so much effort to try and give everything a positive outcome. Then it’s up to her to decide how things end, and you’ve done your part. I’m not really sure, I don’t know you both personally, and I’m also not the best at articulating my emotions myself.

Good luck :o

Mmm? O.K. Mobo. If you say so. .

I find RONE makes people leave me alone, they are respectful but don’t hang around. I thought that was the idea , he wants her to leave him alone. A314 is likely to attract her more really. IMO
I will keep my opinions to myself in future.

I have seen the excessive alpha-Rone exhibit a spacing effect as well.

It is also probably the most unpleasant thing to wear, in terms of self-FX.

I know people have complained about A1, but 10+ unbuffered alpha-RONE makes you feel like the world’s doormat

“Battered old sofa” would be the words I’d use!

Nonsense - Speak-up! Your opinions are as valid and valuable as anyone else’s here.

It would get pretty boring if we all agreed on everything all the time, wouldn’t it? :smiley:

Yes, it would. I agree…

:smiley:

Oh, jonny, are you breaking up with us? :open_mouth: :smiley:

Just kidding. Of course I would object to that quote above. :slight_smile:

mogi, make sure you’ll never see her again after breaking up. because once the effect of the mones are off, I think the feelings will return. I might be wrong here. Im simply assuming.

Another assumption is to wear the same mix everytime she’s around. :smiley:

I am now speaking nonsense? Your comments are arrogant and dis-enfranchising .
I feel you need to check your attitude when communicating on a forum.
I gave my opinion that is all.

Oh, come on guys, I don’t think anyone intended to come across as arrogant, or negative in any way. It’s hard to read and perceive something how it was intended over the internet, without knowing the person on a personal basis, or without being used to their way of communicating.

I’m sure mobo didn’t intend the ‘nonsense’ in a derogatory way, but I can see how it can seem so.

Perhaps you should both should just quit while you’re ahead with one another, because as a whole, this forum is probably the friendliest and most welcoming I have come across, and it’s a shame when there is a glimpse of negativity :frowning:

Its certainly not ill-meant in any way!

But I make no apologies for sometimes being quite offhand - that’s just how my sense of humour works. It is absolutely nothing personal/derrogatory! :smiley: