TG is attracted to me, wants to have sex with me but his conversations are very brief in fact too brief. rarely ever talk more than 5 minutes. Hasn’t invited me on a real date it’s can I come over. I am attracted to him also but I am not ready to go to bed with him. He wants sex I want conversation.
I am with a friend and she is talking to him so he looks at her and says “nosemolester is scarred of me”
Is that a good or bad thing? Or is he just talking sexually?
Was he wearing instant jerk - I think he wants to screw you and move on.
not very nice I know but some guys are like that.
Sounds a little bit like a guy who has been reading some of the PUA literature - it definetly has the feel of a NEG / Trying to make you jealous of his interaction with your female friend.
Good thing or bad thing I don’t know - I get the impression that even if he hasn’t read any of that literature his intentions were to put you off-guard.
My suggestion if you aren’t interested in sex until you have gone on some real dates - SAY IT!
He will either man up and take you out (doesn’t necessarily mean that he isn’t only interested in sex, it just means that he isn’t lazy about getting it). Realize that to have sex with you he will have to work at it and fuck off (definetly if that is all he wants), or he will continue interacting with you in a similar way in which he is currently interacting (Then I would say he is not interested, or too scared to show he is interested).
If he does take you on dates but still refuses to have a conversation and is aggressive about trying to take you to bed - watch out because sex is probably all he wants.
i would say something like this…
“You want to have sex with me and we don’t even know eachother that well?” - see what he says from there… if he says yes… then tell him your not that kind of woman and you’d like to date 1st.
~Haz~
Better get what you want before sex… I thought all women wanted that, conversation, validation, and someone to listen.
To me it sounds like he is getting overly turned on and is having trouble keeping on track around you. (but that could just be my opinion. glance at his shorts and smile next time.)
could be, good or bad, I am thinking he just wants to get laid, now if he isn’t willing to take the proper steps to get there, you should send him packing, no I am not talking games, but conversation, maybe dinner and a movie, then a passionate roll in the hay.
Each level needs to be met with proper reward, date with dinner, a passionate kiss. second dinner, kissing and some petting. etc…
All else fails tell him you are older fashioned and want to take it slower, if you were looking for a horizontal partner you could have found one already.
Sounds like booty call to me. He doesn’t want any kind of relationship. Time for you to move on … Next!!
Has it always been this way? Is this brand new? It sounds like a booty call to me too - BUT if he is asking your friend if you are scared it may mean differently. Maybe he is scared… Or he is a player and thinks that calling you scared is a opener and a “dare”
Enjoy your attraction without a sense of obligation. If you do want to have sex with him at some point and he’s not ponied up the desired conversation, oh well, that’s okay. And if you don’t, and he never does, and he decides he can only enjoy being with you for sex, well, he will end his interest and that should be okay, too.
However, it does not hurt to just flat out ask. If he is preoccupied with sexual thoughts of you, then remember: